This is my first post...

I'm at a turning point in my life and after being in a relationship for the past 4 years.

I've been off the dating scene for quite some time.

I've been single for 5 months now with not even a whiff of female attention, so I read The Game again and went out at the weekend and thought i'd give a few things a try, just to see if they worked.

I went a nightclub and I got dancing with a girl, kissed her and took her outside to the smoking area, I decided to run a personality test call "The Cube" with her.

She was pretty drunk and didn't respond too much to it (but it's the first time ive tried it and didn't have it fully memorised) she then started opening up more when I was showing an interest in her, but she then started talking about her boyfriend.

I left her in the smoking area and she looked disappointed, I wasn't out to close I was just seeing if the material worked and what reaction I would get.

This is probably good for newcomers, that if you go in with the attitude of "I just want to get to know this person and don't care whether I close or just walk away", it gets you into a mindset of actually "learning" and working on more material rather than being worried about going home with someone or getting rejected.

I didn't try to open anyone at that time, but am planning on doing so in the near future and i'll be posting about it on her in the coming weeks and months.

Like I said, I may be rambling now but I hope that helps anyone new to this and remember "It's never negative even if you're rejected by everyone you approach or open, it's just learning to be better"