I’ve learned a lot this past month studying the mystery method, david deangelo, the lovesystem instructors and style to name a few. Ultimately I realized, it’s not so much the material they have. It’s the attitude and confidence behind it that’s attractive. They map out game plans, but ultimately, if you’re not feeling strong upstairs it just won’t pan out. I’m definitely an AFC in every essence of the term but have been making strides.

I’m trying to take it beyond just picking up women (even though that’s the primary goal ) I just generally feel better internally in my day to day life. I’m ready to take the next step .. Rome wasn’t built in a day (in my case I thought it would take a miracle)

A lot of posters on the form are socially savvy and intelligent. I live in a new city (Toronto is beautiful) and want to participate more rather than just observe. Ultimately, I’m trying to build a social circle. Are there any books/resources that you guys recommend? I’m aiming to be an effective communicator with coworkers, clients, and build a social circle. It’s going to take some sharp skills but I’m willing to work. Any general conversation tips or such you guys may recommend would be greatly appreciated.

Cheers, guys.