Hello,

so I will cut to the chase, here is how it went down. On Saturday a friend and I went to a club with 4 girls. I like one of those girls, meat her before, and we talked a bit in the club, had some fun and took a few pictures together. The next day we talked a bit on FB and she said her uncle died and she was sad. The day after our pictures were on FB and she commented on the ones we were together ignoring any other picture she took with the rest. In the afternoon I sent her a FB message asking if she was ok, she said she was sad, I sent her my number and if she needs anything then she should call. After 2 hours she calls and asks if I was interested for a drive around so that she could get her mind off things. We drove all the way to the beach, sat there for a bit and drove back again. We didn't talk much, I made her smile a few times, she was fiddling about with radio stations and sometimes blasting the volume to the max. Kissed goodnight and that was it.

Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

Thanks

I would say her mindset was more on looking for someone to lean on. However she does trust you already seeing that you went to the beach together alone. So you off to a good start. However you have to be careful not to fall into the friend zone. U want to be there for her because of her recent lost but at the same time you have to also be really smooth about moving away from the friend zone. I would say that if you were on a sea-saw and friend zone was on one end and girlfriend was on the other, you would be right there in the middle right now.

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I was thinking of asking her out for a drink within the week a few days after the funeral like a "how are you holding up" meeting rather than a date, but build rapport that night. I didn't want to look like a jerk last night and kept it low profile...

Still I think she is interested since she has her friends to lean on but yet she wanted to go for a ride with me even though I only saw her once and talked to her twice...

Yea I think you playing the right moves. Keep us informed on the progress after your "how you doing drinking date". It will be interesting how this will all play out.

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I am glad some people are interested in here

Well yesterday it was her uncles funeral. So at night I sent her a text asking her how was she doing. She called back and we arranged to meet at my place for a movie. She came, we watched 2 movies and 3-4 comedy series and fell asleep on the couch. She had her head on a pillow on my knees, I played with her hair, then she had her legs on my knees and then she fell asleep in my arms. Didn't want to make a move so I don't look like a jerk on her uncles funeral. Hopefully if we meet again I will go one step further.

The thing is should I not text her today and text her tomorrow or should I not play "games" these difficult time she is going through and just ask her how she is doing. Have in mind that up until now only I start the communication and she responds.

Thanks

Well I texted her last night at around 8:45 to see what she was up to but I never got an answer. She either ignored me or she was sleeping because she didn't sleep at all the previous night.

My opinion is not to text her or open communication from my side again until she decides to look me up since I have been initiating conversation 3-4 consecutive days now.

What do you guys think should be my next move?

She just texted back explaining that she fell asleep early last night, woke up this morning did some chores and last night she went home had a bath and slept until 10 oclock this morning.

What should I answer? Ask her out?

Yea I think you have got pass the comfort zone now. I would prolly wait 1 or 2 more days and then go further. No worries man, you got this. Shes all yours pretty much.

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Cheers! We went out last night. She was in my arms all night, we kissed, she really seemed to be into me but I have one small concern.

All night we kissed once which I initiated and then she didn't seem to direct the situation towards another kiss. I'm sure she enjoyed it because she still was cadling in my arms Then I leaned in for a goodnight kiss but she thought I wanted to touch or heads together or something....so since I was tired I said fuck it, kissed her forehead said goodnight and left.

I am quite sure she is into me I think she is a bit shy though or she might be to sure that she "has" me. So I think my next step is not to send her a msg until she sends one.

Agree?

Yea go ahead and back off a day or 2. Let her think it out and at the same time you don't want to seem too pushy. She already yours, all you have to do now is just slow cook it into a boil. Good Job dogg! Now if she contacts you and wants you to come over or hang out before you give it a day or two. Go ahead and do it and that basically means she is down for some more cuddling and kissing the instant you'll get
back together.

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This girl is starting to get on my nerves

A couple of nights ago I text her to come over to my place, she comes, we watch TV cuddling and staff, then we go to bed, she kisses me, she dry humps me and she falls asleep in my arms.

The morning after, I go to work, she wakes up late and sends me a text message that she went home. She had to go to work in the afternoon until late night so I didnt text her she didn't text me. Now no signs of life from her either

Whats her deal man? Is she playing me? Because if she is then I have to get my act together

"She dry humps me and she falls asleep in my arms. "

WTF is this shit?

She wanted and needed a fuck.

Any girl who gets into bed with me will be given the beef!

End of story.

HAHAHAHA well said mate....actually it wasn't exactly like that I just cut the long story short...but still you are right!

Any thoughts on the situation though? Am I thinking correctly not to get in touch with her until she does?

Anytime I have waited for them to contact me they never have.

Trying to be cool and laid back never has worked for me as I expected them to chase me in my ignorance.

Their brains do not function logically like ours and they need to be trained and led.


My way nowadays is to contact them, meet, tease, kino escalate, and fuck.

Yes its time to be fucking. No such thing as dry humping in my bed. Dry humping is for kids under the age of 12. But yea since she has already been in your bed. You don't have to wait for her to contact you anymore. Your pass that point. You can now just call her and tell her to come on by. But do the exact same thing as before. Watch movie and stuff then move to the bed. Then just take them panties off and do your job dogg... LMAO!

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