Right after moaning about text game on here a couple of times and seeking advice with a couple of girls Ive decided to ask whats the best way to improve your text game? My problem it seems is that when I receive a text till I've sent a response my mind seems to go blank.

A couple of users have stated that I should escalate when texting, no idea how to do this. My sex life has literally been mostly pulling girls in a club then having sex with them after. Never taken a girl on a date before I've had sex with them.

I seem to be okay at opening a text conversation, heres one I used recently for feedback reasons.

(Girl I've already had sex with/haven't text in 2 weeks)

Me: You are fucking stunning.

Her: lol, whats brought this on.

Me: Thought I'd try and get your attention, worked. Back yet? (she went on holiday)

Her: Came back monday, blahblahblah, what have you been doing with yourself?

Texts went on for a couple of days, its gonna be a couple months still I can see her again so I'm spacing the replies out. We text about 2-3 times a day and then I give it a 2-3 day break sometimes so I don't run out of material.

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Heres an Opener that just led to random exbf bullshit so didn't bother continuing, advice? Haven't had sex with this chick but want to.
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Me: *empty message*

Her: Blank message?

Me: Huh? Don't make excuses to talk to me Laura.

Her: You sent me a blank message lol.

Me: Jesus if you really want to talk, how u doing?

Her: haha eghuk I'm just pissed off with Tristan.

I didn't bother replying after this.

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Heres a recent "closer" with a different girl. Not sure if this is what you would call a closer as I assume that means you score. Yet again I've already had sex with this chick. Heres a recent one for feedback reasons:
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Her: Blahblahblah, hows life SPAM?

Me: Life's pretty good SPAM, bring on london! u? Apart from swiping peoples drinks (she does it all the time, I consider this a neg?)

Her: Haha me too, home is so boring tho compared to London. Went to a friends house yesterday tho, went to Egg lol so good.

Me: Egg!? I'm disappointed in you Soph, much better clubs then that. Off to the cinema so night sexy.

Gonna reopen during the middle of the week next week. Considering going with a shock re-opener such as:

Me: The next time I see you we are going to fuck like animals.

or less shocking.

Me: Gotten over going to Egg yet?

Then when people start going out in London again il try a:

Me: Going out for a good one, fancy joinin?

Thus hopefully getting her to train it to london for a night out and some more sex.

Thanks for any feedback

There are a couple of rules to texting that I'm slowly getting. Every single word and sentence must have value. It must move the conversation forward.

It should also be light and playful, and of course escalating.

I use texting for a few things.

1. Test the waters with an opener

2. Attract and escalate

3. Set up a meetup.

That's it. You shouldn't really use it for anything else. And don't talk about yourself much. As much as possible try to include the two of you. For example Roleplays are GREAT. I once opened with "I've got the tickets to Italy for our honeymoon. Your husband, Tr@veler." And it got us into a massive role-play of honeymoon in Venice and having ice cream and sex adventures.

Always know your goal. What is it you are trying to achieve by today? By the last text how do you want to change her perception? More attracted? More sexual? Agree to a meetup? There is always a reason to text.

You can go all shock opener, but really just test the waters to see how she responds (lots of text, little text, lots of smilies, not many smilies, asking questions?) and then go from there. Always be fun, and stay congruent.

Other things to consider: you can ignore parts of her text completely if they don't drive the conversation forward. You don't have to respond to a question all the time. Sometimes you will get multiple questions like "Did you like the sushi? And what did you do today?" You don't need to reply to the sushi part. You choose. The today part can move the convo forward. Sushi is a dead end (unless you ask, you like sushi?). Always try to only have one thread going on.

People use different styles. I learnt from a natural to use proper grammar and capitals and stuff. Minimal smilies and just straight sentences. Others use the whole "LMAO, LOL" and smilies a lot. See what works for you. It should just be congruent with how you are in person.

Good luck.

Cheers for the post bro, was a good read. I liked the ignore text parts, I used to reply to everything.

Anyway so I didn't need to wait till next week for that. About an hour ago this shit went down. Feedback please altho I'm quite happy with it:

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Same girl
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Me: Egg!? I'm disappointed in you Soph, much better clubs then that. Off to the cinema so night sexy.

24 hours later...

Her: I want you inside me right now.

Me: The next time blahblahblah

Her: Literally soaking just thinking about it.

Me: You'll be even wetter when I have you against the wall.

Her: I'm so horny, I want you so bad right now.

Me: I want you to cum for me tonight!

Haven't heard anything back so either I was too alpha or shes had her fun and gone to sleep. Oh well, was funny.

Well, what was your goal with this, LOL. You could've just told her to come over "Come over here, I'll make you gush and scream".

Check out this post on Text game should give you tips and things you need to know to improve your text game.


http://theattractiveu.com/text-and-hooking-points/


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She lives about 3 hours drive away, most of these girls are girls I've met and shagged at university. Just want this one back when I return, seems it definitely doable.

Why didnt you go fuck her against the wall!! haha You should just have said..

"on my way"

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