Depends on where you are in the seduction process (I don't know when this routine is supposed to be used).
In Comfort, I would use her question to frame "being in present and enjoying each other".
Before she qualified herself a fitting answer is: "I have not decided, yet."

Thumbs up!!

I think that this is the best answer you can give her!
My game have gotten A LOT better since i started being playfull like this! I can only recommend this!

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There is no 'right' or 'wrong' answer! You say whatever you like, if she doesn't like it thats her problem, not yours

Sure this will work, but if your atitude is not right when saying this, it will fuck up!!

Therefore be very carefull when using this!
You need to believe that it really is not your problem if she dosen't like it...
hope you get what i am saying

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definitely that. very good answer. i also don't think you should focus on her reasoning too much. in my opinion a positive sign. it means she is already thinking about mating with you

The hand holding one is okay as it's coy. Out of the ones I wouldn't do the confident "all the way, with no regrets" one is least bad. This thread had mostly bad suggestions though.

As to the reasoning behind her question... She wasn't gauging what she should aim for, she's wanting to know what you're hoping to get out of her.

OP told her "I hope you'll let me do something - anything! to you" So, yeah bad reply.

Better: say that if you were really into the girl and were on the same level, everything would go smoothly and you'd be kissing and bonding throughout the night until you finally reach the end of the night and can have great sex.

easy: "i guess we'll find out by tomorrow morning" with a chuckle at the end. you're establishing your intent and directing it at her without outright saying "i want to fuck you"

1) What would have been a good answer?
My answer would be "I'd go as far as I can carry her on my shoulder back to my lair"
2) Y did she ask this?
Like what other's said, she's playing along. Though of course she's playing along in a way where she can judge your character. In other words. SHIT TEST. I usually take whatever a girl I just met 's questions as a SHIT TEST. Just to play it safe. EVER VIGILANT.

That depends on whether you have fresh strawberries and know how to make great pancakes in the morning. If you get to take me home and make crazy monkey love to me, as I know all you [insert something you know about her, e.g. accountants, art-lovers, whatever] like to do, I'd better be getting my favorite breakfast in bed tomorrow.

This is definitely a shit test. Whether she even knows it or not, thats what she's doing.

Best answer, in my opinion, is to be witty and funny! Lots of good answers here.
Cheers All.

This is going in my notes. I like it.

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I like the indirect joking/flirting answer, but it also depends on what frame the girl is using. If this is some slut you just met at the club, and she's dressed like a two dollar hooker, then you can roll with "as far as she's willing to go/depends on how hot she is" type answers.

If this is a nice classy girl you met at a Starbucks, then she may be trying to feel you out to see if YOU are the slut, and not the classy guy she is looking for. In which case you might want to be more conservative in your answer, even genuine.

If it's a shit test, then go totally indirect with your answer, and even toss in a neg. Don't give her much to work with. Tell her "I'd probably let her buy me a drink, but that's about it." Or a neg, something like, "Probably not as far as YOU would go." implying she's a slut. That way you turn her shit test against her, giving you the upper hand.

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i would reply by saying: "if i was really attracted to the girl and she was up for it i would go all the way, but i'm not normally like that" this way if the girl wanted to go all the way and she was testing to see if you would, i have covered myself in saying if i was attracted to the girl i would if she wanted to, and also if she didn't want to have sex on the first night then you would also be covered by the line "but i'm not normally like that"

Lambo

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'Style'.

Don't like that one, it sounds like it is not unusual that the girl don't want to go all the way with you. Second it sounds desperat like you are saying to the girl, basically if you want to go all the way i want to as well, which sometimes is fine if you are honest about it and saying it direct and confidence, but this way it sounds like you are trying to cover it up..

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Just a few things I can think of in 30 seconds. I'd would either smile (with or without looking mysterious)

"Somewhere between Jail and Paradise"
"Somewhere between Heaven and Hell"
"As far as she deserve"
"Not as far she would dream of"
"As far as the bar"
"Girls are not adventurous enough to follow me so far"
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