Hey there. Im new to the forum, but a little backstory. Im 21..not a virgin but always felt like something was missing in my life. I'd go out with friends, drink and get drunk i'd even make the first essential steps into meeting a girl. But it all felt so wrong. I saw other sin action and i envied them. I was scared to make the first move and could only do it (which resulted in utter failure) only if i was drunk. I had a few success's but regardless, i was never entriely there.

It was only a couple of months ago that a friend reccomended a book called "The game" by neil strauss in which i read and instantly found somebody i could connect with. He was a failure and identified his failings. But it was through them he learned, he matured and then became a hero to all men alike.

I want to become that hero and i want to mature. I want to learn the ins and outs and put them into motion, i want to embrace the fear and role with it. no fear, no distractions. We're all the same here, equal in one way or another and i am pleased to have found a community with the same interest. Pleasure to meet you all, im Kab

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"All the ways you wish you could be, thats me. I look like you wanna look, fuck like you wanna fuck, i am smart capable and most importantly free in all the ways you are not."

Hey Kab,

I think a lot of us started somewhere similar to where you are. I know I did. Getting past that has taken me a lot of determination and hard work, but doing it has been very rewarding. Glad to have you here.

Cheers,
FroMan