Been a while since I posted on here so thought Id write a field report. I have learnt a lot from this one.

I met my last long term gf online, its a lot easier to game when you dont have AA and leaking body language all over the place. After we broke up I promised myself Id not do an online game again for any serious, but just use it to meet new people and go on a few dates, I consider it field work.

So I got a message from an irish chick through POF. At first she was really apprehensive about msging me back so I dropped the attention a bit.

She then took the hook and started messaging me more and we flirted a bit and agreed to meet up one sunday, which i cancelled due to having a last minute band emergency, and THEN again the week after.

After cancelling on her twice, i thought she would go cold but it seemed to do the opposite as she then arranged another meetup while sendimg me some 'pictures' (learning curve one).

We finally met up. I made it casual, met in the park right in the middle of a London to Southend bike ride event. My mate was doing it so I said we could sit in the park, wait for him and have a couple of ciders. I did this because, she would meet one of my good mates (showed that i wanted her in my life), it was completely neutral ground, and I got to use my surroundings as talking points, as well as not 'over' timing the date. Nothing worse than running out of things to talk about. Personally I was feeling anxious as hell but used my stage persona switch to block it out, she said I was stupid to say I was a bit shy in txts because I came across confident.

The next couple of hours I switched between busting on her for being irish but then finding out more about her at a sincere level. IoI's started to show, she was hitting me, playing with her hair, lots of eye contact etc etc. We finished up the date with my mate turning up and getting a kiss close.

What followed after that was us meeting the other night, keeping it no strings because she didnt want a committment and was moving away Tuesday (tomorrow). Although this was her idea, she soon changed her tune and begged me to stay with her etc.... another learning curve.


Conclusions.
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Dates/Openers/F-closing is all destroyed by your mind if you let it trail off, I have started meditation to switch all that shit off. Its like your ego is trying to destroy you

The nice guy card was completely surpressed in this game. I took on the cocky confident persona on and it seemed to work a treat.

Irish girls are mental. It looks like someone has done a wordsearch on my back.

I cancelled on her a couple of times, which seemed to do a great job. I had no expectations in this so I am guessing it seemed like the abundance card was being played.


Jax -x-

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