| Hi everyone, my name is Sam and I am 21 years old and I've stayed most of my life in Dubai. I recently got to know about the game. I am a shy kinda guy.
About 4.5 years back I had no friends and I used to be a complete loner. I used to spend most of my time on computer learning something or the other about hacking and different stuff. I weighted 115 kg and my height is 160cm.
Thinking about a female friend or a gf was never a huge concern that time, I just wanted some friends in my life that time, didn't matter guys or girls.
I thought people and specially girls like guitarists so I started learning guitar, I started playing and I got averagely good at it but could never gather the courage to play infront of anyone and impress them a lil( except my mom.)
Then I thought if I were slim I would have confidence, and i joined a gym. It took me a year to get to 68kgs form 115 kgs and I can confidently say I had a beach body with nice abs too lol, I went from 0 in looks to 8. I became more confident about my looks.
With that confidence I earned 4 friends from my class in school ( total lame guys, virgins till this day ).
Then I thought If I stay alone without my parents, I might learn about life a bit more and open up a bit with my attitude. Then I went to india for 3 years for my bachelor course in comp science (expecting I would get a lot of boobies and cool friends in college). There were a tones of HBs and cool people but.... they were just not with me.
well the positive part, I did loose my virginity and had sex with 6 different girls in 3 years but those girls I never liked, all the girls were below 5. There was a classmate who was a 9 and somehow I became a very close friend of here. I had a huge crush on her since the moment I saw her in my first year and in my 3rd year I finally spoke to her through a friend. After chatting for 5 mins she asked me "are you new in this college, never seen you before". I literally got a heart attack after that.
She was my oneitis and she still is. After knowing each other for 9 months as close friends and me trying to get out of the friend zone, I kept looking creepy to her and finally lost her completely.
At the end of my last semester I met a serious Bike accident while racing someone. I had to undergo 2 major surgeries on my right shoulder and right knee. I had come back to Dubai. By 12 weeks after surgery I had normally started going out. This whole time I was getting physically better every day and staying at home alone whole time was also getting me worse socially as well. I have also gained a lot of weight recently. I felt that I got in a total looser state once again.
The best thing that happend to me while I was on bed. It was I got a book which literally gave a life changing path, every one on this forum knows that book, it's "The Game".
After reading the game, I went through a lot of books about PUA while I was still on bed.
After some time I was able to go out to sarge and I went to the closest mall every day. I used to spend 1 hour minimum every day and for the first 3 days I came home with zero approaches, I could not even OPEN a single set. On my forth day almost least bothered about going out, I still went out thinking about I'll not come home until I've opened at least 2 sets. That day I approached single 1 set and came home. I was not upset today for not fullfiling my target, at least I had approached someone. I was happy and boosted about next coming days. I was following the book called "rules of the game".
I kept sarging every day and On my day 14 I finally got a perfect number close of a HB 7. I called her later that day, here responses were very positive. After talking 2 minutes on the phone she invited me to have coffee with her. I was least bothered about the coffee, I just wanted to check if my game played was good enough and does she answere the phone.
Today was that day 14. I finally did something which I just read in the book and saw only on YouTube some people do it. It's nothing big, people do k closes and f closes as well but, today it really feels like I've achieved something measurable and I need to keep doing it to have better results.....
I was so boosted so just thought of sharing it with you guys.
Thank you for reading, I hope this was not too boring....
Cheers everyone
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