Hey guys, so I recently came back to singledom.

Was married to a HB9 for just over 2 years, but we had some serious fertility issues, and failed pregs She got super depressed over the last 6 months and decided an affair was a better course of action, and subsequently left. That wounded me heavily, and smashed me to my foundations.

Now I'm on the up, and back on the game. After 6 years out, I'm a little rusty, and to be honest my ego is a bit battered, I'm very successful, the guy she left me for is a TOTAL bum....so SPAM I'm damage controlling.

So, past few weeks, I've been getting back on the horse, no lays as yet, I think my first job here is to build ego and confidence back to pre HB9 levels.

Doing that by hanging out in places where there are lots of women, I started up dance classes too and have made a good 10-15 female friends there, been hanging out with a few, pretty certain 2-3 of them are attracted, but I aren't quite ready for that just yet.

One thing I can do, and have always been able to do is make women laugh, last night for example, getting my lift home with 2 HB6's, the driver had to pull over as she was crying with laughter. I guess that's my in game, never really failed me.

After the disaster with my STBXW, I want to broaden my game a bit, clubs have always been a struggle for me (hence the dance classes so I can get on the dancefloor and attract some attention), but I always find the loud music makes it difficult to pull out my humour card.

Also my day game, well, I never really had one lol hoping to improve that.

Overall I've never been single for long, or had any trouble picking up woman, but after my recent experience, my respect for "relationships" has all be disappeared, and basically, I just want to catch as many HB8+'s as possible!

Been reading around this forum a bit and good tips, if anyones interested, I'll report back here with my successes as and when they happen

Glad to be here btw, adios!

I to have recently been forced to acknowledge that my status is currently Benifreiendless and girlfriend barren as well. however i unlike you have yet to employ tactics learned in the game. Ive studied it for a few years now but have yet to employ anything. Guess its because that up untill recently i never had to, i was traditionally good with women, (not Mystery level good, but fair in my own right i would think) But something has changed, and i must try this out. Good luck to you and wish me the same.

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