Hi guys,

doing good ?

First, I'm the kind of guy who has high standards. I rarely see some HB10s, but trust me, when I see one, it is one.

Tonight, this girl didn't add me as a friend, but only left a inbox in which she told me '' she liked my face and wanted to say hi ''

The funny thing is, that's a true facebook account, she has only 400 facebook friends but, all the pics have around 30 likes and she has a lot of wallpost.

How do I respond to this ?

I know , I definitely should not add her.

Should I go direct ? Like this : '' Thanks. Well, I'm not a lot on facebook ( which is very true ), but take my number we will have a chat. ''

WHAT DO YOU THINK ? THANKS A LOT

You can go direct. Get her number though.

sounds good. That's what i'd do

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Hey mate,

i keep wondering why you should definitely NOT add her... Unless she doesnt care for her privacy and has multo multo pictures at your disposal even though you arent friends, how do you know she really is as hot as that one picture she chose to put as her profile picture? So i would certainly add her and check her profile.

She said 'i like your face and i want to say hi'. Nothing more, nothing less. I got a double feeling about this, because it happened on facebook. it seems like an IOI, but because of facebook, you are not sure if she meant it or not.

I wouldnt go for the number just to do some 'text gaming'. She is either interested or not, and that is what i would want to know. And if she is interested, i would like to get to know her better, which i am not able to do through texts.

So i say: "hi! Yeah, i like your face too! Lets meet up and something fun so i can get to know you better". If she doesnt want to, but needs to get to know me better first before meeting, she can do so through facebook chat. I would prefer to hear her voice through telephone, but that could turn to be quite expensive. I dont do 'text game'.

So my advice: add her, tell her you like her face too, you want to get to know her and you want to do so by doing something fun together.

If it was a hoax, all you will do is chat through facebook, she will make a lot of promises and never fullfill them and waste your time. If she meant what she said, you will meet up or have some good and fun conversations on FB. if that happens, tell her you like her (if you still do) and ask again to meet up. If she likes you too, you will meet up, if not, she will find excuses for it.

Cheers and good luck!

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Engage her in some form to conversation and gauge her replies. See, if you will be interested in meeting her at a personal level or not.

Unless you've spent a good solid week or two, with them online and on the phone. I'd rather you not be so quick about asking them out, there has to be, just has to be a base level of comfort which should be established here.

Don't go charging in thinking that you've nothing to lose. There could be an opportunity here, interested and willing to explore. Be smart. Act well.

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Thanks a lot guys, i appreciate

im probly too late as i was browsing threads but decided to resurrect it cus i think this is useful. this exact thing happened to me as a junior in highschool. a hot girl inboxed me a few times saying she thought i was cute, and would fbook chat with me just saying things like i decided to chat a random person today. bullshit. that is the hb showing interest in pretty bold way. in this instance i would say something like thats really funny cus i like your face too. so much so id like to see it in person over coffee. whats ur number.