I'm a 22 year old student from SE London. I like drinking at my local, going raving, fishing and comedy. I got into the game through Neil Strauss'
The Game, which was recommended to me by two friends: One, who is an out and out ladies man, very charming, with over 100 conquests; and the other, who has a much more akin personality to mine (very funny) but he recently split from a three year relationship and is now looking to play the field. It will be interesting to go sarging with them separately so I can see how girls react differently around two completely different style of wings.
I have only been practicing pick up as of the last couple of weeks. I have never had a problem talking to people. I used to have problems with conversing with groups of AMOGs (I was a geek) and HB9+s (I was afraid) but if I find a problem with myself I will strive to fix it. So I became an AMOG and realised someone's got to talk to HB9+s so it might as well be me. I do struggle with cold HBs though.
I have always used cocky/funny method, since before I read about it and it has served me well with my magic number being 21. Since reading
The Game, I have been incorporating various techniques, canned openers (more effective the lower HB rating), opinion openers (my favourite="Excuse me babe, what's the jelly for in pork pies?"), negging (which I have discovered cannot be overplayed) and cold readings (they love these generic statements it's unreal!). Anyways, since incorporating these, I have added another 1 to my tally, so a grand 22, now with a a couple more girls on the horizon.
My goals are:
- to better myself as a person picking up/enhancing attractive qualities as I go on my journey
- to improve my k-closing technique. I have only used Mystery's kiss gambit: "Would you like to kiss me?". I plan to field test Stealth Seduction at the next available opportunity.
- to learn how to go about f-closing one of the girls on the horizon (been putting in groundwork for far too long) and then apply that same technique to other girls confidently and effectively
- to counter ASD and LMR without using rapey persistence.
- to work on my calibration of negs and openers with HB9/10s
- to attempt and master day-game
- to go sarging with some local PUAs
- to never fear rejection
- to learn how to effectively sarge ice cold HBs.
- more goals to follow...
I'm gonna be posting field reports and questions in the foreseeable and will only ever advise based on tried and tested techniques. I look forward to learning about women, the community and myself. Cheers
CHAT