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maybe you just are being needy and she is busy, or not interested
maybe you are not leading well and there isn't enough value for her to feel comfortable investing
maybe she just doesn't understand how to answer such a broad question
it's like a girl asking you, what was the best day of your life?
sometimes you just don't really have an answer for something so broad
next time you are trying to bait a girl into qualifying and you are asking for massive investment like this, if she is unsure of how to answer and not willing to invest, re-frame and lower the level of investment (make it so you can answer the question with a more specific answer), so you can re-guage her compliance and understand how to adapt, also if you are looking for long drawn out answers from a girl, start small, then touch on her motivations for her answer then reflect on how she must feel about that
here is an example of a sexual re-frame, re-qualify lower investment, lead her in the direction you want it to take, this is assuming she is already invested enough to comply:
you:what's the crazist thing you've ever done?
her:hmm idk haha you put me on the spot x
you:like you ever gone skinny dipping or anything, people that do that sort of thing are so brave
now, she can either invest in that question and get trapped into a double bind (either be lead into the sexual frame where you can escalate, or qualify herself to not being brave)
her other options are to simply not invest, this is the equivilent of her passing a ''shit test'' thrown by you, this would look like
her: wow, IDK haha, what a question
^ this is non compliance, this shows dis-interest, you need to stop trying for investment if you are seeing such low compliance and just bring value (make talk, something for nothing, try to get nothing out of her), also your profile and how she precieves you will effect your initial impression, if she doesn't like your style and the way you look, she will be less likely to want to invest, she could just shut off, same thing with if she doesn't enjoy interacting with you, she can get turned off, especially if she thinks you are being fake
now, here is an example of back tracking to add value:
You: what's the crazist thing you've ever done?
Her: hmm idk haha you put me on the spot x
You: I see, crazy like one time I was going out to this halloween party with my buddy Mitch. After a long discussion, I convinced Mitch we were going to wear pink dresses and wigs and show up as Paris and Nicole, it was fucking awesome. Guys were trying to call us gay all night and all the girls were so loving it. That was sooo hot, lol. You ever have fun doing something weird or crazy like that?
^ she has value to work with, if she still won't invest after you make it easier, there is a really good chance that she is not buying what you are selling, and you both have different ideas of what you like, if this is the case and there is no mutual interest, then you don't have chemistry together and she is not your type, drop non-compliant girls, they are a waste of time, don't be so shallow and invested in a girl just because of looks, drop them when they suck and don't give anything back, there are plenty of hotties out there, it's not worth it to put a bunch of effort into a girl just because you think she looks good when she sucks, you will find a different girl who looks just as good who doesn't suck, don't be needy, treat her based on how she acts, not based on how she looks
p.s. gaming girls on failbook sucks cock
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