She ended things with this guy because he didnt want to put a label on their relationship as gf and bf. We were good friends before. We started hanging out more after that but i didnt make a move because i didnt want to end up being a rebound.

Went clubbing with her and we ended up back at her place cept my buddy was there as well so i didnt really have the option to make a move (plus still wasnt sure if she was over the other guy). Sort of pissed off though cuz she was flirting with guys all night. I was drunk and made a move on her but she told me "dont expect to get any of this tonight". I got pissed and told her i got other girls i can easily fall back to (the thing is, she knows it too). She told me and my bud we had to leave cuz its getting late. I was pissed off for the rest of the night thinking that she was just a tease. (except now i know i just didnt play it right).

Two weeks later, she texts me and we agree to meetup to go clubbing again. She shows up with her friend both plastered as hell. She kept repeatedly kissing me on the cheek all night as well. I was doing a good job impressing her friend since i knew the manager and gave them free drinks all night. Walked her back to her place, and she smooched me on the cheek. I told her i think you can do better than that. And she gave me a quick peck on the lips. Didnt wanna escalate cuz her friend was stayin at her place for the night.

Two weeks passed and we were busy so couldnt meet. We went for coffee. She told me she was wasted the night when we went clubbing and didnt remember anything. Didnt really do any kino during the date, a few awkward silences (coffee dates suckk).

Two weeks passed. (shes quite busy) Went for coffee again. She told me it looked like id been working out. Told her "ye im trying to impress this girl, except shes been too busy lately so i dont get to see her as much as id like to". She told me "i hope its not me cuz ur gonna have to do better than this". Rest of the coffee sesh was less awkward this time but still cant really kino and im getting friendzone vibes again. She also told me she had a crush on this guy at work. (tryin to make me jealous or friendzone?)

Texted to jam again but she didnt respond until a couple days later. Said she was busy and doesnt have time this week but maybe during the weekend. We kept texting each other back. Near the end i asked how her canada day was? She never responded back.

Two weeks have passed and she hasnt texted. Anyways its just pissin me off cuz she usually texts and invites me out but ive been the one initiating it for the past encounters so im guessing she lost interest. But she is actually extremely busy working from 10am-11pm and only has a couple days off each week. Before all of this, I would make fun of her calling her "easy" as well. She also knows that id take my previous ex out to fancy ass restaurants (AFC days).

Sorry bout the long post but any suggestions? Try to invite her out the club one more time or move on/freeze out?

um you are letting her control the frame. she has found another guy, you mentioned this. The fact that you mentioned that you are getting the friend zoned vibe is true. you been friendzoned buddy.no doubts about it. you have never escalated and its been over 1 months and just going out for coffee? There is no excitement in that. Feelings fade quickly when you find someone else more exciting. move on this one is done for.

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Something i forgot to mention is that id be seeing other girls in-between our meet ups and a lot of pics of me drunk as hell with other girls at clubs and shit would get tagged on facebook. (nothing scandalous though). I joined a frat recently so she knows I have a constant flow of sororisluts that I meet on the go. The chick doesn't do one night stands, she only sleeps wit guys she can see herself in a relationship with, so would these pics of me with other girls tick her off to the point where she just lost interest?? I didn't like the friend zone chills i was getting so i didn't untag the pics to make her feel more jealous. Did this play a factor or was it mostly my inability to escalate physically?

I would drop it and move on, but I sort of took over her social group. All of her friends like me (her dusty bff also has a thing for me, FML), so i know I'm gonna be running into her again. She's also rich as fuck (lives in a half-mill condo located in central downtown), very smart (plans on getting a pHD lol), and prob one of the hottest girls on campus. So ye Id feel like a goof if id just completely drop it and let something like that walk out of my life. (oneitis-much eh lol)

Once again, my bad bout the long post. I have a lot to learn and I've only just started reading Neil Strauss' "The Game". I feel like i tried to game without even knowing the fundamentals and it pisses me off when i look back and realize all of the opportunities i didn't take advantage of. Anyways, i plan on studying up and creating a new-self after going through this failure (plus I'm on my cutting phase so ill be shredded by the end of the summer).