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PostPosted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 5:01 pm 
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Ill tell you a story of what happened today. Im a junior working at college over the summer. I went to our fast food court and BOOM theres some kind of freshman orientation and them girls are walking around socializing and picking up pamphlets for organizations and stuff. I saw this one girl who was sooo good looking. I was considering approaching but I realized I was NOT a freshman. This was an all freshman orientation with no one around but heaps of freshman and their orientation guides. In most cases, it'd probably look cooler being an upperclassman but I was almost sure Id give the air of ''beta super nervous guy trying to up his value to try and match the girls by boasting about being an upperclassman'. Honestly my presentation is bad and reaks of low value. I considered pretending to be a freshman but all the others had ID tags around their necks and stickers and bags. I coulda lied and said I threw that stuff away or something but it honestly felt like I would be setting me up for more and more of a huge disaster later on if I got caught (the saying goes: the more you lie the bigger the fall or something like that about digging yourself into a hole). Say if the guides said it was time to move and didnt recognize me or the girl sniffed me out or others sniffed me out as lying or I was forced to move along with the group until the point where they brought us somewhere else and I got identified as 'not part of this group'. Anyhow, it was probably the best chance I would have and I ended up doign nothing. Even if I got caught for lying about being a freshman and humiliated it would have still been interesting. Another big problem was my looks. I was thinking about it the entire time while regretably hovering around and considering approaching (though she did not see me). I am semi-short and my thick glasses are 2 traits that make me very self concious. I am skinny to but I can fix this eventually with the gym. I am deathly scared of lasec or contacts so those are out. :/ Id be good looking with no glasses and be slightly taller and more muscular.
One last note: I spent around 10 minutes walking around the booths just to look around and also to look at girls. Out of all the girls there, she was the only one of like two girls that I considered good looking (her being the prettier one). I noticed the entire time people socializing and talking in sets, and maybe 1 or 2 coming up and introducing themselves. Heres the kicker: She was always alone. How is such a good girl just standing there alone? I only saw her and a bunch of male losers standing alone, everyone else in sets. I guess 2 sides of a spectrum. Losers and intimidating looks? But then again it could have been so many factors: she wanted to be alone, she was busy, it was only 10 minute period, she was texting on her phone for a reason. But then again, I had the feeling that she wanted to talk to someone but was alone so pretended to be busy on her phone and this was a time of social interaction as everyone was just standing around. I did see a couple of Hb6s standing alone too but meh, they looked like they were used to it. Damn, I sounded like such a jerk there. But no I was looking at personality too and the Hb6 I saw standing alone was making mannerisms of a bit of an arrogant personality while the 10 was acting kind of humble. I could have easily still been blown out or rejected by her if she found me disgusting and made an excuse to leave but looking back I should have approached. I should have been indirect the entire time when I did it too. I honestly thought if I came on really indirect and welcoming and not scared and nervous as crap, I would have been able to become her friend and maybe nclose.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 5:08 pm 
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Hey, you're making this too hard for yourself. Try contacts, don't be scared they won't eat your eyes. Go to the gym, dress nicer. Don't think about all this shit if you're not gonna do it! Wtf? Walk up to her, say "hey you looked like you could use some company. Don't worry, we were all freshman once. Here (take her hand), let me show you around." And you don't need any contacts or musles for that, do you now?


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 17, 2012 3:04 am 
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you may be right but Ive gotten so old and now it looks degrading or like Im too low class if I hit on girls who are lower grades than me...

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 17, 2012 7:20 am 
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Lol you are worried about class when hitting on a girl from a lower grade? What is this middle school? Just go for it. Being concerned about others opinion of class is rather beta


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 17, 2012 8:25 am 
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FUCK HER!


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