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PostPosted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 8:16 pm 
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Hey guys, on the weekend I found myself chatting to a cute blond wearing FMB's (fuck me boots for those that don't know). She was quite short, maybe 5' and it made me think of this as a possible playful opener for the future

"So, how tall are you without the boots?"

I like the idea of it but can see it going wrong in a few ways. The biggest problem is where the hell can you go when they've responded eg.

Phantom309: "So, how tall are you without the boots?"
HB: "Five foot."
Phantom309: "Oh, erm......"

Think it works as a kind of neg as well. Let me know, am new to this so don't tear me apart.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 11:32 pm 
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i think any negs that has to do with height, weight, eye collor, any physical feature that ur born with is a bad neg.. i always avoid em. negs has to be something small that she can change, like shirt or somethin, at least its what i think

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 3:23 am 
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I wouldn't use this as an opener. It's not very interesting and shows to much interest. It comes across AFC, and I'm not trying to be mean. I'm just giving you my opinion. Think of something a bit different.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 3:48 am 
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Don't neg things she can't change. A neg is only meant to make her temporarily insecure, and open to your advances. Negging a physical trait she cannot change will have a longer effect and just make you seem like a douchebag. This is like making fun of a cripple for not having legs.
Being that she may already be insecure about her height I'd probably actually compliment her

Me: Wow I just realized that...
Her:?
Me: you are almost the perfect height
Her: uh thanks, what you mean almost?
Me: well 1 more mm and there's no way I could resist your advances :p
Her: *stands on tippy toes*
Me: oh damn... that's too sexy stop

this sets up the frame that she wants to seduce you. Girls will actively try to seduce you if you come from the frame that you are a total good guy and she's going to corrupt you. Every girl wants to be a bad girl sometimes all you have to do is let them.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 4:38 am 
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Don't neg things she can't change. A neg is only meant to make her temporarily insecure, and open to your advances. Negging a physical trait she cannot change will have a longer effect and just make you seem like a douchebag. This is like making fun of a cripple for not having legs.
Being that she may already be insecure about her height I'd probably actually compliment her

Me: Wow I just realized that...
Her:?
Me: you are almost the perfect height
Her: uh thanks, what you mean almost?
Me: well 1 more mm and there's no way I could resist your advances :p
Her: *stands on tippy toes*
Me: oh damn... that's too sexy stop

this sets up the frame that she wants to seduce you. Girls will actively try to seduce you if you come from the frame that you are a total good guy and she's going to corrupt you. Every girl wants to be a bad girl sometimes all you have to do is let them.
What I like about this is you are using an opener almost as a compliance test, and when she stands on her tippy toes, she is complying, then you reward her by the 'that's too sexy stop'. I'm definately going to be using this. Thanks.


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 12:58 am 
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Your right, thats so much better, thanks for the input guys.


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Phantom309: "So, how tall are you without the boots?"
HB: "Five foot."
Phantom309: "k bye"

lmao im sorry ill leave now

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