Well let me begin my story by saying I’m a total loser and have so muck bad luck in my life I turn 19 and few weeks ago and I took a look at my life so far let me tell you something it has been shit. I’m 19 and never had a girlfriend no girl has ever liked me. I do have a lot girl mates in my life and not one of them likes me because I thought I new about pua world and how to game but I know nothing about it. I got bullied a lot when I was a kid and had a lot of family problems when I was a kid so I had no confidence at all. One of my close mates said to me no girls will ever like you your so ugly you will be alone all your life guess he was Wright

I first came across this world when I was 17 because I was upset with my life that up to this point I have never talked to another girl for more then 3 minutes or ever hug a girl or kissed and never had girl mates. So I was on the internet and I type in Google HOW TO GET A GIRL FRINE D and I came across a lot of thing like be yourself if will happen and I believe what the movies said that I would fall in love that a girl will just walk in to my life but that never happened. Anyway I then came across this guy called mystery and his TV show because I didn’t believe that a there is a system to pick girls up but I watched the whole TV show and I wanted to learn how to game. So I found this forum and meet up with some cool guys and a bar to game together. I was really scared at first but these guys called cola, Kieran and they also had a female wing. They new what they where doing I was in asset of two girls in 10 minutes Kieran open them because I was shitting myself anyway I was happy that I went and did it the rest of the night I didn’t do anymore sets because I had a lot of AA. I saw these guys one more time and I went to open my first set on my own thanks to cola who gave me good advice. The went over to these to hot girls open then with one of mystery openers and it was ok I needed help so a wing came over and I went for the blond because she was fit but I ran out of things to say I didn’t know what I was doing and I don’t think she liked me. I really wanted to go out with these guys more but then I became ill and had family problems and only went two times when I was 18 and I never saw them again it been one year.

I have also came across a guys called jackal I was happy that another Asian was doing pick up I talked to him a few times but at this point every girl I new said I was guys and I was upset and I thought no one will like me so I never meet him. I still have his number and he seem like a cool guy
Anyway after all this I came across other guys because I didn’t like mystery way I came across afc Adam he his my favorite pua he make it look so easy and doesn’t wear top hates and doesn’t use dumb openers. I watched a lot of his YouTube clips and stared to act more like him. I then came across a lot more like Sasha direct day game pua he is really good I wanted to learn day game because I wanted to be the guy who can go up to any girl and say anything.
I started college I’m doing performing arts and I use a lot of these methods in college I made me talk to more girls and now I do have girls in my life however I messed it up by flirting with every girl and being known as the class flirt and no girl liked me in that way
To all these girls I’m there gay best mate I’m not gay but you know what I mean all the girls I liked have said to me you’re such a nice guy I’m glad where mates know do you think that girl like me. I’m too nice for these girls and they don’t care. They go for other guys then I if I’m nice why not go for me but that never will happen

Anyway now I suffer from depression still have no girlfriend my life sucks my home life suck and I so unhappy I wrote all this today because I need help I want to be that guy who goes out with a lot of girls. I want to be happy is there anyone out there that can teach me the game on a one to one thing take me under there wing and help me. I’m saying feel sorry for me because I don’t give a shit I just need some one nice to help me I’m so sick of being a loser.
I’m not a bad guy just had bad luck and NEED HELP
I’m from Birmingham uk England

I have a friend that felt that way as well, his name was Tim and he struck out/got nervous whenever talked to girls. The only time he really talked to girls was when they asked him for a pencil or other tool they needed while at school. I was a natural since i was little, believe it or not, i got my first kiss when i was 5 and made out with two girls at the age of 5 too. Really weird shit huh? I had sex at the age of 14 to my gf. Anyways man, enough about me let's get your shit sorted.

You must have a lot of self-esteem problems and confidence problems from what i've read about what those guys said to you. That shit doesn't matter though. I took my friend Tim under my wing nearly a year ago. I don't see him in real life because he lives in AZ (where i used to live too) and i moved to stockport england a year and a half ago so i haven't seen him in person since then. However, we chat on facebook and facetime about pick up and whenever he needs help with any situation, he'll ask me and i'll do my best to give him advice. He had a lot of AA before but i remember he sent me a field report of him on the bus talking to this girl and he did decently for a AFC and it was a HUGE improvement from never being able to talk to girls. I still have the msg if you want to see how he did. I also have another friend named Joe who asks me for help with girls and actually asked me for advice today and he got a date set up with this girl.

What you need to do is:
1)Get out more and approach as many girls as possible to bring down your AA
2) You need to keep learning, not necessarily from a guru face to face because i've learned from reading,videos and self-taught.
3) You need to get rid of these negative thoughts man, looks don't really matter and you WILL get girls, just improve your game, be patient and you'll get there.

I'll be here if you need any advice and if you ever want to meet up, you could come to stockport or go to manchester and i'd see you there. But don't expect to go clubbing with me, i'm only 16 hahahaha. However, i started learning proper game when i was 10-11 from my uncle so i have a lot of knowledge under my belt and i began putting that knowledge to the test at age 13. I've had a definite shot at a 3 way (2 girls one 8 and one 9) wanted to take me in a baseball field for "fun" which i turned down (regret it now) because i had a girlfriend (the one i lost my virginity to). The last time i hooked up with a girl was about a week ago where she came over you know... we did stuff So don't think because i'm young it means i've got no game, cause i have more game then my uncle probably does now and i've become the center of attention at multiple parties with 5+ girls wanting my attention at once and i've been giving advice to other men on this forum and others who have found my advice helpful.

Take care man, keep training!

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In reality I think you need to get over this by doing other hobbies not worrying about women 24/7. They are simply humans like us and it wont help to obsess over them like they are the only thing in someone's life. Since I have been working i feel my life is so busy women are not on my mind everyday but rather i have them make time for me. meaning when i go clubbing or hit on a women and get no response or they blow me off i literally think their loss and go onto the next one.

Once you develop a lifestyle that is busy with sports, work, school the women start to become a barrage and as if there not there so then when u do hit on them u then feel natural. Try doing other things, workout play sports, read, work full-time get ur mind of the fact women are everything