So I met this girl two weeks ago and we hit it off right away. Within a week we had gone on two dates and kissed on the second date. Shes on the shy side and her friends tell me she is very picky. We planned to chill this week and she said she'd like to go.
Her best friend likes me, and she told me that this girl was just leading me on. She said that the girl told another one of her friends that she doesn't really like me at all. I'm pretty sure she is telling the truth, not just telling me that in order to win me over. However, before when I told the best friend that if I wasn't dating her friend I would be dating her instead, thats when she told me that the girl didn't like me, and that shes leading me on. If her best friend is lying, shes a scumbag. If she's leading me on, shes a scumbag. What are your opinions on what I should do?

Man I love this situation, we've all been in it from time to time and as a guy you want to be in the girls position. Now as girls get hit on day by day then they build up a list, a list of go to guys current and ones from the past, if you've made out and you think she likes you and she knows you definitely do then your on the list of booty calls. As a dude you want to be in that position. She sounds like a player, she might not be but i'd just text her once, see if she is still interested. If there's no reply then screw it try out her friend... it's her own fault, you never know you could get two for the price of one... But if you see her as the future Mrs. DanHMan then try not to play them, but if you just want a quick relationship then play the field.

To round up i'd say you're still young and there's plenty of girls out there, go speak to some new ones and see if this glowing beacon is still shining so bright, if it isn't then this thread and question is irrelevant because you will always be able to go out and pick up a new subject.

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Other than her best friends account, i have no reason to think that she doesn't like me. I would never lie about something like that and screw over my bestfriend. But why would she still be up to hangout if she doesn't even like me?

Because her friend is a jealous bee-otch.

It's such a brutal situation, I'm either gonna have to chose a side or stealth my way into seeing both. They're best friends though, so they tell each other everything.

you have 2 choices
1) continue and deal with the drama thats about to ensue you (someone how you are going to lay one of the 2 friends)
2) drop them both and find a new set.

Most girls who say they are bestfriends and does that kinda shit is just a 2 face whore. True bestfriend wouldnt go after the same guy and support one another. These girls are more like " keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer". If you wanna deal with that kinda shit, by all means keep presuing them.

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hey,

it's cool that this girl gave you some info, but there is no way to gauge her authenticity, and girls say alot of things when you are not around to boost up their egos (even if it is true what she said, she could be full of shit trying to look cool to her friends)

and if you were not aware, what this girl did happens quite frequently, especially among guys, alot of guys have no shame and tirelessly pursue girls with boyfriends when the girl is not interested in them sexually just because the girl talks to them and they are afc, so they just bash the girls boyfriend in the hopes of stealing the girl, seldomly ever works out for them, but can cause some drama for the boyfriend

be weary of this kind of thing and use your own judgement, if you think the girl is leading you on but you are interested in getting something sexual started with her, one easy way to find out, is stop letting her set the frame, and you just start leading and escalating, set a timeline for yourself to reach a certain level of compliance, if by the time you have reached the timeline she has not complied, just go meet other girls, not your problem after that, the girl is wasting time

don't let this girl dictate the pace, just set it without permission, she either complies or does not comply, just take full responsibility for everything that happens and re-assure her if she has doubts that it will be ok, she can trust you, you know what you are doing (lol even if you don't)

GOOD LUCK