Are you a Wussie?!? Look below at the different types of Wussies. Remember the Wussie tries to be sweet, nice, accomidating, and approval seeking type of person. I'm sure if you aren't one you know this person well.

The Victim - The tend not to take personal responsibility for their actions. They dramatize things in their life to get attention. Can't easily slip out on a bad day when you don't control your emotions. Let's say someone keyed your car, and you go out and start bitching. You secretly don't control your emotions, and the people you know realize it.

The Nice Guy- Believes he should go out of his way to be sweet nice and understanding no matter what the circumstances. They don't draw boundaries and stand up for themselves very often. They typically harbor in the inner belief that they are better than others because they are so nice. Remember, when you are being nice to get something back you are being manipulative.

The "Yes, but she's different wussie."- Many long term relationships are screwed up because of this. They don't be a wussie mindset is dropped and then she leaves shortly afterwards. When you talk to these guys, you get the you're probably right, but get off my case shoulder shrug. Typically, there is a comment about how this one is special.

The "I want her to like me for me wussie"- Many guys argue tooth and nail about the techniques. They don't feel they need to do anything differently. The "I want her to like me for me wussie, have an idealistic fantasy about a woman falling for who they are without them doing anything different. They go months and months without dates.

The "there's this one special girl wussie"- Also known as "one itis". You see these pop up on the forum a lot under the newbie posts or sticking points. To quote David D. ~ "If there is one question that I get so often that I could have a phaser stun gun to use on guys who ask it, it's this question. There's this one special girl, I got to have her, how do I get her question...The only thing this obsession says about you is you are a world class wussbag!" It's cool that you really like a girl, just don't get obsessed with her.

David D. ~ "When you let your inner wussbag out to roam freely, only bad things will happen!"

Thanks to David DeAngelo for helping us recognize our inner wussie!

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lol, even the phaser stun gun wouldn't stop some guys . . . or girls for that matter.

Im not a wussie, im just mad, real mad, raging infact, completly off my case, im a, ima, ima do somethin crazy! arrggghhhhhh!

na only playin

Im alright, im cool, not a problem.

Which catagory do i fall into?
The Victim
a victim of many things

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think i come under the one-itis lol. my problem is im lazy most of the time and can never be arsed fuck around with women lol just the odd quiky now n then, but i have recent got noing this grl and iv ended up in the friend zone becuase she got a boy friend, so im going have to get rid of him b4 i can make any head way but i fall under the one-itis wussie and dont no how to be like i would be if i was just trying bed a girl lol

women can b a powerfull object, i just dont no how handle this one

ps any help with my situation would be great, the forum is "how to get my best friend"

Yeah if you look I responded to your post along with some others. Well one of the ones you posted because it looks like you posted in twice! Check your post!

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

I'm the one-itis wuss except I actually had my one-itis for a large period of time in life, so I guess I'm a half-breed between the one-itis wuss and the "Yes, but she's different" wuss?

Admission in the first step on the path to recovery, isn't it?

DavidD is right, everytime i have let inner wuss out for a stroll it always stuff things up, unless your a hardass 'i eat fire and make all the rules' you are a failure wussbag virgin.

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What a title!