Situation: Cute virgin, shy girl, totally not my type for any kind of relationship other than friends. We used to go to the same HS, now I'm at university. We haven't even talked more than probably 2 sentences, but she is my facebook friend anyway. It all started when I put a status about my mom pissing me off(she is basically conflating all over the place and kind of thinks that I fuck every girl I speak with, which is pretty annoying. But that's not the point here). So she messages me about how her mom pisses her off all the time too. Typical teenage problems. When I find out she's a virgin I instantly know that I do not want anything from this girl.

I talked with her about many different things. School, Family, Friends for first. Then more interesting things like some spiritual shit, effectively remembering and controlling own dreams(damn she's so naive she bought all my shit without question...) HOWEVER... I made sure that sexuality is avoided as much as possible, and I even stated it clearly that I have a no-no policy against virgin girls. Of course... it's in my personality. I couldn't help but flirt a bit but it was very innocent. Commenting on her using way too much smilies and things like this.

I also met up with her once. I made sure to demonstrate EVERYTHING that I know doesn't match for her. I talked about my drunk stories(she doesn't like drinking), I talked about how outgoing and social I am(she doesn't really like people and going out generally). How much I tolerate every dick-head(she hates and despises of people who she views as unintelligent) and what a good relationship I have with my ex girlfriend(she never had a boyfriend before). I was literally ANTI-GAMING her.

And it blows my mind away that she just doesn't get off me. She messages me everyday. She tells me lines like this: "I hope it's not a bother that I'm writing to you, but talking to you just makes me feel so good"

Seriously... what is wrong with this woman? I know it's a strange question but why does it work what shouldn't? I basically kicked every PUA principle in the balls. I lacked sexual tension and escalation, I didn't apply push-pull theory at all. I demonstrated values which she should find unattractive. I didn't (or at least intentionally) create attraction, only rapport, I didn't even think about seducing. It's like I purposely wanted myself in the friend-zone. The only values that she can find attractive about me are these: interesting, funny, nice(yeah... I was fucking NICE to her all the way), intelligent. And we have some things in common e.g. she too wants to come to a med. school. Is this enough? Were all my attempts in vain just because of the person I became from pick-up and the unfortunate things we have in common(annoying parents, med school plans, similar music and pet tastes, similar thinking about politics and education)?

Really guys... I want to keep her as a friend because she's a very nice girl, and I like nice girls as friends, so I don't want to tell her to just fuck off. If I knew the cause of this maybe I could just do something about it. (Oh... she's not the type that if I don't make a move she'll just move on and find another guy any time soon. I know that from a story she told me...)

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Haha. I'm currently in medschool, I love fucking said described girls. You said you did anti-PUA techniques...why did it work bla bla. Player, life is a numbers game, people are fucking variables. You said you did the opposite of a lot of shit, you were incredibly nice, also talking about ex's and all this shit...to be honest I didnt read your entire post...but the reason she didn't leave is as you said, girlie is desperate, may be hot but lacks any real options, you're probably the first guy she sees in some way OTHER than a friend so shes taking a lot of your bullshit , etc. It's a huge exception to the rule, which is what she is. Don't throw out every PUA thing in the book just cause this 1 girl proved to ...want you without them...

I give webinars on SPAM about this...haha ....anyways...cant go more into detail without writing a huge fucking 4 page paper so ill stop here.

I know about another guy that she was kind of into. Why I said that she was not the type who would just move on if I didn't make a move is because the guy was messing around with her for 2 fucking years. Unlike me however he was a bit more cruel. He told her how he didn't look at her as a friend but he never made a move. She asked my opinion about this and I told her the truth what I thought: "Girl, listen. I don't know this guy, but I know guys well. He's probably just toying with you. 2 years and he did nothing but messing with your head. That's not how I behave with someone that I'm interested in"

Next day she told the guy to fuck off and that was the point too from when she's become really clingy.

Of course I won't throw all PUA things out the window. I know that shit works. I just wanted to understand this girl and some advice on what to do with her to keep as a friend without hurting her, if that's possible.

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You have to make it clear "You're the best friend I ever had!" or "You know...I advise all my really good girl/friends....thats why i know nothing can ever happen with them."

Problem is...i tried this and one of them fucked me...and I seriously wasn't into her....fuck...

Just try to push the friend frame on her.