Well I was with a friend on the train today and got pretty bored with nothing but guys in suits getting ready to go to work on board. So to kill a 45 minute we discussed our strategies. At that time I remembered about a number and decided to call it.

I finish my call and set up a second date.

But then my friend said that I called to early. I waited 4 days, and he tells me i should've waited a week.

what do you guys think how long do you guys wait to call someone?

Wow, I can't tell how many times I've hear this question and answered it. There are a few schools of thought on this one. Mystery is frequently quoted as to saying text her with some sort of little neg almost immediately after getting her # like 10 min afterwards. Style at one time has said to wait a few days to DHV yourself and not look needy.

In your situation I think waiting 4 days is just fine. As a general rule for myself I wait past 24 hours or longer. If I get a phone # on Friday night I'll call Monday, because Sunday is a day with family and can be hard to get a hold of some women.

Either way you called her and were able to setup a date so good job!

Here is what Mystery and Style have to say, it's toward the end of the segment.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Call her right away. You don't want her buying temperature to go down...lol

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NoboDY caN HaNG WIth MY STUFF...

True but the other thought it you don't want to show neediness either by calling her. She starts to think you don't have a life, if you start calling her all the damn time. It's a quick way to ruin your chances with some girls.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

48 hours.

completely random text, the same night...

OMG my this girl my friend picked up at the bar just threw up all over my jeans! I'm going to beat her!

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"He who risks the most, wins the most"

So last Thursday I met this girl, hang out wither her most of the night, wait 2 days, call and went out on a date last night which went great, except I didn't go for the kiss close..

So here's the thing, out of the last like 20 zillion chicks I've hung out with I actually felt this girl had some serious potential. We clicked on so many levels.... BUT she's leaving the country in 4 days. The distance isn't a huge deal to me cause I travel a lot but I feel like I pretty much have 4 days to figure out whats there.

So what to do? I'll definitley try and kiss close on the next date but wondering how I should go about really getting to know this girl that fast and finding out if there is something more there.

LMAO, that shit is funny and it also works on men....good one. But I have noticed it only works on those that have a real good sense of humor..

Damn, that quick...do pro-quos...its easy,effective, and sure is damn fast...go for it!!