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I think you are professional dancer.thanks for the information.Your ideas and tactics are awesome. I am student. I like to become a professional dancer.

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Edit well i just saw What your so call game is clown:

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sex addict,
Learning a fair bit from your thread. Thanks for helping us guys.
I've been having a couple of double digit lay years, and tend to get a lay a month or two. And sometimes 3-4 in a month. But at other times I have dry spells that go on for 2-3 months. So I would like to be more consistent. I've had 6 years at this, and should be a whole lot better than I am.

I've changed my approach style since I started reading this thread.

Instead of going for the hottest girl in the place, or dropping down and looking around and approaching indiscriminately - Ive changed my approach behaviour. Over the past week I've been doing your style.

Ive stopped approaching women who are in groups. I think they're low yield approaches. I now tend to approach women who are alone or with a friend. And the ones who give me eye contact. I approach less hot women than the ones I used to. Though it still feels difficult to drop down, as I was getting better at approaching, and generating attraction with the hotties. But thats still early game, and my close rate is still nowhere as much as I'd like with the hotties. I was getting better until I decided to play it your way. Go for the ones who are already interested in me, or give me eye contact. Though Im still missing the eye contact or indicators of interest, and only realise after the night that there was something with a couple of girls that I didn't follow up.

I have a specific problem Im dealing with - I get women giving me eye contact and coming near me with an approach invitation. Or even coming near me, after I've had a short chat with them before. But if I don't approach within that 5-20-30 second window, they move away.

How do I make best use of that little window. I'd like to think I have more time, wait for a bit more eye contact to get int. Maybe at least a minute or two to get in there. As I dont want to seem too pushy. But looks like 5-30 seconds is all I get.

So yeah, would appreciate any ideas on how Im meant to be using that window.
Ive had a couple of double digit lay years bub. Sure, It aint fabulous, but If you're hitting that, I'll take my hat off to you.


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I think you are professional dancer.thanks for the information.Your ideas and tactics are awesome. I am student. I like to become a professional dancer.

no i am not a professional dancer, you do not need to be a professional dancer, just a competent one...

Salsa, swinging, country, ballroom or any partner dancing, is not recommended for my game to much "courtship"

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Edit well i just saw What your so call game is clown:

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sex addict,
Learning a fair bit from your thread. Thanks for helping us guys.
I've been having a couple of double digit lay years, and tend to get a lay a month or two. And sometimes 3-4 in a month. But at other times I have dry spells that go on for 2-3 months. So I would like to be more consistent. I've had 6 years at this, and should be a whole lot better than I am.

I've changed my approach style since I started reading this thread.

Instead of going for the hottest girl in the place, or dropping down and looking around and approaching indiscriminately - Ive changed my approach behaviour. Over the past week I've been doing your style.

Ive stopped approaching women who are in groups. I think they're low yield approaches. I now tend to approach women who are alone or with a friend. And the ones who give me eye contact. I approach less hot women than the ones I used to. Though it still feels difficult to drop down, as I was getting better at approaching, and generating attraction with the hotties. But thats still early game, and my close rate is still nowhere as much as I'd like with the hotties. I was getting better until I decided to play it your way. Go for the ones who are already interested in me, or give me eye contact. Though Im still missing the eye contact or indicators of interest, and only realise after the night that there was something with a couple of girls that I didn't follow up.

I have a specific problem Im dealing with - I get women giving me eye contact and coming near me with an approach invitation. Or even coming near me, after I've had a short chat with them before. But if I don't approach within that 5-20-30 second window, they move away.

How do I make best use of that little window. I'd like to think I have more time, wait for a bit more eye contact to get int. Maybe at least a minute or two to get in there. As I dont want to seem too pushy. But looks like 5-30 seconds is all I get.

So yeah, would appreciate any ideas on how Im meant to be using that window.
Ive had a couple of double digit lay years bub. Sure, It aint fabulous, but If you're hitting that, I'll take my hat off to you.
dude, this is not a pissing contest, but you are more than welcome to have a discussion and discuss strategy... cool dude! I am a humble dude, and i am willing to learn from anybody, i am just sharing what i have been doing and has worked for me... Anyways, i forgot to tell you that i have a gf and i live with her, so the snl for me is too complex at this point in my life, that is also a reason for day 2... And no, your accomplishments are good, i was just fucking with you that day.... No hard feelings, one day we will sarge together, i will buy you a beer, and will laugh together at this post...

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Guys this video is just to good, so you can understand what i have been saying all along about snl, efficiency, fun etc... Take your time and watch this video is just that good, and he is 100% right on, specially you zingdoozer, you will understand better our disagreement:





[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4wcEJVzQzOk[/youtube]

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I've got a question, let's say you have most of the sets in a loud club, where there are like from 3 to a 7 girls, dancing in their own circle and you picked your tareget, how do you inflitrate that and then isolate, cause it's like closed group and they're in thier own little world

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I've got a question, let's say you have most of the sets in a loud club, where there are like from 3 to a 7 girls, dancing in their own circle and you picked your tareget, how do you inflitrate that and then isolate, cause it's like closed group and they're in thier own little world

The women circle castle
In my experience there are two types of circle castles: the ones who do not want to be broken, which usually happens early in the nighttime, women bonding time, and the ones who are just shy and are waiting to be broken by a guy with game and the right approach. In both cases you need to look for an opening, distraction, or gap in the circle. If and when it happens, it’s usually when women break eye contact, or one leaves the group or gets distracted. Otherwise it’s very difficult to open, even for a guy like me, but if they want to be opened you will feel it in the vibe and body language, and often one of the circle members or a couple of the circle members will give you proximity and/or open you.
I usually target one of the girls in the circle who, it appears through body language/vibe, will give me the least effort to open or looks the friendliest, and then I try to involve and gain the group. If they have little dildos, sexual stuff, or the girl has a wedding hat, I just say congrats and high five and dance with the bride to be seductive but respectful. Obviously she will not be my target, but her friends are. If it’s a birthday circle castle, I would say happy birthday and high five and again involve everybody for a minimal time, then select or attack my target accidentally. If the vibe or attitude not good I eject immediately


Read the poeticlyskuack dtf post couple of pages back, it will help a lot...or go to scienceofnaturalgame.com being able to be good at reads and women vibe etc... extremely important, when i am doing my game and open dancing or break castles what i am doing is buying time to get reads and vibe, more than anything, vibe not good i eject inmediately...Most communication in dance floor game in not verbal but through body language... About isolation, i do not worry much about isolation what i do is after involving the group minimally, i dance with my target and position her dancing in a way were she can not see the rest of the group(giving the back) and i escalate, if you focus too much on isolation you will get the cockblocks(best way to avoid the cockblocks is to win the group i do this by dancing MINIMALLY with everybody), once you have escalated and made out and aroused her, then isolation is simple, look couple of pages back the emotional connection bluff from sexaddict911, or i usually if i spend the night(towards the end of the night) dancing with her, when the club closes we walk out together target and group and i go to eat with them(sucks cause bad breath) or to the car then i ask for a ride to my car, i pretend i am leaving and give a kiss goodbye(then make out for a long time and turn her on) to a point of bj or sex...

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This is my club-game so far, i think it's pretty good but any advice is always welcome.
I just walk up to a girl and say: Hey, don't I know you from somewhere?
She watches me and says no. Then i'll say: thats the exact reason why I came up to you, my name is .....
Most of the time she laughs and introduces herselve. From that point I ask something like where are you from and after that i'll give her a neg(can be anything).
My next step is to say something like; there are a lot of beautiful women in this club, so tell me.. what makes you different from all the other girls? With this question i'm demonstrating higher value, she is the one who has to be lucky with me and not the other way around.
If everything is going the way I wanted and she is giving me IOI's, i'll dance with her for a bit and.....it's ON.

Some feedback is welcome!


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This is my club-game so far, i think it's pretty good but any advice is always welcome.
I just walk up to a girl and say: Hey, don't I know you from somewhere?
She watches me and says no. Then i'll say: thats the exact reason why I came up to you, my name is .....
Most of the time she laughs and introduces herselve. From that point I ask something like where are you from and after that i'll give her a neg(can be anything).
My next step is to say something like; there are a lot of beautiful women in this club, so tell me.. what makes you different from all the other girls? With this question i'm demonstrating higher value, she is the one who has to be lucky with me and not the other way around.
If everything is going the way I wanted and she is giving me IOI's, i'll dance with her for a bit and.....it's ON.

Some feedback is welcome!
I like your opener, and what you are doing is good, but this is mainly a dance floor game post, i would use openers outside of the dance floor area, and patios were the music is not loud or outside the club... by the time you are talking and saying all this stuff, i am grabbing ass, tetas and have my tongue down their throat... dance floor game is more none verbal body language, escalation, next week i will put on the videos, and the book will be available in amazon and kindle, I will post videos here, on what is that i do...


Anyways let me help you bit to make the opener smoother:

PUa:Don't i know you from somewhere?

hb: no

pua: exactly since we do not know each other and we do not have any friends in common i decided to take the initiative and introduce myself, i am lew, you are? when she gives you her name make it repeat it like you did not understand, ...right here you go for a kiss on the chick, hold her hand seductively and make eye contact, deep eye contact, caress her hand, look for compliance and escalate fast...

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Hey guys here is the video on how i open on clubs, please watch on youtube since in the thread the annotations are not showing the right wayl... GET THE BOOK!



[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=piR5smPoxRs[/youtube]

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DO NOT WATCH THIS VIDEO BEFORE FIRST WATCHING ^ VIDEO(The opening in club game) please watch on youtube since the annotations not showing up complete, Get the book, none of this shit will work without the book...




[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjymYC2IdZI[/youtube]

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This last saturday nite, i had the easiest pickup

I was walking through the club to the bar area, this girl just jumps in my way, smiling and keen. I just looked at her for 1 second, grabbed her head and tashed on. After that, she came back to my car...

I wish they were all this easy


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Skillz, the vids rock, thanks mate

Only suggestion is to film and upload in HD :)


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So basically went in the job Saturday night, I was thinking and was sure I was going to approach at least one girl and get a number, since I was doing my homework with openers and transition routine, hold a conversation, etc.
But when I went in and saw the girls I was totally crumbled, I was trying to hold some eye contact but no one was looking at me/at any other guys. So basically I told in my head, okay I have to do this without eye contact. So I saw a girl there, was my target after some events last week at the same disco and I was thinking, okay I should approach her. She was alone, but my ambition was knocked out, I just couldn't do but touch her hand lately that night when an ex-classmate introduced me to her, but because I was drunk, basically I went there, just nodded my head upwardly, touched her hand somehow, which I can't remember and left.
When I went home I was fucking frustrated, really. So I think I should be more confident in my look and ability to seduce a woman next time, not sure if all this courage will just go off when I will go next Saturday there.


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So basically went in the job Saturday night, I was thinking and was sure I was going to approach at least one girl and get a number, since I was doing my homework with openers and transition routine, hold a conversation, etc.
But when I went in and saw the girls I was totally crumbled, I was trying to hold some eye contact but no one was looking at me/at any other guys. So basically I told in my head, okay I have to do this without eye contact. So I saw a girl there, was my target after some events last week at the same disco and I was thinking, okay I should approach her. She was alone, but my ambition was knocked out, I just couldn't do but touch her hand lately that night when an ex-classmate introduced me to her, but because I was drunk, basically I went there, just nodded my head upwardly, touched her hand somehow, which I can't remember and left.
When I went home I was fucking frustrated, really. So I think I should be more confident in my look and ability to seduce a woman next time, not sure if all this courage will just go off when I will go next Saturday there.


I would advise against homework and memorizing stuff, just read and understand the lines etc... but do not memorize , that will make you calculated and will make you overthink, Just approach and say hey! then say i am cheyane, that is it, let the convo flow... Anyways, if you read the mistakes says NO DRINKING, and if you do just barely, drinking is false confidence...

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