How do i break the ice guys?

I have more females than male friends and we are pretty close. Thing is we both complain about the lack of 'fun' we aren't getting. She complains about the lack of boyfriends and her craving to sex and i just wimp out and listen. Theres a fine line between ruining a good thing then taking a risk. Thing is i'd feel comfortable with her?

How can i break the ice and prompt the question, strictly NSA fun with a friend? Help?

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"All the ways you wish you could be, thats me. I look like you wanna look, fuck like you wanna fuck, i am smart capable and most importantly free in all the ways you are not."

I would start with light physical contact and phase shift from there. Are your main interactions with these women person to person or is it lmainly texting, facebooking ect?

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-= J E S T E R =-

Feel her up.
Start making out.
Once she's into it, Make it clear that you are not interested in a relationship and just want to have fun, and that you'd like to share this experience with her.
Boom.

In the words of Cap'nJack... "Don't be a pussy and fucking escalate!"

She's complaining about a lack of sex...and you didn't whip out your cock and say "viola!" ????

Kick yourself.

Invite her over to hang out. Bounce to the store 'real quick' with her and get something (beer, margarita mix, paper towels, whatever...). When you get back... show her a cool video on YouTube (2Cellos 'Welcome to the Jungle' is my suggestion...) then before you start the video tell her:

"imagine walking through a park together, then out of the blue two dudes open up cello cases and start playing... I thought this was cool as hell..."

Subliminal implant: She's now picturing watching this with you there at that park. It's a natural transition - she's already watching it with you. If you can get her to sit on your lap at a computer desk (I don't use a laptop for this, I use my home computer) it's even easier.

Great video - great music, a little rock-n-roll with a different edge.... Then kiss her!


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

what he said

How does something like this lasts? i used to have one and then after a month or so we just went back to being friends, yet neither. of us are getting any from other people

What happened to it?

It didn't 'just' disappear...

Analyze the set and think....


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I don't want to risk anything, I don't want to take a chance to not be friends anymore, I don't want to invest any effort. I just want to listen to her talk about sex then lean in and start sucking my dick!

Gee Wiz, wouldn't that be super fantastic!

It's not going to happen that way!

This is how I would handle an encounter as stated:

LISTEN intently, keep strong eye contact! mostly shut the fuck up!

Excuse your self, return with drinks, or a blunt if that's your thing or whatever...

Listen some more, take her hand and set it in her lap....

Take your other hand, brush it lightly over her cheek with your thumb near the corner of her eye....

Say: "I didn't know if that was a tear or a sparkle.....go on"

If no resistance...let her start again... finish your drink...interrupt..take her hand again...stand up...take your drink...have her grab hers say "give me a hand with these" ..lead her to the kitchen...set down the drinks...turn her to you and kiss her...start making out while standing....

Lead her to the bedroom....DONE!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

i think she just started feeling guilty about the whole thing, any ideas how i can calm her down?

Wait.... she's feeling guilty about NOT fucking you?

What have ya'll done for her to feel guilty about?

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I am actually against FBW but for fuck buddies. FBW is rough because you already have a connection.... It's hard especially if the sex is really good for it to not develop into more.

FBWs always ends up with drama, most people simply aren't good enough at separating attachment from sex which is fine and natural but it makes it difficult.

I like fuck buddies because it's straight and to the point, you don't date or spend time with each other. With FBWs you do spend time with each other and how do you react when she is interested in another guy? Do you cheer her on or get jealous? What about when you are doing well with a woman, how does she feel about it?

FBWs sound great but always end up horribly because of the connected worlds and most people's lack of sexual maturity.

Peace and Love

Vic

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Just another guy from back in the day.

Blogging again living life: http://www.Scienceofnaturalgame.com

Just understand friends w. bennies hardly ever works as at some point jealousy will seap into the equation as one of you gets involved with someone else. If you aren't overly concerned with the welfare of the friendship by all means indulge. If, on the other hand you care for the person and want them in your life you need to ask yourself if you're willing to compromise the friendship for a romp in the hay.