Background:
Ended LTR with my ex, went for her friends, turned her (former) best friend into my FB.

Problem:
FB now sending messages indicating she has feelings for me. "All these guys want me, but I only want you..." blah blah blah.

-Recently texted me following: "guess time will tell if we'll remain "fuck buddies". I think I may be looking for more than you are willing or able to give."
-Yesterday morning, I see a text saying "Men. Ugh!"
-She's starting jealousy plot by posting pics with her and guys, commenting "omg, went out with (name)... He's soooooo hot!!"
-Just texted me "R u sleeping? I'm kinda bored..." at 3:30am.

Broke cardinal FB rule (damnit) and hung out more than just sex. Went hiking, a movie, and to nightclubs.

Goal:
I want to keep her as FB. I do not want her as LTR or gf.

Possible Solutions:
Tell FB I'm not ready for and LTR with anybody. Risk losing sex, possibly risk losing other benefits (she cooks great snacks and works for an airline that gets me free travel as a "buddy pass")

Wondering what you guys might suggest in this situation? Dropping her just means I have to look for another FB as she's my only one right now. If you need more details, just ask.

Thanks for the help!

SEX FRIEND CONTRACT / FUCK BUDDY CONTRACT

This Sex Friend Contract is entered into on the day of ________________ 20__,

between __________________ (hereafter referred to as PARTY A)
and ___________________(hereafter referred to as PARTY B).


Terms & Conditions
A sex session is hereafter referred to as IT. Best Effort is partaking in activities for as long as possible.
1. No sleeping over, unless IT is very good and PARTY A needs to repeat IT in the morning.

2. No meeting in public except for dinner or drinks before IT, or when IT takes place in public

3. No calls before ______ AM/PM.

4. PARTY A retains discretion on which fantasies are acted out.

5. This contract prohibits any emotional attachment. Refer clause 22

6. No plans made in advance, that is why you are called the "backup"

7. This is not a mutually exclusive contract for PARTY A

8. No baby talk, however, dirty talk is encouraged.

9. Any instructions/HOWTO’s given to PARTY B shall be remembered and practiced

10. No calling each other "friends with privileges", we are not friends, just fuck buddies.

11. Procreation is not an option - Termination is the only course of action.

12. No extra clothing, I don't want your ass leaving anything behind when you leave.

13. No falling asleep right after IT, it's over; go home. See Clause 1

14. Don't be offended if I don't ask if you enjoyed IT.

15. You cannot borrow my vehicle for any reason.

16. If anyone asks who you are, the standard response will be "my SPAM's friend".

17. Best Effort to accommodate all requests by PARTY A should be made by PARTY B

18. Scheduling of IT is at the sole discretion of PARTY A, however PARTY B is welcome to make suggestions

19. No condoms, no IT.

20. Bring your own alcohol, I am not your liquor store.

21. Documentation of PARTY B may be held for historical purposes by PARTY A.
22. Should PARTY A wish to terminate this contract, effect is immediate

22a Should PARTY B wish to terminate this contract, 14 Days notice, or 6 IT’s, which ever period is longer
23. The aforementioned rules may only be altered by PARTY A.
23b. If the PARTY B wishes to change or alter any terms of this Agreement, it is at the sole discretion of PARTY A

PARTY B’s Signature___________________ Date_______________

PARTY A’s Signature___________________ Date_______________



It's hard to give up a FB when you FEEL there is no back up plan, regular pussy with no strings is hard to beat.

But sooner or later they will always want MOORE!

Face the fear and cut her loose, or establish a realationship!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Yeah that is exactly right. FB's arent meant to last forever and they NEVER do. They usually last a few weeks maybe months. Then someone catches feelings and then BAM. Or someone gets into a relationship or begins talking to someone else.

So yeah usually FB's are temporary.

In your situation its kinda difficult to go back to that point of FB's, because her logic has kicked in now that you have spent time with her on a GF/BF level. So now she wants more from you. If she really feels this way, she will more than likely stop the sex as "pay back" or revenge for you just wanting to use her as your FB now. If you tell her that you dont want a LTR with her but want to remain FB's her "logic" is going to make her feel used, and slutty. The FB thing is pretty much over. Dont be needy though, have a sense of abundance and dont let her see you NEED her as your FB.

So if you ask me this situation may be over and it will be tough to recover, but nothing is impossible. You should just let her know where you are take it or leave it.

Trust me, if she is feeling you like that, in her head she would rather keep you as FB's than lose you all together. In her head there may still be a chance that her good loving, snacks, and benefits you get from her may just make you fall for her.

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http://theattractiveu.com

I recieved this text last night from a FB:

Her: I really like you Heywood, and I just want to hang out with U without the commitment....ok there I said it!

Me: No reply

Her: Sorta prelude to the sexual end of a evening!

Me: I get what your saying...I get it

Her: But I will commit to the fact that I will not share this body with any other Men!

Me: Gnite HB get some sleep your thinking to much!

Her: Saturday????

Me: Maybe

Her: Ponder that Heywood.....Gnite sexy!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Honestly...fucking sick and tired of retarded ass topics like this....has anyone here heard of ABUNDANCE MENTALITY?

It's a fucking wonderful thing. I have FB's but if they get feelings, then I drop them because I always have someone else. Honestly....you want to keep her cause she makes nice snacks? Jeesus christ, grow the fuck up people and make your own snacks.

Fucking bums.

Well said bro. A lot of these topics are like "one-itis" topics. This is a PUA forum, everyone here should or needs to get the ABUNDANCE mentality. It makes a HUGE difference in your game.

Ever since building and working on my inner game to have the abundance mantality my game is going to a new level. Because i can honestly care less if a girl flakes, acts like a ***** or anything else because i will go out this evening, today, tomorrow and the future and meet 100 more other girls. Just like that.

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http://theattractiveu.com

Man...I can tell you with guarantee too many of the guys are here for all the most retarded reasons. And I hardly think anyone on this forum is anything but credible when it comes to such retarded ass posts like this.

Kudos on getting the friends of the friends FB but it's like seriously beyond fucking retarded. I just find shit like this to be insulting to what pick up is really about: variety. Not bitching and moaning of little accomplishments in a small ass group of women and fucking best friends, friends of friends etc. To me, that's just lame.

Nice Captain!...... That's exactly right, My example is to point out, they say they are okay with being a FB but that seldom lasts long, you can read the clingy feeling with out much trouble in the 1st text RED FLAG!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I didn't post here to have my thread hijacked, and I do understand the "abundance mentality." Perhaps you could take the time to understand me though. I don't have time to waste going out and pursuing girls every night when I'm founder of multiple startups and companies. I don't have a 9 to 5 job like most people. Weekends merely don't exist for me, and my job is 24 hours. My goal right now is to make money, and fuck some girls on the side. Sex and girls don't consume my life like it does to some people on this forum.

Anyways, thanks for your "alpha" opinions. I think what I'm going to do is just cut her off from sex and friend zone her, move on to other girls that I've been in touch with.

Love that sex contract by the way, lol.

Sounds typical to me, this has happend with ever FB I have had! started out both saying we just wanted to have fun, but after a while the girl start to get attached and bring up being exclusive, and when I say "No I am not looking for anything serious right now" it makes them become more and more attached, and they start to get very jealous of the other women I am with.

You can keep stringing her along, chances are since her interest in you is so high and she fears of loosing you she will do w.e you want! but be prepared for back lash! be prepared for her to tell you she loves you, or is jealous and cant stand it ect ect...the more you bang the more she will want you!

The thing that I find so crazy is that she bailed on her best friend for you haha what a bitch! and in the end you will prob end up breaking the poor girls heart lol but she know what she was getting into so its not your problem!

As for what you should do? Just be honest with her, no need to lead her on, if she knows you don't want anything serious she can't hold it against you....she knew what she was getting into and I would just tell her "why ruin a good thing? we have fun, I enjoy hanging out with you but I am not looking for a LTR"

Not trying to give "alpha options" or beat a dead horse but looking at it from an abundance standpoint... what youre describing should be annoying you. You cant make snacks? Meet more flight attendants on the last flight coupon she gave you?

Life is about priorities... If life right now is about your paper then by all means ignore women. If you live in Vegas there are numerous options that are short terms and you can get your nut off and get back to making money! But you do come across from the scarcity state of mind. While harshly put, captain is right! You choose your priorities!

One of my favorite rap lines ever: I dont know whast better, getting laid or getting paid... I just know when Im getting one the others getting away....