Make me sick! when ever I sleep with a girl who's in a relationship I always hear women complain about how their bf's are ass holes, or their too nice and jealous? and in my head I am thinking "well your sitting here in my bed justifying your actions...and he's the asshole? doesn't he have a right to be jealous?" I have even told a girl that before haha I said just dump the poor guy and be honest with him....why are you stringing him along?

Really makes me mad! One girl I know actually introduced me to her bf as her bf, and said that I was her friend, the guy bought me a drink!! lol He was one of the nicest dudes I had ever met! yet after she cheated with me she told me "he doesn't trust me , I dont know why he's so jealous" haha really you don't know why????

Oh man women are messed up! Sorry about my rant I just see a lot of this in here and it makes me laugh!

I know this exactly. One of my friends loved his woman very much. And then she told him she cheated on him with a guy for 3 fucking months. They were living together and the sneaky bitch did it as my friend knew nothing for sure. And when he asked her why did she do it she answered that it annoyed her that he acted jealous. Now that's when my friend told her to GTFO and never come back before he put a knife in her chest... She would have deserved it. Fucking whore was cock-blocking him even after the break-up in very sneaky and disgusting manners(she told one of the girls he would have had a certain lay this: "Yeah... I know you. Andrew told me how he fucked you once when you were up for breakfast" This was not true at all... Neither the fuck, nor that he's ever said something like that)

And really women like these are the most surprised when they are treated like dirty whores... even if that's what they are exactly.

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Lol, the underlying message in all that is women don't take responsibility for their own actions. It's always been that way...and we can blame society for it.

I don't want to get involved with women like this anymore I don't think....when I see how many nice guys there are even on here, guys who get screwed over because they were too nice???? as much as we all know being to nice will lead to your gf resenting you, it still does not make it ok....I honestly feel bad for the guys who I have done this to! most of them oblivious to the fact that their gf is sleeping around, or made to look crazy for being jealous when in reality they have every right to be!

Imo if the girl is not happy then get out! why is it the guys fault? if hes being "to nice" then get out and screw who ever you want!

My buddy is a good lookin guy, good job, couple of kids, you average "nice guy" always ready to help you with something and never asks for anything. Basically he's Good Guy Greg, if you know the meme, and he's married to a woman who cheated on him. This chick don't work. He was paying for her ticket to ride the train to "go spend the weekend with a friend." Leaving him home with the kids. Hell, one weekend they both went and he met and spent the weekend with the guy who was fuckin his wife. He trusted her.
When he found out he confronted her and she tried to lie. He had her phone records and email. She admitted to it. Promised to cut off contact. She didn't. He confronted her about that and she tried to lie. Seriously, this fuckin bitch says, "I can't believe he doesn't trust me. I know he's checking my email. I can't even have sex with him unless I'm thinking about the other guy."
Married 10 years.

I am strongly considering adding the following as a moral compass when/if I get strong game: To not go for women who are taken, and to help expose cheating women when I can.

I think it is horrible behaviour to cheat. While we know why AFCs get cheated on by their women, it certainly does not make it any less shit behaviour. I also do not want to be the guy that breaks another guys heart by taking his woman, and I do not want to be the guy who fucks his woman behind his back. I can go for the ones who aren't bound by any promises. If you "go exclusive", you should stay exclusive until after that reationship is done. That goes for both male and female. If neither party has promised anything, whatever you do is fair game, but then it isn't cheating anyway.

You know what man lately I have been looking around here in all the forums and I see so many guys I have helped out who are being emotionally abused by some chick, who almost always ends up cheating on them down the road, these guys are good guys and although they should probably leave the women they are with it still makes me think (Im the other guy). Yeah its not my fault but it makes me sick when I hear a girl talk about how shitty her bf is yet shes on top of me screaming my name lol just seems so ridiculous to me!

I have nothing against guys gaming girls who are in relationships I just don't think I can personally do it any more, these girls make me sick!

Its easy to say "The girl is not getting what she needs" but 9 times out of 10 when you ask the girl "have you told your bf your not happy" she will say no lol so what he should be a mind reader????

Safety is a good thing. Boredom is a bad thing. For me, letting my woman feel safe with me and around me and simply being myself works and worked in the past wonders.

I let hew know that she's mine and I am not targeting other targets, however all my past/current girlfriends were all jealous, not me. Yes there's a reason to be jealous, as I attract girls without doing anything.

I may sometimes be boring or so, sometimes crazy and unpredictable and really, I can't sometimes predict what I will do 5 minutes later as I like to do what I feel like. For me it worked in a few year LTR and works in a current LTR of almost a year.

Now for the cheating thing, I believe it simply states that not all the women are bitches or assholes, but they are passive human beings or losers. However I consider not calling cheating girl a loser. I call them passive and not strong persons enough to leave the current boyfriend. However I always consider the boyfriend fault in case of cheating. A sharp guy can smell when his women is bored, lost passion or didn't even have one. This must be a good indicator that she will fuck someone else, especially when he is dark and the one .

In my phylosophy - if you're not 100% of a man for your woman in all areas: emotional, sexual, if you see that she doesn't look like the happiest girl on earth - it's your fault. If you don't make her laught, look with big eyes at you - your fault. And it works vice-versa - she looks happy, satisfied, uplifted - it's your pride.

Now back to the question - I wouldn't feel bad for fucking a girl in a relationship because if she does that, then her boyfriend really isn't "the one" and doesn cause the spark in her like you cause.

I couldnt agree more... Twice in my life I had the "the one" More than three years together, the second was cohabitational. Both ended our relationship by cheating on me... the second left me devastated. I decided to look at what I was doing wrong. Both times I was an great BF but played games with them never let them get bored. At the same time I was a complete gentleman and provider...so what went wrong? I became a pussy! Both times I started dealing with some major emotions that took away my game. The last time I let someone steal from me and cost me my biz and nest egg. At the same time the patriarch of my family was dying. I became depressed and generally emotionally unavailable. Was I a bad BF in any standard looking way...no! It would be great if women could understand and have loyalty....sure. Maybe even provide some support to help you get back....but I just dont feel they are wired this way. The moral of the story... dont be weak! I have had girls cheat on their men with me. More often than not they sound weak. Remember that women are hard wired to look for the strong just like we are wired to look for the hot! The hotter they are the stronger you need to appear....everyday!

You're right. You just.. can't be weak. The more signs of weakness and other things that lower your value as a man - the more chance she will cheat with someone who shows less of a weakness(or at least hides for that short time span in order to have sex).

Honestly when a relationship comes to the point where the female is cheating then it's just an indicator to move on and learn from past mistakes. One of the main reason why people cheat is because they are not satisfied with their relationship and feel unfulfilled. Therefore if you are cheated on, move onto the next girl but learn from what went wrong in your previous relationship.

Honestly when a relationship comes to the point where the female is cheating then it's just an indicator to move on and learn from past mistakes. One of the main reason why people cheat is because they are not satisfied with their relationship and feel unfulfilled. Therefore if you are cheated on, move onto the next girl but learn from what went wrong in your previous relationship.

Correct.

If you do not feel fully satisfied in your relationship - you will cheat someday.
If you woman doesn't feel fully satisfied - she will cheat someday or is cheating already - it's just the question of a time until she finds someone more attractive.

It isn't very hard to see if the girl really is into you.