hi there is this smoking hot chich who is one of my best friends and i realy want to be more than that does anyone have any advise

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

thanks that heped me alot i wil try it out it eather goes my way or not if it was ment to be it wil be good.

1. When a woman says " I just want to be friends".
this is what she's really saying " He's nice but I am not attracted to him".
Sorry to to the bearer of bad news but when she gives to the Just friends BS'
it's usually a losing battle, look elsewhere.

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mikeh71

try to have sex with her

If she has hot friends, stay her friend, don't try anything - keep it platonic. You never know what can happen...3:00AM her and the hot friends are coming home from the club, flat tire, car breaks down, dead battery, etc. Who is she gonna call? You. Pick them up, jumpstart them, change their tire, give them rides home etc.. and suddenly you're known as a caring, sweet guy to all her friends!

i agree with the other guy make a move on her

yeah the caring sweet guy who gets used not only by her, but now her friends too. why bother with this? this isnt what he wants. He wants to fuck these girls,not to be some kinda of fucking pussy sideboy who does these things "just for the hell of it" while is great not to burn bridges as it might open doors for you. but dont repeat the same mistake you did on her friends or any other girl.

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Think what you will, but I know someone personally who helped out a friend (girl) at 3:00am, driving her and her friend (another girl) home when their car wouldn't start...and guess what? Her friend said she liked him and wanted to hook up with him! So it's up to you. I would advise not making any moves on her, let her make the first move if at all, and just "ride it out". It definately doesn't hurt to stay friends. You never know what can happen.

tell her how glad you are to be friends with her and how you see her like a sister to you. be very convincing and make it very clear that the thought of sexual interest in her disgusts you. then ask her advice on this "other girl" you've fallen madly in love with who has friend zoned you and then describe the exact behavior you don't like in her! she will teach you how to win her over. for a couple weeks, keep asking her advice as if you're taking her advice and applying it--but dont apply it yet. pretend its working! make up a story about how you used her advice to win the best girl in the world, and tell her what a great friend she is! even go into detail, tell her how great the sex was the first time, the second time, and how happy you are to finally have such a wonderful girl! then one day, tell her you've dumped the imaginary girl. tell her that she "wasn't as great as you thought" but keep the details private and tell her you dont want to talk about it.

Throughout this whole process you should be gauging her reaction. It should take at least a couple weeks, otherwise it won't seem realistic. When you tell her her advice worked, if she's a little let down, that means she wants you! In fact, if she's not excited about the fact that her advice worked, that probably means she wants you! When you tell her you've dumped the imaginary girl, if she's not sad for you, its because she wants you! If she tells you "don't worry, you'll find someone better", she's probably hoping that person is going to be her.

Once you've dumped the imaginary girlfriend, its time to take her own advice and apply it to her! If she told you to be direct, then tell her DIRECTLY you don't want the other girl, now you want her. If she told you to be subtle, be subtle. Girls will give you advice on how they want to be picked up, but only if it applies to another girl. The whole "imaginary girlfriend" experience should let you notice whether she wants you and if she doesn't, thats enough to make any girl jealous and MAKE her want you.

hope that helps! used that a couple times.