Don't no where to put this topic so if it doesn't belong here, move it but please don't erase it.
So I've met this girl, and she is awesome.
She is funny, full of energy, and so damn cute.
And I've approached her, she gave me IOI's, I've DHV'd with cube, used ESP routine... Everything went fine, Kino was great but she was drunk. I thought that I should leave it that way because I wanted her to be my GF, I didn't wanted to fall in buyer's remorse. So I left club with another girl, and she saw it. But I never showed her IOI so I think she wasn't that surprised with dumping her. At least it was DHV, right?
So few days later we heard eachother on fb and I made a mutual conspiracy with bank robbery routine. I never gave her more IOI than she deserved.
So few days later I saw her with her friend and I've approached her, everything went fine.
My wing joined us too. We're just having a good time.
I've played 5 questions game and she lost twice(!).
So later she says she's gotta go home and I've told her that I will escort her, because are friends seems to like each other and I want to
leave em alone for some time.
So long story short, I've kissed her on our way home, she kissed me back. Fine.
Tomorow, I'm sending her message on fb but she doesn't respond. I forgot to #-close.
So I'm going out that night and see her with her friends and she kisses me in the cheek. I've asked her to hang out later she is like 'i really cant im with some of my old friends tonight' i'm like ok, i understand. I took her number.
Tomorrow I texted her that I want to see her that night. But she responds with 'i can't'
So few days later I'm in club, she's in club, I'm acting cold.
Dancing with another girl, that's grabing my ass, kissing me in chest, in neck. But I'm cold to that girl too. Not interested exactly. I saw her observing that.
After sometime i texted her 'want to meet in 5 mins?'
She responds me with 'i'm on my way home, really can't'
So i responded her 'you know that this is last time i'm calling you?'
She responded 'now i know'.
So that's it. She went out of town for three weeks. And she's back now, I will probably see her on weekend.
And don't know what to do.
I don't want to quit, I'm pretty stubborn when I want something.
So where I screwed things up? And how to fix it? I think I never acted like afc. What do you think about my last text i've sent her? It shows that i'm cool and that i have more choices?
Please pua's, help me on this one.
Thank you.

_________________
Insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting different results.

to me it seems a case of chick not interested.
a kiss means very little in the grand scheme of things. don't assume she is all over you just because she kissed you.
I think letting her see you hook up another chick was the first mistake. the jealousy plot-line can work wonders, but not at this stage.. you probably looked like a jerk to her. especially bad since you thought of her as GF material.
then you got your kiss. and at that point you went from jerk to needy AFC.
you ask a girl out by saying "X place at Y time. gonna be awesome. join me!"
the repeated isolation attempts were needy and too obvious. she would have looked slutty with her friends. no girl wants that!
lastly, your final texts were as needy AFC as it gets.. perfect if you want to make sure this chick and you have no future. but you never do that. you simply go no contact and wait.

_________________
nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

I really thought that this last text was great. But fuck it.
What should I do?
Should I be cold to her?
Is there a way to comeback in a game now? And what 'weapons' should I use? Preselection, jelaousy?
Give me some advice now.
And you mentioned that jealousy works wonders but that my timing was bad. When is a right timing?
I'm appearing needy right now on this topic, but I'm never needy. Don't know what the f is going on.

_________________
Insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting different results.

GFTOW. you told the chick you will not text again. DO NOT text again. if you come back, your value is gonna be so low she could replace her doormat with you.
I assume it's game over with this chick. but even if it is not, several months of no contact are required.
when are you jealous of something? when you value it and do not want to lose it.
this chick does not value you. does not care to lose you.
why would jealousy work?

if you're not needy, you will definitely game 10 other chicks into your bed very easily. at that point, will you still care about this one girl? probably not.

_________________
nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

I never wanted to text her again. Just wanted to know what to do when I see her.
But you're probably right. I should let her go.
And fucking 10 other girls?
I've been with 4 girls for last three weeks. But everytime I wake up it's worse. Guess I don't value sex like I value having one great girl.(gaaaaaaay, i know )
I'm just tired of empty, stupid girls. I need a challenge. And fucked things up. But I already have another challenge. The game is great!

_________________
Insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting different results.

nothing weird, gay, or beta with that man.
I entered my current LTR at a time when I was pulling 2 chicks a week.
I enjoyed the fun, enjoyed the chase, ..., but I thought this girl was much more special than any of the others. so I gave up the game and settled. am I gay for that? hearing my girl scream in pleasure I don't think so
if what you want is an LTR, go for it.
BUT even if you want a GF, start with the usual game, bang her good, and then just treat her as a GF for a while. if nothing weird happens, in a month or two she will come to you and begin the talk.

_________________
nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

Thanks man!

_________________
Insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting different results.