Hey guys. This has been on my mind on and off for some time now. It could very well have to do with my very first lay, when the girl and I were all over each other for a day and a half, and then she decides that it was wrong the next day I call her.

But I have noticed the behavior, and I think you will agree with me, in many other girls, too.

Girls can change their mind from one day to the next in a night's sleep. I know we can, too. But let me give an example.

Say you meet a girl you're really into at a bar or wherever. You two have a great time, and she clearly likes you and is comfortable with you. You talk for 1-2 hours, a lot of touching, maybe even some kissing. It clicks. You too get on, this can go further.

Now, as I read posts in the forum, and myself included, the guy obviously wishes to pursue and take things further. Duh. It was ON, you both liked each other, chemicals in your body are still running slightly crazy.

But she doesn't want to anymore. She has made a complete 180. And you think to yourself, did this mean nothing to her? Was she just seeking attention?

I know girls do this, but I don't know why. I've not researched and don't have enough experience yet. So I'm asking you guys. Why and how can girls just switch it off, and why is it harder for a guy to do so?

seems to be just women exhibiting BPB(Bi polar Behavior) now this could be for multiple reasons. She could have friends telling her things that are influencing her opinion. You could also be dealing with a person who just isn't sure on anything. She also could be testing you somehow

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They didn't change it that quickly they changed it before you KNEW it is all. It's not them Bro, but it could be YOU!

SO WHAT WENT WRONG THEN?

1st and foremost; You didn’t build enough rapport, then enough sexual tension for her to want to rip your clothes off and ride you like a bad dime store pony.

The 2nd is because she didn’t feel comfortable with you! Comfort is massive when it comes to picking up women. You see women have to trust you and feel comfortable in your company, before they even think about sleeping with you.

Of course there are MANY other reasons women flake, change their mind, or whatever. But these are the two MAIN reasons.

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Hey man. Fair points. I'm not saying it isn't me. Maybe I don't build enough rapport. It could be I need more experience to better read situations.

But you know when you and a girl are alone, you got her away from her friends, you have a great conversation, she's in your arms, you've made your intentions clear, says she wants to meet up "Ok, I'll let you take me out for coffee. You like coffee?"

And then the next day she just doesn't respond to your text or whatever.

I've had women tell me they are madly in love, buying me clothes, blowing up my phone ect. Only to make that complete 180 on me THE NEXT DAY. I'd say I repelled them with neediness or worse they perceived neediness that wasn't there. Sometimes I'm just being nice lol. Try not to let it get to you because a good 50% of the time it's a shit test.

woman act on emotions not logic always remember that, you have no idea what else is going on in their lives at that moment

Meh, who knows, who cares. I've had women do this lots and I just don't even bother to read into why.

If you just move on to other women, often you'll find them barking up your tree again.

@Rick, absolutely this is true...so
This is when her emotions have peaked! This is when it is time to "seal the deal"! Because she has not had time to think it over, put up her anti slut shields. If you don't all sorts of random doubt creeps in and takes over, your quickly weeded out as a man that does not follow through!

If you are not going to follow through, you must set a real or imaginary time constraint, and BAIL, a little early, with lots of remaining sexual tension,leaving her wondering!

Her emotions will build..... and with enough tension, a woman will leave her purse, and her car with the keys in it, in the care of a homeless man on the side of the road, just to screw your brains out in the ally!

You will get a lot less flakes when you reach the point of isolation if either "Close" or "Bail Early".

That has been my experience anyway!

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I see. So you either close or leave at the peak. Understood.

My need for affection has been fucking me up lately then. Because I always indulge in the moment.

Well yes, but just prior to the peak, with a pre-installed time constraint. is best.
Yes this comes off as needy, they can smell that a mile away, so try not to be so outcome dependent! Just go in to have FUN! Sit back with your hands laced behind your head....fuck it you are KING!

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Close the deal or get the hell out and keep them panting for you.

I still learn each day and one of the biggest things I was doing wrong was to try and be too much of a gentleman!

Just fucking kino and escalate fast.

The Man gets a BINGO!

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Emotion

Both male and female have it and both decide by way of emotion, regardless of the motivation of that emotion. A woman may see what her perception of herself will be like if she sleeps with you. Thus she feels bad. Short of it really emotion.

Peace and Love

Vic

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I was facing this kinda problem for weeks bro, and I've figure it out now.

like as the other fds here says, this could highly be a test for you. Women naturally always think about are you the 'real man' or not, EVEN she do LIKES you. If you think in the situation you both love each other, she wants you to care her more, than you are WRONG. You at least have to fuck her first then show you needs. Before that, showing your needs will disappoint her, and shut down the attraction.

If she doesnt pick up your phone or reply your msg, just talk to the other girls. Call her again when you think of her, (I want advice in here too), and keep sharing your enjoyable life with her.

In fact there are no 100% guarantee for success in ONE women.

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I too have had this happen to me quite often. Girls, that I've kissed closed for instance, but not close the entire deal. After meeting them randomly at a club and creating enough rapport and kino to make out with her, I'd think those chicks would be crazy about me already. Due to various reasons, logistics, her friends, etc, you can't isolate them completely to leave with you so get phone # to try to get a date later. Then when I text them, they may either be receptive or distant, but most of them, I don't get beyond texting to a first date. Its pretty frustrating to be honest. I think other variables to consider would be they were under the influcence of alcohol that night, they acted sluttier, and feel guilty so they distance themselves or they have a BF but didn't tell you so they are not going to be available too often.