Long story short: dated for 3 months had a TON of fun, her kids and her whole family and friends loved me. Found out she had a bad drinking problem, not the going out and getting wasted kind. The kind where she will sit at home and drink wine all night. I drank with her all the time at her house but she didnt used to get way too drunk. the last 3 times we drank she got WAY too drunk and I called her out on it... She got SUPER pissed and said yes she has a problem but I dont know what shes been through yada yada yada...Next day she breaks up with me saying she is gonna quit drinking and needs to get her life in order and pay more attention to her kids and cant deal with a relationship right now. I text her a little bit and asked her a couple questions for my closure and that was that.
Well Im having a hard time getting over her cause it was a super fun relationship and we got along absolutley amazing...SO. any advice on how to get her back? is not talking/texting her really the only option?

First of all drinking was not an issue for the end of a relationship. She left you because there was something more(or there wasn't something). However if you dated for 3 months, you know her parents - I assume you were pretty close.

Actually if you feel in your inside that the relationship was fun as hell and can't get any funnier outside, find her, contact her and speak. Let her know a bit what you liked in the relationship. Be sincere. Such a problem shouldn't be an issue to solve.

Now remember my words. All will say that you will find funnier/more interesting girl again, however that's not as easy as it sounds. Your case doesn't sound like oneitis, however from my experience to find a girl I would be really to be happy with is quite hard.(I mean happy 110% and being yourself 120% with her).

I hope my post helped you out. LTR FTW

Thanks for the advice bud. Im 99% sure she is done with me. I heard from a couple people that that is what she is telling everyone (that we are no longer dating and wont be getting back together) So im not gonna contact her for few weeks and see what happens but im pretty sure I will be over her by then....but she was sooooo damn great in bed that Id like one last booty call....any ideas on how to pull that one off!...seriously lol

It's up to you how to handle that.
If I would like to catch up with her again I would really ignore all the stuff you hear about her telling things.
If there was a spark and it was blown away quickly, there must be AT LEAST something left.

She simply tells she's single because of attention, self confidence and other bells and whistles.

First off why do you want this girl back? Secondly why do you want to be with a girl with a drinking problem? People with drinking problems are not the sort you want to be with really as well they got issues.

No one is perfect. Accept that. She has drinking problems. Some of the people here have low self esteem so try to pick as many chicks as possible to gain self confidence. From some viewpoint it can be considered as bad as drinking.

Again, no one is perfect and if that was the biggest problem, but you have had 3 months of awesomeness you can fix that issue.

Thanks guys. She finally removed all of our pics on facebook last night so to me Im guessing she really is done. Now I need your advice on how to possibly pull off one more booty call with her any advice?....I was thinkin maybe in a couple weeks send her a text that says "Im horny and thinkin bout you....no strings attached?" and see what she says...thoughts?

The best advice if the two of you still share the same social circle is..

1: Totally stop caring about her.
2: Get another girlfriend.

When she sees this she will want you back if she has low self esteem. The only problem bro is for it to work...you won't have her back.

That text won't work unless you calibrate it right. OR if she happens to be horny at that exact moment. I'm evil for saying this but you know she gets drunk around a certain time of night right? well text her at that time. Wine tends to make women horny. How I would do it with an ex is even more direct and don't ever mention YOU"RE horny (it gives her the power) but put it on her. I've been blunt enough to go explicit off the bat with an ex iv had sex or relationship with. "You've probably missed my dick inside you haven't you?" its shocking enough to get a response and you can tone it down or ramp it up from there. if she says yes i have then its on... tell her about the not strings attached thing, if she says no then go for dream texting... "Sorry its just this dream I had last night it was very vivid." She will ask what dream? Then make up a naughty dream. Start slow, Be creative, Romantic and be aggressive in it maybe do things in it to her that you've never done before to her. If done right she will be so horny she'll fuck you that night. All of this has been tested many times. It works both on all ex's and bad girls you've just met.

I know no ones perfect. But one has to look at why they want to be with someone that they broke up tho before they go back to that person. The drinking thing means she has issues and the op needs to consider does he want to deal with that again or not. Its his call I am just saying to the op before you rush back to this girl think about if you really want this girl back. In my opinion an ex is an ex for a reason and such one shouldn't go back.

Thanks for all your advice fellas. One more question...Im not gonna contact her for a couple weeks and after a couple weeks I was thinkin about sending her a text about maybe starting over or starting fresh and taking it REALLY SLOW this time...When we were dating from the jump she wanted to see me and hang out every single day! and of course I really liked her so I went along with it....Well I think that that was one of our downfalls, I think it was too much too quick....Any thoughts on how I could get this to come out right?....Thanks guys!