Hey guys,

So I was going out with this HB but then she broke things off suddenly, I usually have a couple of other options usually or I go and hang out with a couple of f-buddies of mine which usually gets me out of that depressed mindstate.
But this time it was a bit different since I did'nt even see it coming and my friends are in relationships right now. So I've been feeling kind of down even though I'm working out and learning how to surf to keep busy.

I wanted to know what do you guys do to get off this state, of course the solution would be to find another girl, its just been kind of hard getting into a good state,plus I should'nt depend on someone to feel good. What's your attitude when you break off a relationship?

Do you have some kind of strategy?
Mine has been to keep checking her FB obsessively as if I'm looking for clues as to why she broke things off exactly and interpreting everything she does as if she's trying to tell ME something with it which to say the least has'nt been working... at all.

Drop that strategy of yours. There's no need to search for reasons you most like never gonna get. I made the same mistake with my ex and things gotten pretty bright after I stopped it. I know it's hard to accept it that it happened for "whatever" reason but try it.

Working out, surfing is a good road. Being productive generally seems to help reestablishing balance in your life. Just stop with the obsessive behaviour and well... if all your current fuck buddies are currently unavailable maybe it's time to find some that aren't. If you could manage to get a few fuck buddies it shouldn't be a problem at all, I guess...

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Hey, thx for the reply, I know I should stop it with the obsessive behaviour trust me but its kinda hard, specially when she speaks to me in such a casual way now when we were fucking just 4 days ago, wtf is the matter with her?

The thing is I know she's not the hottest or smartest or even the funniest girl I've been with and I KNOW this on a logical lvl I dont get why I'm making such a big deal but what is it that keeps me trying to get her back??? I would really like to know

How could I know? Only you can know the real reason for that, and there could be dozens, some more possible, some less. But I wouldn't worry much about that.

You need to decide already!

Do you accept it that it's over? If so then stop searching for reasons because it's not a sign of acceptance.

Or do you really want her back? If that's the case you should take actions for that, instead of again searching for reasons like that.

Man up, my friend! It's never been easy with women. We all learn it the hard way: any situation in which a woman is involved automatically becomes complicated.

Now go get some fresh air and decide what you want because that I can't tell you. Good luck mate!

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