Hi guys, I thought I would ask for some expert opinions.


There is a girl at work who I am very attracted to, and I would like to try it with her. I do not know her and she does not work with me; there isn't anyone who could introduce me to her. She looks shy so would be hard to approach.

What is the best approach for this situation? I don't know this girl at all, so I don't know what to say to her, let alone get a date with her.

That easy budy, walk up to her and say hello....day game is much easier then in a night club! chances are she will be friendly.

I would walk up and say "Hey how are you? Are you new here? Im not sure that I have seen you before?" she will say "no I have been working here a while" to which you can say "Really? thats odd, I saw you from across the room and thought you looked like a very interesting person, my name is _____ and yours?", "listen _____I don't usually do this but there is something about you that I like, lets get together this week for drinks".

From there if you seem genuine and confident she will give you her number 9 times our of 10, If you act creepy or weak she will turn you down, you need to walk up with confidence, speak clearly and have no hesitation! Its not what you say but how you convey! If she says no you don't flinch! you laugh and say something like "Oh are you allergic to food? that must be very difficult (laugh)" and then say "Im not asking you to marry me (laugh) ____, I just want to get together for drinks, here is my number If you like having a lot of fun give me a call or add me on facebook, any way nice meeting you"

what do you have to loose? just do it! don't over think it! she will say yes, and if she doesn't who gives a shit!! there are millions of others out there!

p.s you sound very unsure of what to do? and very new to the who "game"? You have a lot to learn!

You should think about purchasing some book or e books on pick up, start watching youtube videos, and read post from some of the vets in here....the most successful guys have their own game, what works for me might not work for you, you have to find a teacher or method that works for you and study it, then apply it to your life.

No one can gives you all the answers in one post.

Buddy, expert opinions are required for expert questions. This needs to go on Yahoo Answers - Singles and Dating section.

It takes a higher level thinking than that which the problem was created in order to solve the problem.

Fuck that girl. In order to get her, you need to get good with woman in general. And if youv'e been exposed to the community long enough ( which I presume you have if your on a PUA forum), you'd know that means to need to practice laboriously.

But in all serious if you have no interest in becoming a hardcore PUA, thats fine, it really is. Post on Yahoo Answers singles and dating though. They actually will give you good advice.

If you ignore what I say, thats fine, I'll tell you what to do anyway.

Talk to her, then ask her out.

Yes, it's imposible to spoon feed you what to say or do because if your too scared to approach her in the first place, you probably aren't going to say the required things anyway.

If you want to be mroe succesful relationship/dating wise, study up on this PUA stuff; a whole new world will become avaialbe to you.

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