...well that girl which i met before 1 month.. i told her that i love her and she told me that she love me too.. but she was acting cold so i asked her today if she really love me .. she said that she liked me a lot and she is not sure if she love me.. Well experienced guys around here help me... What to doooooo how to deal with this situation and how to make her love me ...... i love her so fuking much

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First of all my friend, without any disrespect I think what you feel is love, as in the sense you fall in love with someone but you don't love the girl yet as in pure unconditional love so chillout, relax and the worse comes to worse you break up with her, you feel like shit for a month and then another girl comes your way.

Secondly, back off, play it cool, don't tell her how you feel, dont be needy! If I were you I would lay back on the texting and meeting up with this girl so that she starts feeling your absence.

If this doesn't work out then my friend I am sorry but there is not much you can do to win this girl if she doesnt want you. We cant make someone love us if they dont want to. But if we play the game right then for sure we can intregue that other person to fall in love with us...

I'm going to take a different approach and more or less be an ass to you. I think your coming off as needy and overbearing. She already told you that she loves you. She told you again that she liked you a lot but didn't know if she loved you! Why do you need her to love you? Why is her likening you a lot not enough? Can you define the difference between the two, I cannot? My dog loves me a lot and she will lay in my lap and though I enjoy the attention after awhile it gets on my damn nerves and I'm cold to her. same thing here, I'm sure you compliment her multiple times a day. I'm sure you text her and text her, I'm sure you have long talks on the phone. You ever hear the saying too much of a good thing is a bad thing? That's what your doing here. By trying so hard your pushing her away. Look how your acting your freaking out and asking for advice bc she said I like you a lot, you love her so fucking much. Your not in control of your emotions, nothing in this world is less attractive then a man that is not in control of their emotions. Let me explain what I mean, James Bond sexy cool badass. His entire personae screams confidence, smooth, calm in control. Right now to a complete stranger you come off as a bitch ( no offense) you are a man, you do not discuss feelings you just show them. I'm not talking about complimenting or buying gifts. If she looks hot, look her up and down smile walk over and kiss her, not make out. This will say to her, I look good it was worth the effort to impress him. Telling her she looks good does nothing show her you think she looks good. Let her say I love you, and look her square in the eyes and say I love you. You know this chick likes you/loves you. The only reason you want her to say it is to feed your ego. If she's being cold then be cold back why beg for her attention, it's not your fault she's being cold. I think all men including my self try to impress women to much. If she is being distant or cold ask her what's wrong, when she says nothing say okay and go on about things, she will tell you if she wants you to know. Let her text you and from time to time say your busy and you will talk tomorrow. You want her at your becon call not the other way around. Doing things like this puts thing into the natural order, women are with men for security comfort etc drooling over her makes her disgusted. Doing these small things will make her love you

Truth right there! Props.

well u are right.. but she never texts me first... when i ask her why she don't text me she says i am the man i should text her first... and she is always telling me whenever her friend says something about me she says i am good couple with her friend...Sorry for bad english

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