Alright so in about a week I'm officially going to be a freshman as I star highschool. I didn't have a great reputation in middleschool but using some PUA stuff I was able to turn some heads last day of school. I want to be able to come into highschool and be the best PUA I can be instead of an AFC and I was really wondering a few things

First off I play soccer and am somewhat athletic and was wondering if that would affect anything much in highschool. I also would love to know what turns heads and what attracts the hottest girls in the class

Thanks for any responses,
Jimsonator

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Highschool game is very different to game when you grow up. This is because some of the girls will be mature and others will not. This makes it difficult to a good understanding of every girl there unless you get to know them. Like when you're out in clubs if you're older you can pretty much make the assumption that most of the girls there won't act like 10 year olds. I spent half my freshman year in the US then moved to england and finished highschool here in 2 years because it's a bit different and im gonna go to "college" in september but its like pre-university.

Here are some things i've noticed back in highschool (both US and UK):
1) Social groupings are very important. You will always be pre-judged by your looks and friends at this age. This doesn't mean you have to ditch your current friedns if they're losers, just expand your social circle and have a variety of friends so you can be classified as "cool" and get some cool party hook-ups.

2)Sports can make a pretty big impact in getting chicks in highschool, outside highschool, i find they're not a big deal. highschool teams can get pretty competitive, at least back in Desert Mountain Highscool in AZ they did. I found that the Football temas (american) get the most attention, lot's of people are interested in soccer as well and you might be in a mixed team which would allow you to hit on some fit good looking girls on your team.

3) What turns heads is being well known. You don't have to do some prank at school that gets you lot's of attention, you just need to know a lot of people so like i said before, just try to get to know people.

4) You know how looks don't really matter in Pick up? I found that this applies to manily the grown ups. This is because by the time most people get into game (17 years old+), the girls have matured, been tossed around by dicks in highschool and no longer care about looks but want a fun, caring guy who isnt like the highschool quarter back who is a dick and lead them on etc. So try to look your best, it doesnt matter as long as you're above the fuckable line.

5) Finally, the golden rule (in my opinion) in pick-up, NEVER come off as needy. This applies in every situation and in my opinion (and other people would agree with me), it is probably the most common turn off and possibly the #1 turn off to women. I would know, i've asked my uncle (who began teaching me game at age 11) and i've asked girls who i've hooked up with, even laying on their bed next to them i'll talk about how i bet that guys try to chat them up all the time like "hi, how are you" and all that crap or that when the girl doesnt reply they send more msgs and that it makes the guy seem needy and the girls are always like "Oh my god, yeah theyre so boring, they always do that and it looks needy/obsessive!".

PM me, if you need anything or just post a new topic and if its unanswered, ill probably see it since i'm always going around trying to reply to the posts who haven't gotten a reply yet.

Take care man, and have fun in highschool,it's pretty sick if you can get hooked up into parties and shit!

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One hell of a reply haha I learned a thing or two in that. Really appriciate the advice and I'll be sure to remember those things when I get there next week

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For one thing..... high school game is not very difficult. There is tons of beautiful chicks around you, unlike clubbing or day game, you don't need to convince a random girl your valuable, your reputation speaks for itself, and approaching isn't too hard. Of course, its a social game, but this doesn't have to mean everything. Here are some pointers

1. Be Sociable With EVERYONE; Talk to everyone, from nerds to jocks, from preps to that one loner, be friendly with everyone. Not only does this help expand the amount of girls you come in contact with, but it also shows how cool of a guy you are.

2.Don't get too wrapped up in using PUA tactics/ techniques / whatever in school: Focusing too much on using scripted stuff
is probably not gonna go over too well, that stuff was designed mainly for clubs and day game and for chicks you dont know and WONT SEE AGAIN. I'm definitely not saying discard it all, but some of it you dont need right now.

3.Be your best self: Im not sure how many guys are gonna be at your high school, but im sure your not gonna be the only guy there. Thus meaning theres gonna be a bunch of other guys competing for that chick that you want! So what makes you so important or unique or better than the rest?? This is what you must figure out. Are you funny, good looking, talented? Whatever is the best quality about yourself you've gotta capitalize on it and bring it out

4.Look Your best; Your outside appearance is also very important , dress you finest, smell great, look like you matter! Also body language is important, keep your head up, chest out.

Most of all just have fun kid, this is suppose to be the best time of your life, make great friends, have great relationships, and make great memories. Good luck

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Alright cool thanks

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alright dude, im an incoming freshman too. heres what you gotta do.

theres 'that crowd (we'll refer to it as crowd A) and then there is everybody else (crowd B, even though it's 90% of the school)

there are certain things that would discourage people from crowd a to want to get to know somebody from crowd b. when meeting somebody, they generally would judge them to see if they are fun to be around, funny, etc.
some of the kids in 'crowd a' will most likely be jackasses and believe that they are the king of the world. talk to the nicer ones during class, help if they are struggling with something, even if you dont like them, pretend you care.

become friends with one person from that group and slowly expand your social circle and have them introduce girls to you.

remember to always dress for success, get a desirable haircut if your hair isnt very good, wear something that looks above average.

also, in crowd b, there are tons of pretty girls i bet who dont get along with girls in crowd a, always the case. get to know them through your friends. FIND WHO HAS THE BEST CONNECTIONS and befriend them. then slowly, grow that circle.

talk to girls in your classes. don't give them full attention, dont turn your body towards them. stare them in the eye when they speak.

use facebook for advantage. make one if you dont have it. when you talk to a girl, chat her up on facebook. learn basic text game rules, youl find plenty inthe forum.

to long didnt read version: chat up everybody. make small talk with everyone. look good. be somebody you want to be friends with.

good luck bro!

Rockso gave some very great advice here. Definitely take that into account.

There are a few things I would like to add:

First of all, do not focus on becoming a 'PUA' in highschool. It is very risky to start using PUA materials and apply them to girls in your high school for a variety of reasons.
a) A lot of PUA material is bullshit/useless
b) A lot of PUA material is only applicable in a certain context.
If you don't believe me: I still have to find the first guy who succeeds with an opener such as 'are you a dog or a cat person' or 'me and my friends just completed a caper, and now we are partying like it's the end of Ocean's Eleven' ~ Mystery.

I'm not saying abandon PUA at all. There are some great books out there, especially regarding inner game and how girls think. Just don't use most of the so called 'original, scripted openers'. A lot of girls in high school have not been approached by 1000s of guys, so you'll do fine using regular openers. Compliments also go a long way because a lot of girls are still very insecure about themselves.

Secondly, high school is a very small, social oriented environment. If you experiment and screw up the first (couple of) times, you will be labeled as a freak, rather than a 'PUA/Ladies man' and it will be hard to get rid off that name. Instead, focus on the things Rockso said and you'll do fine. Enjoy your time in high school, have a great social life, do a lot of cool things and girls will come automatically.

Alright sweet. I'll do my best to not do all of the PUA stuff. I don't realy use a ton of scripted openers anyway I like originality. Though as you said bein able to see body language and using some situations to your advantage could be really effective

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Exactly. Dude, judging from the way you speak and look at things, you're gonna be fine & probably nailing your first chearleader next year already

Well that certainly is a good thing haha

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