who apparently has offered to help me out on fb and I recently told him I'm considering taking him up on his offer. I don't know him at all, but he's been on my friends list for 8 months, has some pictures of him with some hot girls. Is a bit punk, has a stache going on and I thnk is puerto rican. He works at a bar. But I'm going to test the waters and see if this guy can help me get laid. He does not know I'm a virgin though and I don't intend to tell him. One time he offered for me to come to the beach with him and his friend but I couldnt because there's one big obstacle physically I'm trying to overcome. So I'm willing to let this guy help me if he can.

And I don't want sex more than anything, I want to finish school and start working out and put my money to those things but I don't have the money or transportation so I'm kind of stuck. I'm a bottomfeeder because of my lack of wealth and education and want so much to break out of this.

If I were in your situation I wouldn't take up his offer since you never know where you will get into...

I understand you have no money...start working out at home, pushups, running, abs, pullups....anything that will get your heart running....this will increase moral, increase health and overall make you feel good...

Then I would concentrate on my studying to graduate from school and get into a descent college...

Furthermore, I would get my hands on books, the internet or anything that will offer knowledge to me so I can know what goes around the world and obviously be able to start a conversation with anyone.....

When you feel good with your body and your mental state then you will be able to help yourself regarding getting laid...the above might not get you girls directly, but it increase your chances and also will make you look more concentrated/attractive/mature/self retained....you know where I am going out...

So I think get yourself to where you want to be and along the way girls will fall into the right places....also go out with your friends...

It seems strange that he'd offer to do that for you without even knowing you. Unless you have some mutual friends that can vouch for him I'd steer clear

he's a scammer. Show up in the most ridiculous 80's suit you can find, get a bowl cut and hit on all the women in the most cheesy manner possible.

He isn't asking you any money right? If he is I'd advise you to steer clear my dude.
But this type of thing happens here on Campus alot. Guys discover pick-up, get some success then think they're gurus and start preaching Pick-Up to all who'll listen. I'd go to the bar and check it out may be the guy just wanna be a good samaritan, like me. I help guys out for free.
But yeah my dude always have your guard up.

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I know what y'all are getting at here. I even told him that I was concerned, he said I would be cool with him(as in no problems). He's responded on some of my statuses so he knows about my complaining a lot about life. He doesnt seem like the type that will hurt me or do those things. He says he flys solo and he seems to be a "I'm me" kind of guy


Here see for yourself
https://www.facebook.com/ellis.crandall

Tell me what you think based on that. I have been sitting here wanting a change in my life for almost two years now. Its come to the point where its hard to even watch tv, listen to music, I'm freaking out. And being on a stupid check for my problems doesnt help things. I was hoping to go to Texas but the guy's putting it off now because I guess he thinks I should work out my problems here. Which is hard. One person suggested I read some book, he's very well liked on here and a top poster, but what's that gonna do?

Here is me

https://www.facebook.com/william.j.oneal

bro, this post made you sound like a big homosexual

But real talk, it's always been a big theory of mine that you need to be DHV in order to DHV to girls. That means if you don't have a job, don't have an education, you got more important things to worry about than getting laid.

IMO, structured education isn't that important. Seeing that you're not working now, you have plenty of time to read and educate yourself. Why don't you look into some self development books? "How to Win Friends and Influence People" or "What to say when you talk to yourself" and obviously. PUA books.

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Homosexual? Don't you have friends that look good? Wasnt there the saying that girls like guys who are social? Well wouldnt you need friends for that? I'm not the type who can be the life of the party and talk to everyone in a bar, even someone who I know and don't want to talk to.

The way you put it, hanging out with another guy with the objective of getting laid is kinda phaggy-time. When I go out, my boyz don't get me laid, I get myself laid. They're just there for support.

I know what you're getting at, the dude's your wing. But you need to operate more towards his level or you'll just be his fan while he basks in glory.

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I'm not gonna lie I'm in a town I don't want to be a beginner in. A few years ago, my mother was getting high with my younger brothers' friends and talking with them a lot. These guys like partying and drinking and getting high and have sexual addictions too. In fact they are all chubby chasers. But my mother lets these lowlives come in the house all the time, I would run so fast to avoid and sometimes I didnt run away fast enough. She let them all know how "disabled" I was, and there was nothing I could do at the time. It was so bad I had to goo stay across the road with her good friend an older man and when he moved, I had to go back to her place and the same crap was happening. She claims they were helping her. She even let a flat out bum stay there when he had nowhere to go. I went to Melbourne to stay with my sister and ended up staying with her and her husband for two and a half years. A year after staying with them, my claim was approved. My mother lost her place and ended up staying with us as well while commuting back and forth. These people she was hanging with she hangs with none of them now as she waited until it was too late. When she had a place to stay they would hang around her anytime but as soon as she had nowhere of her own to stay and was commuting, she lost everyone. She even got too involved as well with their problems. And I heard my mother talk about it one time, one of the guys tried to get her to sleep with him while watching a movie. In fact this guy she thought the world of, saying he was like a son to her. She no longer thought this when she learned about him going to a party with my brother's fiancee, and then when he drove a wedge between my brother and her. This girl is a fat bitch and is pregnant with the losers child and she shares a child with my brother already. But now this is caused me worse anxiety than ever. I am mostly worried about going in a bar and acting stupid and one of them sees me and I get embarrassed by it because in a way I want what they have been wanting and getting although on the unattractive side. But they go bar hopping, they sleep around, they do drugs, drink, party. And I hate that I want to do most of this too minus drugs and wouldnt want to sleep with anyone they slept with. They are 20-24. The target group of girls I want. But I think this is the biggest phobia I'm dealing with because of my mother letting these people know about me. Now, I am terrified of running into these people in night setting. I'm not afraid of them just I know if they see me they'll be like wtf what is he doing at a place like this? Isnt that _______'s brother who always stayed in the living room and hid from everyone? Its four people but basically its enough to make me nervous to go out alone. This is why I need a friend so that I could meet girls through setups at mini house parties, through day game. I would need someone to have my back and if I'm around someone then I'll feel less anxious. I also believed that if I worked out then i could get confidence and look tough so that they wouldnt either recognize me or would know not to mess with me. And I need friends because well when it comes to things like workout equipment, they might have friends who have some and stuff, I need someone's help to help me move now in my life. My mother has shown to only care about my needs but not about my wants. And I don't want her help now. When I first went to my sisters, there was this 20 year old girl staying there(I was 27). And honestly she felt like a real sister to me, she cooked for me and her, talked with me, watched tv with me, and if I wasnt such a loser back then and so sexually avoidant I probably could have slept with her! So I don't believe I would be that awkward around girls. And she was a girly girl too. I might have something about me that would draw those types to me. For some reason I have felt better around strangers.