Long story short-er, I have a oneitis that I developed all throughout college. I've asked this girl out and hung out with her a bit but I waited too long to make a move then got rejected. I had another chance months later but was getting ready to move so didn't go for it. Now I just moved from Florida to California to pursue my acting career.

I changed my number and am trying to forget about this girl though I think about her daily. Two months go by and I am thinking of her less and less.

Then she randomly messages me on facebook saying how she was heartbroken that I wasnt returning her texts and that she finally called me and it said my phone was out of order. She wanted me to call to catch up.

I wait a day, she writes a sad face so I finally call her. We talk for a good 45 minutes and she becomes really flirty. Telling me that she got a victorias secret catalog in the mail and that if I was here, I could have gone shopping with her, blah blah. She wants to visit and may consider going to med school out here. She even said she would only go to the 10 yr reunion if I went.

So now I start developing those feelings again and it is making me mad. She always showed signs of interest but very vaguely and then would show indicators of disinterest.

She even sent me seven pictures through text of her new place, her running in a sports bra for triathalon, etc after our call. Then when I respond, she says nothing back.

She is clearly a tease...what do I do? I was just getting over her and now this. I've never felt about anyone the way I feel about her. Should I ignore her forever or what should I do? I am about to start gaming on a lot of girls here now that im settled in which will help.

Any advice?

It would have to be either option 1 or 3. She lives in Florida and I live in cali so I cant really tell her to "be with me or go to hell" lol.

But since we did hang out/talk a bit, I would feel like an asshole if I just dropped her completely and never talked to her or respond to her again.

But that might be the only way to fully move on. If I keep doing the freeze out and then getting feelings again, it would be a completely useless cycle.

Is there an "alpha" way that I can end it next time she calls or texts? I know I shouldn't tell her exactly how I feel but is there a way I can tell her that I cant talk to her anymore because I need time to get over her? There has to be some combination of words that can work...

Yea your right bro,i kindda sent her an apology and if she wanna stay friends or not and i did mentioned i'm just offering that,want or not is up to her and if she wants to she can call me up and just be friends and she doesnt reply me lol.So now i will fully detach myself from her.Imma start sarging other girls.