I have been gaming this HB8 for a couple months. Things were up and down for awhile but last couple weeks have been exceptional where she is isolating ME for escalation, but I've always gotten a lot of LMR. I suspect being a virgin is a lot of it, and she also "can't promise a relationship" or get too serious with anyone before she returns to college. Regardless, she is possible LTR still and I really want to get as far as possible before she leaves for college - it's about an hour away.

Anyways in 2 days I'll be going to a party in the woods where she and our other friends will be there. The interesting point is, this FB HB6 is coming from out of town to the party and likely staying at my place afterwards, something the HB8 can't/won't do. Should I fuck the HB6? How can I use this situation to escalate things with the HB8? My only real concern is that sleeping with the HB6 will DLV me as she is the less attractive / easier target.

EDIT: Reposted from miscellaneous, need some replies, party is tomorrow evening.

I would suggest, go as far as the first sign of resistance, then drop it, walk away, go get a beer. Act as though it's no big deal. When she cuddles back up...and she will, thinking you no longer want her...do it again, a little further. rinse repeat!

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Do that with the HB6? Cause she's a previous FB, no games needed... just trying to increase HB8's attraction to me.

But I will do what you said with HB8. That's just basic push/pull aint it?

With the HB8 & yes basic push pull should take care of your problem

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Heywood thanks for the tips.. I'm not worried too much about escalating on the HB8 at this point, I know as soon as I get her alone alone it's going to ramp up big time.

The reason question is should I be messing around (i.e. fucking) other, especially lesser attractive females in the meantime? I don't want to send the wrong message, as comfort/seduction levels have been increasing dramatically this last week and she's really starting to trust me. I know I'm probably just worrying about this too much, but I could really use some solid advice... the party kicks off in 7 hours.

A female friend of mine said if I was having doubts, then don't do it... and not to show more attention to the HB6.

YES! This will amp up her desire to qualify herself to you.

Just because you see these "others" as "lesser" does not mean she does.

Her own self esteem issues will kick in making her want to be with you even more.

Just be careful not to abandon her!

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So true! I know with my ex, she got jealous of other females even ones I swore up and down were much less attractive than her... okay I will run with the situation, and if I feel like fucking HB6 I will do so. Often, I will flirt with HB8 well enough in the group, but and the end of the night she goes home and I often have my FB (another HB6 in our group) that stays over. Damn, psychology is awesome... see I feel if the tables were turned and she was slutting it up with other, esp uglier guys I'd be put off, but that's female brain for ya huh?

Thanks for the vote of confidence, sir.