I tried searching for something like this but I couldn't find any thread with a similar situation.

So there's this girl that I'm pretty chill with, we joke around, a little bit of flirting, etc. She's also the kind of girl who has a lot of guy friends and probably a handful of guys who pursue her.

So my idea was to tell this girl (maybe in a joking manner) to "introduce me to some nice girls." I was thinking that in this way, I don't seem like every other guy who tries to make a move on her, and maybe make her question why I wasn't as interested in her as I should be.

I am also a little rusty, getting out of a relationship about 5 months ago.
Thoughts?

Here's the deal. If you're truly looking for another girl then go ahead and try this out. But, if you're interested in her then you should step out of the friend zone and make your intentions clear. The key is to be the exception to the rule and don't be like every other guy out there. Also, you're going to have to be willing to lose this girl, because you don't want her to be your oneitis. I say you go for it and lay it out on the table.

"I think you're a cool girl and I'm extremely attracted to you. I dunno what it is but I just can't help it. There's something about you. I want to take you on an adventure and do something fun, what are you up to next week?"

A variation of that has worked very well in the past. Most men are nervous to say such words, but with strong conviction and solid body language you can turn her on instantly with those words.

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That's pretty sound advice. Thanks, really appreciate it.

Just one question though, in the beginning of your post you said "go ahead and try this out," just to be clear you were referring to your post and not the approach I mentioned in the OP right?

Both can work. If you feel that you are truely stuck in the friend zone for now i would go with the introduce me to your friends approach. This will automatically build attraction with HER, you'll have less of a chance of loosing her and she might actually have some hot friends that you can meet. Just jumping out and saying that you are attracted to her and want to take her out all depends on the Frame she sees you in at that moment. You can escalate to that point after flirting for a while.

I have to disagree... I have many times asked a girl I was attracted to hook me up with her friends. Or more often openly flirt with the other woman around her. THe best way to do it is take her out to eat or something and flirt with he hired help. Obviously you need good game. But if she sees something that she likes she'll wonder "why doesnt he do that to me" But then again I flirt with everyone even my friends.

I totally disagree with the I like you so much direct angle if youre already in the friendzone... This doesnt work. Its needy to me... show her that you are of value and then escalate. If she says no, no biggie!

Yep i feel the same way, comes off just a bit awkward for everyone unless she starts sending major IoIs that drive you to it. You can escalate faster in other ways if you want her. such as... going to a club/bar getting some drinks and dancing with her. Strong eye contact and a ton of keno at night will get you way further then "I like you" with girls in the friendzone from my experiences.

These are some really good responses.

So say if I were to go with OP, would it be better to say it in person in a very lighthearted manner (or serious), or sending a little random text like "hey introduce me to some nice girls, haha."

Again, I like the soft approach of letting her see your value out in public...

But if its her friends youre after... "Youre a nice girl, do you have any nice girl friends that would fit this nice guy" Playfully direct works for me here. Keep in mind 90% of woman wont actually hook you up with their friends directly because if its bad it comes back on them. But youve set the stage for you making a move on her.

Also, after all this just make a move for a kiss one night, she'll

A. kiss you...done.
B. what are you doing? Youre right, I was over come with emotion, youre overwhelming at times! Wait a moment and try again. The key is you dont want her but you lose yourself around her.

Believe it or not i act with girls that are friends like i would with my boys. I hold nothing back. This confidence of being yourself and cussing, calling her out, busting her balls, even asking her about other guys she might be seeing or likes and then teasing her about it....comes off as so NOT NEEDY that they are naturally attracted to you. 1. You build trust by always being honest with her and telling it how it is. 2. just be yourself in this situation and ask her about her friends as if you were asking one of your guy mates to hook you up with a girl he knows. Iv actually found that once that trust is there they will actually hook you up with friends. The funny part is if you hook up with that said friend she'll then get jealous and think "why not me" so you'll probably hook up with her too if you do it right.

Solid point here. I agree. Either way for all, there is a chance of rejection and the biggest thing you should learn from this is to never let yourself enter the friend zone in the first place.

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Haha, right on. Do you fart on them too... Gotta keep it real!

Agreed on avoiding the friendzone... unless I work with them or go to class (when those applied) I never let myself be fully in the FZ.