Hey guys, I need help.

Iv come up to the coast from my small mining town to try develop some game.
Iv gone out the last two days and I haven't made NOT ONE APPROACH. And its killing me, I tell ya regret burns way more then rejection ever would.
I don't mind rejection, I find it can be hilarious. I don't know whats going, Its something deeper then that.

I am my own worst enemy.

Ampho

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.:'Ampho':.

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'Nothing in this world worth having comes easy. Get off your keister and work for it!'

Bob Kelso - Scrubs

Hey man.

How can you be sure that you dont mind rejection if you have not made any approach?

To be honest, in my eyes you are more scared of rejection that you will admit to yourself.

You know there is only one solution to this. No book, no audio nor any guru can help you here but yourself. You need to approach. Open your mouth and start talking. perhaps not only to sexy women, but to everybody. Just random opening with the sole purpose of opening and getting that anxiety under control, would be a great start. But people can tell you thousands of tricks and tips and whatever, but in the end IT IS YOU WHO NEEDS TO PERFORM THEM.

That is one area where we cant help you in.

Just to give you an idea, this is the url of series of posts made by a guy here on the board. Read it. I dont know how to link on this board, so i ll just give the plain url:

just-started-approaching-no-dice-what-a ... 38790.html

this is what you should be doing.

good luck!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Yeh I think so, I try tell myself its not that bad. But it doesn't work.. I am fully terrified I guess.
Iv abolished trying to learn all the lines and gimmicks, always out in the field it all goes out the window anyway.

The guys from Simple Pickup are my idols, their gear is right up my alley. Iv gone out dressed as a stormtrooper and morphsuits but I still don't pickup.

How do I hold onto that level of confidence all the time, I find I'm geared up ready to go out and plow in the hotel but as soon as I'm outside.. Poof! Gone. Its like my first day of school again.

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.:'Ampho':.

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'Nothing in this world worth having comes easy. Get off your keister and work for it!'

Bob Kelso - Scrubs

Just approach! It doesn't matter what you say, for starters you just need to say something. Just imagine how shitty you'll feel if you pussy out again.

Do it. You have the fitting line in your signature.