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PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 10:23 am 
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Please take a look at this as I am in need of a very quick answer (tomorrow evening by late). Basically, last night, I couldn't sleep and I wrote like a plan on my phone of what should I do when I go to the club. Basically I want to seduce a girl that pushed me sightly last time (don't get it wrong, she didn't pushed me really because she was angry or such) so I made it like a plan, here's what I'd intend to do:

1. I should be going behind her, hug her from behind, while holding her hands and breathing sightly on her collar and approaching the ear, whispering "Hi".
2. Ask her what's going on, how she is and if she's feeling good and if she remembers her gesture from last time.
3. In case she turns around, I take hold of her hand (s) and have a little eye-contact while I speak to her.
4. If she remembers about her push, I should be telling her that I am a little disappointed about her gesture and that I thought that she shouldn't have done that if she wanted to talk to me. Also, I'll add that I didn't expected that from her.
5. If she can't remember about the push (which I highly doubt), I'll tell her what happened and do as I stated above.
6. I tell her I am in a hurry, that my friends need me really quick to help them out and that we should see around the club. I'll add that if she leaves earlier, she should make me sure (so I can do some kino outside with her, eventually kiss her and get a phone number).

What should I edit about it, or it is good enough? I am trying to drag some excuses from her at point 4, as well as it should be called an opener. But maybe it's not good.


If I fail with her, or she doesn't come, I made another plan for a hot chick I would eventually see there. The plan would be like this.
1. If I see a hot chick, I would approach her, while keeping eye-contact, then go by up to her and greet her with the random "Hi".
2. If she responds, I'd tell them I know it's a bit strange that I came to her like that, but I saw some potential in her and because I don't know her, I couldn't let that chance go.
3. I'd ask for her name and shake her hand, without letting it get off my hand, while still gazing in her eyes.
4. I'd tell her I am on hurry as I need to go and pick up a friend (casual bullshit lie) and that I need to help my friends with something afterwards and if I am about to come back, I fear she won't be there, so I am giving her my phone and ask for her number, to make sure I'll have it.

I'm sure I'll have to add some more talk before asking for her number, but what?

What should I edit there, as well? Maybe it's not a good approaching and I should add few fluff talk before asking for her number?


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 7:48 pm 
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30 views and no answer? This shouldn't be really hard to give advices, come on.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 03, 2012 2:41 am 
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Here are my suggestions for the FIRST girl only.
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Please take a look at this as I am in need of a very quick answer (tomorrow evening by late). Basically, last night, I couldn't sleep and I wrote like a plan on my phone of what should I do when I go to the club. Basically I want to seduce a girl that pushed me sightly last time (don't get it wrong, she didn't pushed me really because she was angry or such) so I made it like a plan, here's what I'd intend to do:

1. I should be going behind her, hug her from behind, while holding her hands and breathing sightly on her collar and approaching the ear, whispering "Hi".
NEVER APPROACH FROM BEHIND.
2. Ask her what's going on, how she is and if she's feeling good and if she remembers her gesture from last time.
Ask her how she is, not if shes feeling good. Thats a weird question. Don't bring up the past gesture, its in the past. If it made an impact shes already thinking about it, if not fuck it and make her give you new gestures.
3. In case she turns around, I take hold of her hand (s) and have a little eye-contact while I speak to her.
I don't know how well you know this girl. But grabbing her hands seems too soon. do not have a little eye contact. Have ALOT of eye contact.
4. If she remembers about her push, I should be telling her that I am a little disappointed about her gesture and that I thought that she shouldn't have done that if she wanted to talk to me. Also, I'll add that I didn't expected that from her.
Ehh..I'd cut this out altogether.
5. If she can't remember about the push (which I highly doubt), I'll tell her what happened and do as I stated above.
Dude, forget about the damn push. MOVE ON
6. I tell her I am in a hurry, that my friends need me really quick to help them out and that we should see around the club. I'll add that if she leaves earlier, she should make me sure (so I can do some kino outside with her, eventually kiss her and get a phone number).
Why would she kiss you? You've not said anything to turn her on except trying to bring on somethings shes done before? You have to put in solid game before you can implement kino and expect anything. Rethink your game plan, talk to her, make her laugh, smile.
What should I edit about it, or it is good enough? I am trying to drag some excuses from her at point 4, as well as it should be called an opener. But maybe it's not good.


If I fail with her, or she doesn't come, I made another plan for a hot chick I would eventually see there. The plan would be like this.
1. If I see a hot chick, I would approach her, while keeping eye-contact, then go by up to her and greet her with the random "Hi".
2. If she responds, I'd tell them I know it's a bit strange that I came to her like that, but I saw some potential in her and because I don't know her, I couldn't let that chance go.
3. I'd ask for her name and shake her hand, without letting it get off my hand, while still gazing in her eyes.
4. I'd tell her I am on hurry as I need to go and pick up a friend (casual bullshit lie) and that I need to help my friends with something afterwards and if I am about to come back, I fear she won't be there, so I am giving her my phone and ask for her number, to make sure I'll have it.

I'm sure I'll have to add some more talk before asking for her number, but what?

What should I edit there, as well? Maybe it's not a good approaching and I should add few fluff talk before asking for her number?

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 03, 2012 7:33 am 
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Basically I thought the push movement would be used so she appologises herself, but I've thought it's not a good idea at all.
Meanwhile, I need new topics of what to talk/do if it's about to remove this.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 03, 2012 11:48 am 
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There seems to be some sound advice there but I will emphasize on one thing never approach from behind.

If you want to mix it up a little you can try these:

DHV yourself in front of her with another girl or group within her peripheral, this will make her think what is she missing out on (regardless if she actually remembers you).

If she's dancing, humour her and copy her moves and exaggerate them, she'll click your mocking her and she may even start the conversation probably asking "what the hell are you doing?" brush it off and tell her you have no idea what she's talking about and still proceed to copy her.

Remember picking up women is meant to be fun for both the PUA and the target, don't make such hard work of it and have a blast whilst you get to work - I also wouldn't limit myself to just two women either, an average night for me is atleast a dozen approaches (not including my 3 warmup sets).


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 03, 2012 5:18 pm 
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Yeah, but I am a newbie in this (one managed to read guides, didn't applied them) so I am not that good on what to do on consequinces.
Anyway, if there's anything to be said or if anyone has a good transition example or an effective opener, I would welcome that. It's only a few hours until I will be gone.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2012 1:41 pm 
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I've seen guys approach from behind and be successful so many times that I wonder if the advice of not approaching from behind is really warranted.


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I've seen guys approach from behind and be successful so many times that I wonder if the advice of not approaching from behind is really warranted.
I'm not saying that it doesn't work and I've seen it done, but I feel it's a little awkward and more AFC style.
Its a big kino test to jump straight into and its all up to whether she likes it, some women do, but if she doesn't she'll crane her neck around to see who's actually dancing with her or she may just give out the 'save me' signal to her friends and they'll come pull her away.

Personally I feel there is more room for rejection if you approach from behind, so it's not my style.


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