Well, she's not his girlfriend anymore...

Me and her began talking and got really close. We went more of the best friend route then the boyfriend/girlfriend route. Soon enough, she was going out with this other guy.

About a month later (today), they broke up, and now she's single again.

We are already really close, she trust's me, feels comfortable with me, we talk everyday, and tell each other everything that goes on.

Can I make her mine? If so, how?

Come on PUA's, help me out!

Thanks.

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Pimpin Ain't Easy But It's Necessary...

You might be able to make her yours. You already have some comfort built which is good. Now you just need to build the attraction and escalate kino. You'll either be able to make her yours or she'll give you but I thought we were friends speech. Get her out, neg her, tease her, and kino.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Welcome to the forum theguru.

Follow jsmooths advice and keep in mind to REALLY turn up the attraction. Even add a sexual frame to your rapport.

Thanks for your advice...

I'll take her out, make her laugh, build attraction, flirt like crazy, get a little touchy, and add some sexual talk...

Let's see how this goes...

If not, there's plenty of other fish out there!

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Pimpin Ain't Easy But It's Necessary...

I wish you all the luck buddy because you are in a friend zone. She did`t recognize you as a f*** material and she hooked up with somebody else. Now she is single again but you are still where you were before that. If you want more you will have to play hard game on her. Try to focus that energy on other girls, it will probably have better feedback.
Exactly, thats great attitude!

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Natural supreme

please don't take her out, at least not dinner.

Do try to take her to something exciting, adrenline rush will lead her feeling sexual for you, a least for a bit.

You need to create sexual tension. If there is no sexual tension, then it doesn't matter how comfortable she is, or how much she may find you attractive, because it won't be being attracted to you, merely finding you attractive in general. You need to be willing to risk losing her, or there is no chance of getting her. You need to have the balls to pull her close and look her in the eyes and make her think you're gonna kiss her, then push her away. You need to have the balls to touch her in places that her other guys friends wouldn't dare touch without her permission, such as complimenting her on having a nice shirt and then reaching out to grab some fabric and rub it between your fingers, but grab it from her chest, or rub her stomach.

I gave a friend of mine a tie for xmas. She was a one-itis after she broke off our short relationship about 3 years ago and now that I have game I've been seducing her better than before (we continued to flirt shamelessly and would even play strip drinking games over msn webcam for the past 3 years). So I asked if she knew how to put on a tie, she said she didn't, but I think she just wanted me to put it on for her, so I got behind her and put it on for her, which is already a very sexy thing to do, but then I smoothed it out by running my hand down the front of her. It pushes those boundries, but not so far that they break, just enough to create tension.

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becareful with them tits, negative conditioning may take hold.

Not at all. Just as Rye said, that does create tension, in a good way.

I advise no grabbing, but touching is fine, as long as you do it in a respectful way. One thing that I want to give a try is a "hand-to-heart" routine. I don't know how I want to initiate it, but the idea is to put her hand on your chest over your heart and then you put your hand over her heart. You're gonna have her palm on your nipple and your hand will be partially on her breast, while you gaze into each other's eyes (possibly "soul gazing" if you can work that into the routine). If anyone gives this a try, let me know how it goes!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye