Ok guys kind of excited because now I know the issue that I have had.. Basically I go out alone because I moved to Miami about 6 months ago and always go to clubs by myself and will drink then do what most creepers do.. take my drink look at the dance floor walk and around to see if any girls are checking me out.. and repeat.. Basically I know this is why I don't ever leave with anything and women are probably like look at the loser who is just standing there with no friends doing nothing. I am in great shape and always look good but DO NOTHING ABOUT IT.. So my question is what do you recommend? I have people to go out with but usually hate going out with other guys because I like doing my own thing but it is hurting me and until i get more confident I won't go up to girls so I definitely need a couple guys to go out with.. This hit me when one of the girls I will probably hook up with from CT saw one of my old friends i used to go out with and texted me. She was like your friend tried dancing with me and I said no and I was like why?? lol she's like he's a creeper.. bingo lol luckily i work with her so I will be getting her next time i visit but I did the same thing as him so thats exactly what girls who don't know me think.. who has went through this and what advice can you give?

I would work on getting some guy friends before even working on getting women.

Hm.... So since you agree with her comment about you being a creeper, then you must first set down and create a list. Create a list of NEGATIVE things you do while you are out trying to meet women, and then the positive.

If you think you are a creeper then the NEGATIVE should out weigh the POSITIVE at this point.

Now once you finish this list, you need to right a plan on how to fix each of these, and steps you WILL take to change these.

I personally think you need to change your MINDSET first off. If you think you are a creeper you will probably portray that in your approach and style.

Only you can fix this "inner" issue, check out how you approach women, and talk to them in clubs, etc. Be conscious of what you do and notice things you do or say that appear creepish. You have to be self-conscious.

In fact just start making some approaches WITHOUT intentions on getting a number, etc, but just to notice and pick up on some of your bad creepish habits so that way you can change them.

This is the fastest way to internalize your problem and fix it! This is the best way to fix this issue because it starts from WITHIN(you) not from some training or etc.

So yeah try what i suggested. When i was first getting into the game i had issues with my self(confidence) when i approached women and talk to people in general.

So what i did is what i suggested to you. Once you are conscious of the things you are doing WRONG it will be easier to begin to correct these and self-improve.


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Well some of the stuff you are doing is creepy. Not so much the action but the mindset. If you are being flirty and personable and looking at girls to force ioi's that's fine. But if you do the same action creepily, then of course you will seem creepy. If i was you i would go onto the dance floor, and just dance. don't look at any girls. that attracts girls. or if you must continue to look at them from the bar, then do it will an extremely playful expression on your face so they know that you are not a threat.

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