What I want to know specifically is, how do I infiltrate these type of close groups without coming across and wanting something? how would I get into the group and simply offer some friendly competition or an option for these girls to choose from?

1. Charm - social approach befriend the whole group
2. Disarm - get the group and the target comfortable with me with laughter
3. Contact - Focus my attention on the target
4. Extract - get the target out of the group, in order to escalate further.


More specifically how does the community do this in particular? My method is type specific and doesn't have a great deal of consistency.

Help a brother out.

i noticed the tight knit groups are the most insecure. that is if youre talking about a tight knit group of girls only. if you are feeling intimidated, just infiltrate through the fattest/ugliest girl that no one wants to pay attention to anyway. she will be the most appreciative and the other girls in the group will see you as not being in it for ass and open themselves up to you.

good luck with your journey!

Use shared public spaces to your advantage, specifically, the spaces where the group congregates.

Never ask to join, rather establish a mutual interest when speaking to a member of the group. I you are an authority or knowledgeable about this interest, it plays to your advantage because then they want something from you. That flips the script, so it's them asking you to join instead of the other way around.

Isolating individual members may work instead of approaching the group. When they are together, they have social power as the group.

Never seek their approval, just be yourself. Just about anyone can tell when someone is wanting their approval, and it is usually viewed negatively.

Easyest way i think is to use the surrounding to make atraction. Pick any people near the destination group and make the "Best guy nearby" look.
If the girls notice you, talk about you, grab a drink and approach them. They WILL be disarmed at entry.
...nope...
Girls at packs are very sociable creatures and . In order to get one from the pack, the pack must accept. But when pack accepts, its a social proof equal to assigning you the rights to that girl.
After getting proof from the pack the response to "can I borrow your friend" should be "SUUUUURE!!!" with the "happiest girl in the world" marked on the face of your target.
(this sure means "sold to highest bider").

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