What up ladies and gents
Its slugger, ive been working on this post off and on for a few days now in my oh so little spare time. Its about
Attraction During Day Game
Check it out on my blog, but i will also be posting the article on the thread also(the mods prefer that)
http://theattractiveu.com/attraction-during-day-game/
Lets face it, if you have ever tried to get out there and meet women during the day time, you will notice it is a difference in how you can go about the interaction. People try to say day game and night game is the same, and it is in some ways. But it does differ.
Attraction during day game can still be executed as in night game with some adjustments.
Attraction during day game is typically shorter than it would be at night game. About 1- 10 minutes. Because you made your approached in a place and situation where most women normally don’t get approached, already says a lot about you and makes your value already high. So it is less work to switch those attraction switches.
During day game you don’t need to do TOO much neging, although being playful and teasing is good.
For example i met this girl outside of chipotle yesterday I teased her about how she was dressed like it was one of those days where you sit home, bundle up on the couch and watch romance movies.
As you see i negged her and teased her in a humorous way.
During an interaction don’t reveal TOO much about yourself. A women knowing too much about you during your first interaction can be unattractive subconsciously for women.
Now i want to discuss some of the different switches that trigger attraction during the day time.
Attraction Switches
1.
Appearance
Although looks aren’t as important to women as they are to men, it doesn’t hurt your chances to look your best. If you act, dress, and be like a strong confident man, women will start to notice you and call you handsome.Being out in the day time is not an excuse to dress sloppy. Still look your best. You never know when you might run into that beautiful women. Try to convey the best body language as possible. Straighten up that back and shoulders. Keep your head high. When speaking articulate what you want to say before saying it to avoid stuttering and complications getting your words out. Speak slowly. Don’t talk to fast.
2.
Confidence
Most guys aren’t able to approach an attractive women without a few drinks. So approaching women during the day is a great way to convey your confidence. A confident guy is willing to take a risk for the things he wants. He is willing to lead, and be assertive when he needs to be. People correlate confidence with success in life in general. So this means that HB sitting across from you in Starbucks also. Be the one to lead the conversation.Continue to progress without suggestions from her to do so.
3.
Humor
If you make a women laugh in general it relaxes the interaction. Especially during day game, and you will feel more relaxed also. Be funny and light, don’t take the situation to seriously and don’t be afraid to have some fun.
If she is hesitant about giving you her numbers you could say something like “Really? How am i going to call you 20 times a day then?” This will make her laugh and ease the tension if she is hesitant about giving up her number.
Just look for ways to be humorous during the interaction, maybe using situational humor: “Wow, everyone is looking at us, we must look really good together.” Then pull your phone out and use the mirror screen to show the reflection of you and her. This will really make the interaction look like two people just having some fun, and make her less hesitant if she is. You don’t have to be humorous in EVERY interaction but it does help.
4.
Your Social Intelligence
Having the ability to deal with social interactions appropriately shows a lot about your social intelligence. The more social intelligence you have the more this shows your ability to have friends and meet new strangers. Men with high social intelligence seem to go further in life, women know this.
5.
Passion
Passion is a VERY good source of attraction for women. Especially during day game. Usually for night game passion becomes attractive within day 2′s. Women love to see drive in men. It’s not enough to be interested in something, but be passionate about it. Your hobbies, your job or start-up business. What ever it is show passion about it, and try to find an interest you both are passionate about. This will really build the rapport.
6.
Pre- Selection
Women will pre-select you by how you carry yourself and your confidence. This speaks for itself and shows if you know how to deal with women, and have them in your life. A beautiful women has a lot of guys chasing her, and probably find it hard to find the time to give all of these guys attention to weed out the time wasters for the attractive ones. Do you have female friends you hang out with? Do you have a friend who come over and cook for you? If a friend comes over and cooks for you she will figure it is a girl, without you even saying it. This doesn’t mean you have to be sleeping with a bunch of women, just having other women find you attractive. Don’t take this to far though.
7.
Status
Having status means power, authority, which are evolutionary attraction switches for women. Status depends on the situation. At school the teacher is the highest authority or the person with the most status. In a club the manager or celebrities are the ones with the most status. See what i mean? If you have a big social circle, being the alpha male of this group speaks status about you, even though you may be an intern at work.So have some status.
These are things i realized after day gaming so hard, really trying to improve, and doing some research. I like to do my homework.
Get out there and start triggering those day game attractions switches!
Sluggler
CHAT
