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Right lemmy settle a few things, as I'm a black guy myself and I kinda find it dissapointing to see people are still stereotyping ¬_¬

1. Black people tend to be in close knit social groups that are very active and usually confident individuals, which means they interact with women more due to their confidence.
2. Not all black people have game. I myself was classed as the geeky black guy in school who was wierd and watched Anime + played games alot.
3. I'm not so sure about the testosterone thing Hakuna but its plausible.
4.DJ_Z, you're "friend" is very stupid. There are black people all over the world that are confident and have good game, Im not sure where/what the "projects" is but I'm assuming you mean lower class areas. I live just outside london and there are middle/upper class black people who have great game.

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It's a cultural thing. I think that a lot of the problem with guys nowadays is that we have been taught to be overly respectful of women and not treat them as sex objects or degrade them. Which is a good lesson, just taken too far. To the point that guys nowadays are taught that their sexuality toward women is a bad thing that need to be controlled and repressed. We simply do not allow ourselves to express our sexual nature as we should be able to.

But in black culture, this stigma doesn't exist to the same extent. They tend to be more open and free about their sexuality and sexual needs and interests. This is also the case in Hispanic culture as well. Which I can speak on personally. In Mexico, to this day, guys get women's attention by whistling and making clicking sounds with their mouths, like calling a dog. There is no shame or stigma behind it. They acknowledge that they are men and that they are attracted to beautiful women and that there is nothing wrong with showing that in public. It is natural and normal to them.

No fear, no shame, no repression. No societal stigma. That's why they are better. They have nothing holding them back.

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Right lemmy settle a few things, as I'm a black guy myself and I kinda find it dissapointing to see people are still stereotyping ¬_¬

1. Black people tend to be in close knit social groups that are very active and usually confident individuals, which means they interact with women more due to their confidence.
2. Not all black people have game. I myself was classed as the geeky black guy in school who was wierd and watched Anime + played games alot.
3. I'm not so sure about the testosterone thing Hakuna but its plausible.
4.DJ_Z, you're "friend" is very stupid. There are black people all over the world that are confident and have good game, Im not sure where/what the "projects" is but I'm assuming you mean lower class areas. I live just outside london and there are middle/upper class black people who have great game.

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Yes I also thought the initial post was a bit stereotypical. But since I live in Los Angeles, I understood what he meant. Obviously not all black guys have game and are inherently good with women. But if you've been to any clubs in larger cities in America, there is a noticeable phenomenon where certain groups of races exhibit more confidence and forwardness than people of other races. Now this is not a racist issue, as I stated in my previous post, its more of a cultural issue. I have seen similar trends in Hispanic, Italian, and Armenian culture. Picking up women is almost like a rite of passage in these cultures, so these guys excel at pickup, while others are self-repressed.


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Right lemmy settle a few things, as I'm a black guy myself and I kinda find it dissapointing to see people are still stereotyping ¬_¬

1. Black people tend to be in close knit social groups that are very active and usually confident individuals, which means they interact with women more due to their confidence.
2. Not all black people have game. I myself was classed as the geeky black guy in school who was wierd and watched Anime + played games alot.
3. I'm not so sure about the testosterone thing Hakuna but its plausible.
4.DJ_Z, you're "friend" is very stupid. There are black people all over the world that are confident and have good game, Im not sure where/what the "projects" is but I'm assuming you mean lower class areas. I live just outside london and there are middle/upper class black people who have great game.

-Tubb
Yes I also thought the initial post was a bit stereotypical. But since I live in Los Angeles, I understood what he meant. Obviously not all black guys have game and are inherently good with women. But if you've been to any clubs in larger cities in America, there is a noticeable phenomenon where certain groups of races exhibit more confidence and forwardness than people of other races. Now this is not a racist issue, as I stated in my previous post, its more of a cultural issue. I have seen similar trends in Hispanic, Italian, and Armenian culture. Picking up women is almost like a rite of passage in these cultures, so these guys excel at pickup, while others are self-repressed.

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I asked a buddy of mine who grew up in the hood about it.

It isn't black guys who are better, it's guys who grew up in the projects, in the bad neighborhoods. If you've been mugged, if you've seen your friends get shot and your neighbors get arrested for running drugs, ending up in jail for years, you really don't care if a girl gets upset you find her sexy as hell.
Seriously doubt you have any black friends. I mean who would say something that idiotic those comments sound like that of a white boy who's watched "boys in the hood" and "menace to society" and now thinks he's down with the homies...

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I asked a buddy of mine who grew up in the hood about it.

It isn't black guys who are better, it's guys who grew up in the projects, in the bad neighborhoods. If you've been mugged, if you've seen your friends get shot and your neighbors get arrested for running drugs, ending up in jail for years, you really don't care if a girl gets upset you find her sexy as hell.
Seriously doubt you have any black friends. I mean who would say something that idiotic those comments sound like that of a white boy who's watched "boys in the hood" and "menace to society" and now thinks he's down with the homies...
Could be.

I'm a middle class white kid, and the easiest social groups I ever got myself into were the poor ones. Trying to get in with some rich friends was hard as hell.

Once was chillin with black kids who lived in a foster home. I was wearing a button down and glasses, so they started off by calling me a narc and a prep, but it ended up being the best peacocking. They were dysfunctional as hell though. One guy was threatening people with a samurai sword, and their girls were kind of dirty looking. Definitely not the straight white teeth of the rich folk. They danced so fucking well though.

They grew up in a tough spot and were definitely worse off socially because of it. DJ, don't quote your friend when you haven't been where he was. Speak from your own experience, it won't steer you wrong.


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Geeks are very rarely black, and black guys (stereotypically) seem to be more confident & charismatic, being smoother socially and with girls. Why is this? I'm not suggesting it's genetically due to their skin colour, but is it related to some aspect(s) of their upbringing? Is it related to their apparent dominance of sports, being typically faster & stronger than white guys?

Or is it just a stereotype?
Ill tell you straight up something you might not wanna hear! its confidence and persistence to do better! that is all my friend.

Don't accept not to get shot down! lol this what drive me to do better the next time.


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Geeks are very rarely black, and black guys (stereotypically) seem to be more confident & charismatic, being smoother socially and with girls. Why is this? I'm not suggesting it's genetically due to their skin colour, but is it related to some aspect(s) of their upbringing? Is it related to their apparent dominance of sports, being typically faster & stronger than white guys?

Or is it just a stereotype?
Ill tell you straight up something you might not wanna hear! its confidence and persistence to do better! that is all my friend.

Don't accept not to get shot down! lol this what drive me to do better the next time.


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I think the influence is from hip-hop, rap, rnb - These songs are usually about confidence/chicks/money/cars and being players, if you start young listening to these rap stars, you start imitating them at some point. I dont even have to mention how women are presented in the videos, objects for sexual gratification.


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Confidence, broness and all that.

Notice that black guys hang around in groups and when one tries to chat a girl up his "bros" will have his back of he gets rejected. Simple.


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Like any group of people with a cultural "community", men are expected to be men. They're macho, they make money, and they chase women.

My grandmother told me stories about the boldness of Italian and Greek men back in her day. Strong communities, same mentality.


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Geeks are very rarely black, and black guys (stereotypically) seem to be more confident & charismatic, being smoother socially and with girls. Why is this? I'm not suggesting it's genetically due to their skin colour, but is it related to some aspect(s) of their upbringing? Is it related to their apparent dominance of sports, being typically faster & stronger than white guys?

Or is it just a stereotype?
Several reasons (and not ALL black guys are better):

1. naturally higher testosterone levels produce greater natural pherimones
2. culturally weakness is punished, so they are raised more naturally alpha
3. in many cases it's the "thugs" that have the game, which stems from mild or greater lack of care for others, thus making them more "dangerous" in the eyes of women
4. We all come from dark skinned tribes in africa and studies have shown that subconciously darker skin tones are more averagely attractive to women than lighter ones
5. Culturally many black men are raised to flaunt what riches they have, this is essentially ingrained peacocking.
6. the myth of larger anatomy (though only somewhat true plays a factor)
7. Last but least anatomically black men tend to be thinner/more muscular at younger ages (due to higher natural testosteron production in teenage years) and tend to have desirable figures (however they also tend to burn this out faster in later years) - the median ages for dating the most desireable women 18-25.


Does this mean EVERY black man is more desireable? NO. But from a physical attraction standpoint they have a small leg up, same as they do for running and jumping due to ankle structure and higher bone density (but NOT swimming as the more dense bones gives them poor boyancy).

Every race has pro's and con's.

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