my social skills and confidence are lacking. I just have lot op difficulties chitchat-talking......My main goal would be to have the confidence to go up to a girl I want to have sex with and just tell her the truth, very direct but honest......Can I pull this off? .......average of 1 in 10 chance the lady sais yes

There is something called an Apocalypse Opener that is very much that idea. Just asking a girl to go home with you. Do I think it will work? Slim chance. Do I think you should try it? Absolutely. If that will get you out of your comfort zone, then do it. I know it's tough to approach women, but the more and more you try, the easier it will be. Just don't think that this tactic will be your end all be all.

Honestly, here's your best approach. Go up to a girl and just say "Hey I thought you were cute, I had to say hi". This is a direct approach that works very well. Women respond positively to it, because it's honest and direct. Highly recommend you try it and shoot me an email to let me know how it goes.

Cheers!

Women suck really bad.....women are that way.... outburst....
.....hate girls...FUCK IT ALL and ask every hot girl......I'm goodlooking for sure whatever....get looks, touches in the club, I'm just to damn shy to respond....It's just my problem, a mental problem....I'm 25 and I want to change this, myself and my life.

How did you all miss out in this? Lennie, you are not ready for pick up. Period. Are you seeing someone professional?

You can't hate women, and expect their sympathies is return!!!! Human women are the most beautiful creatures on this planet, perhaps even in this universe. Women are the dew on the morning grass of a perfect summer day. Women are the best thing ever created out of the elements. How could you hate them? Who are you to judge the greatest creation on earth? Just because you can't get your shit together, women suck?

Check this out, its not a "socially unacceptable thing" to ask a women to sleep with you. Not at all. But if you look at evolutionary biology, and genetics, you will quickly find why that approach fails. Women are prediposed to looking for certain traits in a man before they are ready to hit the sack. Men don't need this check, so we are always ready. This is nature (and don't say "nature sucks", she is very successsful)

All of those things you describle above, are the opposite of what they are looking for instinctively (i.e. Strong, able, and healthy offspring). The apocalypse opener and direct game works for some guys, that is because they internalized these so well, that they don't need all the fluff to convey their value to a woman. That's why this is called "advanced game".

You need to check yourself, and you need to take care of some really hard core issues that are pending in there. Honestly, I could not reccomend any woman to mercy fuck you at this point, because I would be concerned for her safety, first and formost. Furthermore, you will cling and make her life a nightmare after that. You need to check yourself.

You are not ready for the world of women (I know that sounds harsh, and I don't mean to be an asshole with you, but take my advice. Not just for the sake of a woman's mental health, but for your own), you are ready to find yourself, to help yourself, and to beccome a healthy, balanceed stud of a man that I know you can become. I have confidence in you lennie.

You need meditation, counseling, a great hobby that makes you feel good about yourself, and perhaps even medication. Once you have all that figured out, we are all more than happy to help you!

Ok I accept ur advice and U did give some good info and I fully agree on the evolution-part. But honestly I think you're not very nice to me at all and I don't like that. I could go into discussion about how healthy and balanced I actually am (apart from the women-stuff and the shyness but that's just one area), but I just think u went a little over board there. That wasn't very nice. I'm not the boneless chickenshit u picture me to be, it's really only that area.

Other then that, meditation yeah that would be something I really need. I actually bought 3 books about it some month ago, but I just haven't found the time to start reading in those (also I have so many unread books). But meditation is cool that could help. Self hypnose could help also with me breaking those barriers so I will definately look that stuff up on google, all I need is a good story on how you walk down those ten steps so you can go in a really good trance.

Uhm medication and counseling no way, I hate that shit. I won't ever do that (again)..

Also I have hobbies, and sport and stuff makes me feel good about myself and without that I feel ok about myself as well. Really man it's not that bad. And please don't put .. try to put me down like that. Ok? You can do that in a better way. You don't REALLY now me. I'm a good guy with confidence. It's just one effing problem and that's that I have a looot of trouble breaking a certain barrier. I already explained.

I honestly hope, u know this topic has already been ruined i think. I hoped this couldve been an interesting topic cause it's an interesting subject. Maybe I should just give in to the 'Game'-thing and accept that the method I would like just doesn't work.

Just please me nicer to me I'm extremely new to this pickup-world that I might just step into. I mean it's interesting and if girls LIKE to be played and be messed with then what the HELL? What's MY problem? If I wanna have sex more with real women and not stupid bitches that I pay for then I just have to join the game right?

WHO"s with me HEHEHAEHDEJAWAJDAJ....fuck you former poster let's be friends from now on and don't try to put me in lower social value cause i don't give a fudge about social value get it?

ok.