[b]So one day I was at a club, standing minding my own business when a drunk HB10 came up to me saying:[/b]

[i]HB10: Your hot
Me: Thanks
HB10: whats your number
Me: here's my #. . . Wanna dance?[/i]

[b]I then gave it to her, while there's another behind guy waiting for her to maybe dance or hangout[/b]

[i]HB10: I'm with this guy i just met
Me: Ok, text me so i get your #
HB10: Ok, byeee[/i]

[b]I got her number and we have been texting for about a month now, mostly I've been saying lets chill and she keeps saying "ye ye" the last 3 times, but never happens[/b]

[b]So a month past and I'm at a club with my wingman, on my blackberry messenger (BBM) the HB10 status says "Solo partying" meaning shes with people she just met. I texted her saying "whats good", then she replied "come to this club. . . ". I was at a club near her so i said "maybe" 30 minutes later she came to my club not knowing i was their. . . she saw me and gave me a hug then she said:[/b]

[i]HB10: remember me?
Me:ye, her name______. Whats my name?
HB10:my name______.[/i]

[b]she then left cause she with a guy i never seen before and left the club i was at

I texted her saying come back, i'll show you a good time. . .she said next time. . .
so i said wanna watch a movie next week and she said "Ye" AGIAN. . . what does this mean[/b]

Shes playing with you. She says the same sht to 20 other guys... Al

Yea..she's trolling your ass hardcore.

She just likes the attention you give her, she's playing.

Sounds like a drugged out weirdo to me. I would just stop talking to her. This Is going no where.

She is basically looking to party with guys with designer drugs who I am sure she is free loading off.

I am just going off what you posted. Your game was really weak. No comfort, no attraction, straight number close then a good bye. If she really liked you, she would have hanged out with you sooner, but right now, she is just screwing with you. Girls also love to have the validation. And your also talking to her for validation, probably because your not talking to other girls right now, cause if you were, you would have dropped it.

Fuck with her back, On friday or saturday: (I don't speak drug language so so change the word if your familiar)

You: Pre Party at my Pad, A lot of Alcohol, and some really good blow, and mollies


If she is down, give her the address to a Drug Rehab Center, LOL! This would be funny!


Next day, just text her you gave her the wrong address, lol, and cut it off.

Also, don't get attach to this girl, keep your distance IMO. There are plently of hot normal girls to talk to. Just work on your game, it will be worth it.

It does sound very erratic and all over the place really. Could actually be drugs or something as someone said before. Very strange communication pattern.

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HB10: hey what's up? Bla bla give me your number.
Pokee: wtf? No. How do I know your not some psycho stalker chick?

Women give fake IOI's all the time, especially when their boyfriend is about to show up. And I agree, she's stringing u along.

If it were me, Id make up this crazy story about how "I was texting you and another girl saw me and asked me who i was texting." I told her it was you, and she said "why do you want her for, I'm here and in person"

and then thank her for being the text that introduced me to this new girl.

Not only will she text you back, when you ignore her for the next few weeks, it will burn her up more.

Dont do it stupidly but do it cool, and she will be chasing you. Women love competetion and winning.

Did ANYONE pay any attention to this: when a DRUNK HB 10

Thanks for your advice everyone. My wing man keeps saying your missing your chance to F-Close but I'm like shes a slut etc. . . . Ye, i'll just keep her on my BBM but won't text her and just wait for her to text me

[quote="TonyKing"][quote="UniqueTalent"]My wing man keeps saying your missing your chance to F-Close but I'm like shes a slut etc. . [/quote]

I dont mean to be an ass about this but if you want to F-close this broad, isn't it a good thing she's a slut? :)[/quote]

Your right. But I'm just not gonna give her attention, I bet every guy gives her attention but i'll be the only guy who doesn't plus I'm not the AFC who says wow I missed my chance etc. Their are plenty more women out their and I still haven't mastered the game. . . My game is natural involving looks and mentally. . . Thank you guys

hahahahaha yes

sounds like the turtle man hahah I'm sorry I can't help it
ye ye ye ye ye ye!

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Guys are right that she's a megaflake. I don't think she's trolling you, or trying to fuck with your head on purpose. It's just that hot girls like attention. And once they get the attention, they don't really want anything else from you.

So one thing is for sure: every time you try to get together with her like it's a date, she's going to flake. Because you're already giving her the attention she wants. Maybe she'll even schedule something. But assuming she doesn't break it off at the last minute, it will be a token date that isn't very exciting.

Why? Because you already put yourself into the boring category of the dozens of other guys who are at her beck and call. Whose life is so dull without her that you would put everything on hold just to watch her eat a mandarin chicken salad.

You were closer to success when you found yourself randomly texting her on club night. In fact, that's about as much effort as you should put into seeing her until she puts in ANY kind of effort. Send her a message only when you're having the best time, and you're okay saying "ah, that's cool if you can't make it, hope you're having as much fun as we are!"

If you want to amp it up a little, after the next time you see her say "yo, sorry I haven't been able to hang out lately. Some big opportunities came up." Or "went on a crazy trip". Or anything that would lead nicely into a story. Let her believe that your life is awesome. Even better: live an awesome life, and don't break your focus on your awesome life unless she works for it.

Is it presumptuous to talk to her as if she wants to hang out with you, but you're too busy? Yes. But if you're an awesome guy, it's a safe assumption you should make about all girls. Not in an insulting way. Not that you're gonna get into a pissing match if she says "that's cool, my life has been crazy too" (or "yeah right! you totally want me"). You're not going to react to her. You're gonna keep living your life, and if she asks about it, you're gonna tell her about it.

In the end, she might lose interest. But you'll be living an awesome life and won't care. And then there's the possibility you completely blow her mind, because you're not like the 100 other guys who put everything on hold for her.

She craves attention. Make yours worth working for.

[quote="vcwriter"]Guys are right that she's a megaflake. I don't think she's trolling you, or trying to fuck with your head on purpose. It's just that hot girls like attention. And once they get the attention, they don't really want anything else from you.

So one thing is for sure: every time you try to get together with her like it's a date, she's going to flake. Because you're already giving her the attention she wants. Maybe she'll even schedule something. But assuming she doesn't break it off at the last minute, it will be a token date that isn't very exciting.

Why? Because you already put yourself into the boring category of the dozens of other guys who are at her beck and call. Whose life is so dull without her that you would put everything on hold just to watch her eat a mandarin chicken salad.

You were closer to success when you found yourself randomly texting her on club night. In fact, that's about as much effort as you should put into seeing her until she puts in ANY kind of effort. Send her a message only when you're having the best time, and you're okay saying "ah, that's cool if you can't make it, hope you're having as much fun as we are!"

If you want to amp it up a little, after the next time you see her say "yo, sorry I haven't been able to hang out lately. Some big opportunities came up." Or "went on a crazy trip". Or anything that would lead nicely into a story. Let her believe that your life is awesome. Even better: live an awesome life, and don't break your focus on your awesome life unless she works for it.

Is it presumptuous to talk to her as if she wants to hang out with you, but you're too busy? Yes. But if you're an awesome guy, it's a safe assumption you should make about all girls. Not in an insulting way. Not that you're gonna get into a pissing match if she says "that's cool, my life has been crazy too" (or "yeah right! you totally want me"). You're not going to react to her. You're gonna keep living your life, and if she asks about it, you're gonna tell her about it.

In the end, she might lose interest. But you'll be living an awesome life and won't care. And then there's the possibility you completely blow her mind, because you're not like the 100 other guys who put everything on hold for her.

She craves attention. Make yours worth working for.[/quote]

Nice post, shes just another girl on my BBM who just want's attention but I"m not giving it to her. One of these days shes gonna be crawling back to me and texting me "oh, lets hangout" etc. . . .But right I'm not holding my life back for this girl, even if she is hot :) Thanks