Dude, you are not gaming her...You are not in control of the your own frame, much less the direction this is going! IMHO you need to tell this girl she has too much stuff going on in her life right now, and that she can call you when she gets her shit straightened out. Or just F@ck her and forget her! This is not going to end well for you if you keep following her down her rabbit holes!


Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

I agree with Crypto here...

Also, why would YOU apologize for what two women said about you? And further, you would AVOID somewhere because of other people? Dude, do you realize how much this DLV's you? It says you can't handle conflict - that you're a pussy. If you're not wanting to send that message to her - don't ever apologize and suggest going somewhere to avoid other people...

Dude, you're floundering here, and need to be aware of it.

You got a kiss? Was it at the end of the date or during the date. If it's during the date - you have a chance. If it was at the end - it was an obligatory deal I'd bet.


If you do anything - invite her over to your place, and caveman. Whip it out. She'll either suck it or slap it...

I'd drop Crypto's "get your shit together" close and move on to other chicks.


RR

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whip out that monster dude, that's what i've been saying all along!

I don't post often, but when I do, I post like a Boss!

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Well as long as she doesn't go ADD on me she'll still remember that we're going to meet up tonight @ 7 for an actual date.

It's probably best just not to text her at all.. the apology would be pretty DLV at this point now that I see it from the outside looking in.

I get the feeling she'll flake on me or cancel, only time will tell. She might've been just drunk as hell and I'm overthinking it.. I would think that being a bartender, she'll be able to handle stupid shit conflict like that.

Depends on perspective... One could also say that she's limiting herself career-wise potentially due to lack of effort or lack of ability...

If she flakes - continue to go to the same bar, frame it so she knows she had the chance, but you're on to other chicks....


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Obviously what those girls said is bothering her because she texted me saying that she doesn't feel like doing anything tonight.

We weren't even going to go to the bar...

Dude, obviously you got this! Let us know how it turns out.

NO WAIT!!! That's was just some horrible advice I gave there! She is trying to get you to chase her and tell her that it is ok, you trust her and that you know she is not after you for your $$$. She is playing you hard, I wish you could just open your eyes for one second! Try this, do not contact her (any form of contact) for 1 week and see if she throws you a test text (fishing for interest). If you reply she can continue her games, if you do not reply she will start to chase you (if she is interested at all).


Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

She texted me saying she doesn't want to do anything tonight. How do I got this? lol

I haven't even responded to that yet because I don't have a clue of what a good response to that is.

Sarcasm, learn it...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

whip out the one eyed, one horned monster man! yeeeeeeee!!!!!

look, i don't think you're in a "healthy" thing here. don't answer. let her get back to you with a plan. if not, go on to the next one. no need for all this.

there is no next one...

Girls like this never come to this town.. it's usually the same people every night. It's a small town of 10,000 people. Still no text from her yet though =(

there is always a next one.

I love the smell of oneitis in the morning....

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

instead of fried eggs, fried balls.