Ive been dating a girl that I really like, we share unbelievable chemistry and rapport. We both feel a lot of sexual tension between us. She's has only slept with one guy besides myself. I love going down on her more than anything but she's not at all comfortable with it. The longest she has let me is for like 10 seconds. I've tried discussing it with her and she says that she fears the same thing most girls fear, that it will smell or taste bad. I give her lots of praise saying how good she taste and how good she smells, and how beautiful she is down there,which is the truth. She tells me that it feels really good but that she's uncomfortable with it. Ive made no headway...your thoughts and suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

Are you asking for her permission, or giving her a huge lead in, like there may be something wrong with it? Don't.

I find that quick, surprising bursts are very erotic to women, as the like the unpredictability. Ex: Girl feels uncomfortable with you licking her breasts. Kiss her mouth then quickly shoot down to her breasts before she has time to react.

But also don't force anything. I'm not sure how much resistance she is giving you, but if she's super uncomfortable with it, then don't do it.

You can also build her comfort with oral sex, by having her perform oral sex on you as well.

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TRy when shes fresh out of the shower or better yet when youre both in the shower...

Make it fun not forceful.

FreshPrince: No Im not asking for permission, when i go down there and get started she lets me do it briefly and then says thats enough. Its not a shit test or anything like that, she is genuinely not comfortable with it. It stems from an underlying body image issue i believe, she always wants the lights out and the covers over her. Ive stopped letting her put the covers over and I've started open the window blinds to let the natural light of nighttime and the neighbors flood lights shine through. When she is trying to pull the covers over i tell her "No that she has a great physique and for her to believe in herself and her sexiness. (She truly is sexy) that usually helps.

MrBreeze: I will try your idea. Thats not always easy when she comes over fixed up already, and we don't shower together. I see a good window during some upcoming travel though.

Thats the spirit... Maybe after sex, youll be dirty if youre doing it right! Make it about her. You want to bath her...show her some affection. Most women love to shower with you... just be giving and give her some water too!

all i got to say is 69.

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Works wonders. She'll be so focused on pleasuring you too that she'll stay for longer.

First of all beging to eat pussy just sounds beta. Its just beta. Nothing alpha about it...

1.) Your words probably don't have an impact

2.) You probably don't know what she cares about, what will make an impact on here.

3.) You probably aren't building on the impact that you are making

To make a fire you first have to create a spark then you have to keep creating sparks until you light a fire.