I was having excellent chat with this girl the other day who is my height , but is quite thick and curvy. after chatting really well all week and making her laugh, passing her tests and ripping her, she told me in passing, that she wants a guy who has a bigger frame than hers so when he hugs her she feels
surrounded/ by his body.... i can make girls laugh, pass there tests and rip them, but how can i sort this one out?

is there anything i can do to make her get over this?

advice please

does she mean a bigger frame in the psychological sense? if so, this is just a shit test. but I am surprised she used the word "frame".

if she means physically, this could either be the truth and then your only option is to become bigger than her, or it could be another shit test, to check if you are affected by her being "curvy" (e.g. if she dates you, will you bring her around your social circle? will you let your friends laugh at her?)

in almost every possible situation, randomly acknowledging what she said but being unaffected is the best possible reaction.

be aware that a lot of conditioning can be overridden, given enough solid game. a girl thinks she wants "X", but if a guy who is not "X" is good enough to get her hooked, she might even give up on "X". not without some second thoughts and drama if "X" is strong enough, unfortunately.

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just joke that you can bring your big friend along on dates to hug her goodnight for you.

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