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nice article.
But missed the part about the fucking or progression towards the lay from the nightclub.

Dont mean to be awkward, but you said three women a week, what is this? Are you fucking three women or is that three phone numbers or makeouts.

as to your post - here's my thoughts. (my background - decent dancefloor game, and tend to get a makeout most times I'm out, sometimes used to set myself challenges of making out with 5 women a night within 5 minutes of meeting them, and once made out with 12 women. I've stopped the hardcore makeouts and take it easy now, gradually escalating the vibe, non verbal escalation, working bucketloads of comfort, and working toward the extract and SNL)

1. Going out alone or with a wing at most is a good idea. I find that I can extract almost half the time I go out if Im with a skilled wing. Far more often than if Im out solo, or with a poor wing or more than two people.

2. Parking. This is cool with me. I wait for eye contact, and sometimes wait for the women to approach. They sometimes touch me a couple of times to make sure I get the hint. Never known it to scare women away in my experience.

3. looking at a girl multiple times. man, have I fucked that one up thousands of times. The good ol deer in headlights approach, instead of just going for it. There is the 3 second rule for PU, but on the dance floor its closer to the one second rule.

4. grabbing and touching when opening. this is absolutely okay from a rapid escalation point of view. I was surprised when I first tried this, but the women kept coming back, even if her friends sometimes pulled her away at times. idiotic uncalibrated grabs are a definite no no, but a confident rapid escalation i.e. within seconds, works wonders.

5. chasing. good point here. i sometimes get irritated, and dont approach the girl again though. and I have noticed if I dont put my price up and approach after a while the girl is okay with it.

6. buying the girl drinks. I dont sweat over this. sure, I dont do it too often. but I think its overrated. dont be a chump of course. but Ive often slept with girls Ive bought drinks for.

7. body language and failure to pick up hints. sometimes persistence is attractive. drive is attractive. ive had girls pull their friend away, and when Ive waited patiently outside the club, the girl has gotten rid of her friends, come back and we've left together. its important at times to persist through a girls barriers to sex. sometimes of course, it is a dead duck and no use pursuing. but not as often as we'd like to think.

8. failure to engage the group. I keep fucking this one up.

9. approaching difficult sets. yeah, ive often done the indiscriminate approaching thing.

10. fighting. definite no no. as is even marginally losing your cool. unreactivity is key.

11. leaning in. whilst this is important, I dont worry too much about it. Im aware of it, but if the cloud is loud, then i lean in and use the opportunity to get really close to her, close enough to brush her cheeks with my lips (which I often do).

12. approaching from behind. yeah, rarely works out well.

13. bumping the girl. I do this often. I interpret a girl turning around as a shit test to weed the alphas from the poor intent betas. I step up, put my arms around her and dance.

14. aggressively going for the makeout. fuck that. Ive had 300-350 makeouts. probably more. and i wish I had fewer. just a tiny makeout at most, if she wants more she has to come home with me. sometimes giving her a full on makeout is enough validation, and attention for her to walk away happy.

15. asking the girl to dance. yep, always a bad idea, unless you've been speaking to her for a few minutes.

16. high energy or low energy. I used to be high energy, but have now dialled my energy all the way down. it looks odd, but it works. i get women coming up to me, and if theyre milfs they throw almost aggressively themselves at me.

17. getting too drunk. basic error.

18. dancing monkey. basic error. looks beta and kills attraction.

19. lack of calibration. yep, again, the drink question comes up again. now you know why I dont worry too much about it. calibration is key. but allied with persistence, and working logistics gets a whole lot easier.

But seriously though, where in all of this are you getting laid or moving the interaction towards the lay. This sounds a lot like my early PUA years, when I was making out like nobodys business, and fretted over shit like buying a drink or not, or worrying about how I looked if i was dancing alone ('parked' as you said on the floor), and indiscriminately escalating.
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Guys i want to talk to you about how to make a "napkin rose" when i am at the clubs in isolation, what i do is i go to the bar, give the bar tender a dollar, and then ask for a pen, i give the pen to the girl, with a napking and say here, (then i shut the fuck up), the girl will start writing her number on the napking(i never carry my cellphone cause is bulky in the pockets, and affects my frontal grinding), anyways when she is writting the number on the napking, i start doing a napking rose, sometimes i get interrupted by the girl with what are you doing, and i ignore the girl, and say hold on, wait as she is talking, and i am making a napking rose, when i finish the napking rose, i say is not much but is mine, and i place it, in between her cleavage, even if she does not have cleavage.....DO NOT USE THIS TILL SHE IS SUPER INVESTED, CAUSE IT WILL COME ACROSS AS TRYING TO IMPRESS, TRYING TO IMPRESS WILL KILL ATTRACTION....

here are the tutorials on how to make a napkin flower, the girl is kind of annoying she needs dick in her mouth, but this is how i make them:





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nice article.
But missed the part about the fucking or progression towards the lay from the nightclub.

Dont mean to be awkward, but you said three women a week, what is this? Are you fucking three women or is that three phone numbers or makeouts.

as to your post - here's my thoughts. (my background - decent dancefloor game, and tend to get a makeout most times I'm out, sometimes used to set myself challenges of making out with 5 women a night within 5 minutes of meeting them, and once made out with 12 women. I've stopped the hardcore makeouts and take it easy now, gradually escalating the vibe, non verbal escalation, working bucketloads of comfort, and working toward the extract and SNL)

1. Going out alone or with a wing at most is a good idea. I find that I can extract almost half the time I go out if Im with a skilled wing. Far more often than if Im out solo, or with a poor wing or more than two people.

2. Parking. This is cool with me. I wait for eye contact, and sometimes wait for the women to approach. They sometimes touch me a couple of times to make sure I get the hint. Never known it to scare women away in my experience.

3. looking at a girl multiple times. man, have I fucked that one up thousands of times. The good ol deer in headlights approach, instead of just going for it. There is the 3 second rule for PU, but on the dance floor its closer to the one second rule.

4. grabbing and touching when opening. this is absolutely okay from a rapid escalation point of view. I was surprised when I first tried this, but the women kept coming back, even if her friends sometimes pulled her away at times. idiotic uncalibrated grabs are a definite no no, but a confident rapid escalation i.e. within seconds, works wonders.

5. chasing. good point here. i sometimes get irritated, and dont approach the girl again though. and I have noticed if I dont put my price up and approach after a while the girl is okay with it.

6. buying the girl drinks. I dont sweat over this. sure, I dont do it too often. but I think its overrated. dont be a chump of course. but Ive often slept with girls Ive bought drinks for.

7. body language and failure to pick up hints. sometimes persistence is attractive. drive is attractive. ive had girls pull their friend away, and when Ive waited patiently outside the club, the girl has gotten rid of her friends, come back and we've left together. its important at times to persist through a girls barriers to sex. sometimes of course, it is a dead duck and no use pursuing. but not as often as we'd like to think.

8. failure to engage the group. I keep fucking this one up.

9. approaching difficult sets. yeah, ive often done the indiscriminate approaching thing.

10. fighting. definite no no. as is even marginally losing your cool. unreactivity is key.

11. leaning in. whilst this is important, I dont worry too much about it. Im aware of it, but if the cloud is loud, then i lean in and use the opportunity to get really close to her, close enough to brush her cheeks with my lips (which I often do).

12. approaching from behind. yeah, rarely works out well.

13. bumping the girl. I do this often. I interpret a girl turning around as a shit test to weed the alphas from the poor intent betas. I step up, put my arms around her and dance.

14. aggressively going for the makeout. fuck that. Ive had 300-350 makeouts. probably more. and i wish I had fewer. just a tiny makeout at most, if she wants more she has to come home with me. sometimes giving her a full on makeout is enough validation, and attention for her to walk away happy.

15. asking the girl to dance. yep, always a bad idea, unless you've been speaking to her for a few minutes.

16. high energy or low energy. I used to be high energy, but have now dialled my energy all the way down. it looks odd, but it works. i get women coming up to me, and if theyre milfs they throw almost aggressively themselves at me.

17. getting too drunk. basic error.

18. dancing monkey. basic error. looks beta and kills attraction.

19. lack of calibration. yep, again, the drink question comes up again. now you know why I dont worry too much about it. calibration is key. but allied with persistence, and working logistics gets a whole lot easier.

But seriously though, where in all of this are you getting laid or moving the interaction towards the lay. This sounds a lot like my early PUA years, when I was making out like nobodys business, and fretted over shit like buying a drink or not, or worrying about how I looked if i was dancing alone ('parked' as you said on the floor), and indiscriminately escalating.

Well re-read it( i cover it somewhere in the post), as you know getting snl is mainly based on logistics, i am a big fan of day 2, for many reasons, everybody has different goals, for more info. go to the skills method of texting, 3 minimum is girls invested, with tons of buying temperature, and heavy makeout/physicality/bjs....As you know i can not give too much away here since i need to leave stuff for the book...

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yeah.. that's what I thought.. no information about getting laid in the post.. no information about getting laid in the book.. and you say its not here because it has to go into the book.. and even your text messages are a meandering extended back and forth without a push for a day 2..

'massive investment. buying temperature. physicality.bjs' what's that? nothing. you sound like a KJ. massive investment?!! so this is your three girls a week..

and even your guide is a basic level beginners guide that really doesnt give any practical advice on how to move things forward.. sure theres a ton of stuff on what not to do (which as Ive shown isnt gospel).

I feel bad for being harsh on someone just starting out, or with just a couple of years under their belt. But acting like a know it all player when all you're getting is a couple of makeouts and an occasional day 2 lay, and writing what will probably a fairly practically useless dancefloor guide drives my response.

And in the meantime, makeouts dont count. physical escalation doesnt count. I know, ive done it. As you have the years under your belt, you minimise makeouts. Because the more you makeout, the more you look like an overly horny teenager, and the more you kill your chances of a lay.

If you keep improving, you'll come back and look at this (and my feedback to your post) and say, yep. The sumbitch was right.
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yeah.. that's what I thought.. no information about getting laid in the post.. no information about getting laid in the book.. and you say its not here because it has to go into the book.. and even your text messages are a meandering extended back and forth without a push for a day 2..
ah??????? Look dude, getting laid usually happens towards the end of the night, as oppose to the beginning of the night. Through the years, is my PERSONAL PREFERENCE, day 2, one motels are usually packed on the weekends(i go out fridays and saturdays), 2.- Hygines and fatigue.... 3.- some of the girls i like to keep around, i do not want me to associate with a negative experience(she feels like a slut et...), 4th(i hate sex in the car)... Where is your dancefloor game dude, where is your game, show it to me, or better yet, Invite me to your city, pay for my shit, and I will gladly show you...

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massive investment. buying temperature. physicality.bjs' what's that? nothing. you sound like a KJ. massive investment?!! so this is your three girls a week..
Ok, I said minimum 3 girls a week CONSISTENTLY... Call me whatever you want, if you do not pay my bills or give me pussy, i can careless what you think, but keep bumping my post, thank you!, And about the text game, read the reviews of people doing it, already couple of dudes got laid....

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and even your guide is a basic level beginners guide that really doesnt give any practical advice on how to move things forward.. sure theres a ton of stuff on what not to do (which as Ive shown isnt gospel).
This is a basic dance floor game guide on the fundamentals, yes the other stuff is on the book...
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I feel bad for being harsh on someone just starting out, or with just a couple of years under their belt. But acting like a know it all player when all you're getting is a couple of makeouts and an occasional day 2 lay, and writing what will probably a fairly practically useless dancefloor guide drives my response.
Don't feel bad dude, i can take it, i been doing this for almost 20 years...Where is your post and technique?????? Please post it so i can learn, where are your lays report and where is your game? again thanks for bumping my post...
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And in the meantime, makeouts dont count. physical escalation doesnt count. I know, ive done it. As you have the years under your belt, you minimise makeouts. Because the more you makeout, the more you look like an overly horny teenager, and the more you kill your chances of a lay.
OK, your right, who is the Kj? see you don't know what you are doing, that is the problem i am not you...


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If you keep improving, you'll come back and look at this (and my feedback to your post) and say, yep. The sumbitch was right
No you will buy my book, watch my videos and then you will read the link below and when and if you lose your virginity, you will come back and say "skills i love you dude thanks for your help"

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How do you typically close in a club?

It's easy to dance with girls seductively and get them hot & bothered. That's just what people do at clubs and I have no issues there. But how do you cross that social/mental barrier from doing typical club stuff to anything outside those doors?
Well dude it depends a lot on logistics( who she came to the club with, the cockblocks, time of the night etc...) ,the info. gathered during the interaction, i would advise you to take a look at mine(well poetic) dtf post do a search on it or you can find it on the warped mindless newbie guide on the lounge... I am not big on bathroom lays and i would even advise against that... I had a lot of success walking them towards her car with the excuse of making sure she is safe or you do not even need an excuse and asking her to drop me of at my car, then i manage to turn her on to the point of car sex(look for the skills bj routine), or i have her follow me to my crib, her crib, park, or in south beach to the beach, motels usually pack on the weekends if you drive around too much she may get cold feet, hotels are very expensive... My preference through the years,just like sexaddict says in his post is on the second encounter, cause i hate car sex, the pussy stinks after drinking beer, fatigue etc... also she may feel like a slut and associate you with her sluttiness(some of those girls i like to fuck couple of times after).. Also, i am a greedy natural, i like to go game other girls, after i gotten a girl, so i usually do this type of things after 2.30 am... Since i do not like to get stuck with a girl the whole night, for me is beyond boring, and kills my chances of getting other girls to my inventory, plus i like to have fun and dance, most girls unfortunately are boring as fuck and too predictable, once you know what you are doing and you get good at game, you will find most girls too easy and kind of boring...Do not be outcome dependent and do not force anything including ons the more accidental and smooth everything looks the better...

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Zingdoozer Here ^, I am gonna ad you need to control and lead EVERYTHING, in the interaction, Sinn is very good on ons, But in my opinion, there is no magic trick or line or routine...The thing is my personal style, i have a take it or leave it attitude, i do not force anything, i am sorry is not the answer you are looking for, but is my personal style..However if your goal is ons here is a post i make(well poeiticslysuak) in detail about the subject:

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Thanks for the love Skills...

If you want EASY same night lays in club game you can approach women who are sending signs of initial attraction to you or approach cues. I wrote an article on recognizing approach cues so that you can recognize initial attraction right here. http://scienceofnaturalgame.com/2012/04 ... ttraction/

Here is my Spotting her DTF signals article http://scienceofnaturalgame.com/2012/04 ... the-prowl/

Both articles will give you insight and make it easier to get same night lays. Basically you will have the advantage of looking for women with initial interest in you and women looking to get laid. Most men don't pay attention and this stuff can help get you laid with far more regularity with ease, after all you are only fulfilling what she wants. She wants you to approach, she wants to get laid, she wants to fuck, go over there and do what she wants. Pretty simple. My style is based off of capitalizing on attraction, not necessarily as much a PUA as some dude that has game and skills.

Enjoy and feedback is always recommended...


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Hey guys this is a good video, about different goals, styles, strategies, Todd from the game, Good timing too so the dude trying to pupu my post can understand... He talks a lot about club stuff... here:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ccsmfi8SzIs[/youtube]

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'out on fridays/saturdays'
'sex happens at end of night' and almost in same sentence 'I prefer day 2's'
'its all in the book'
'pay for my travel'
'if you dont pay my bills or give me pussy(?!!)'

*sigh* *rolls eyes*


Anyone with a modicum of success (even more than 5 women a year) will see right through you.

Dyed in the wool KJ who can get a few makeouts and the very occasional day 2 lay.

I get like this because I see another KJ releasing a scam useless product.
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'out on fridays/saturdays'
'sex happens at end of night' and almost in same sentence 'I prefer day 2's'
'its all in the book'
'pay for my travel'
'if you dont pay my bills or give me pussy(?!!)'

*sigh* *rolls eyes*


Anyone with a modicum of success (even more than 5 women a year) will see right through you.

Dyed in the wool KJ who can get a few makeouts and the very occasional day 2 lay.

I get like this because I see another KJ releasing a scam useless product.
No offense bro but if you are so good with women why don't you provide some info rather than tear down his. Your behavior is useless in this thread, your disdain for him doesn't make his info useless. Just because there will be more valuable info in his book doesn't mean this info is useless.

You have a whole month on these pick up forums and you are here to inform us about PUA pros on all this info. Just another scam useless product, that would only be valid if he actually offered a product as it stands he has offered nothing but info.

OFFER INFO TO UPGRADE THE THREAD OR LEAVE THE THREAD. Your behavior isn't helping, could skills give more info? Yeah, but can you? YES. Have you? NO. Is your info helping get girls or just bitching and moaning about not getting info.

Skills is about direct game so that means offering a lot of don'ts which I completely agree with. Some people don't realize that just because you are going to Direct game doesn't mean all behavior is acceptable. With direct game you need some sort of outline in order to be most successful.

A few make outs? LOL - Offer some stories to go with your theories on club game. If not you again are offering shit to this forum. If you can see through his behavior you must have vast experience with club game, you must have tons of stories and great theories. Your understanding of human behavior is very good so bless us with your concepts.

Basically what I'm saying is if you knew so much about PUA or courtship you'd understand his style holds a lot of validity. Please open your mind to what you get not what you don't get.

Good luck in all your future courtship endeavors.

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out on fridays/saturdays'
Yes that is my preference before it was Thursdays(college night) and Saturdays, I just go out twice a week...

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sex happens at end of night' and almost in same sentence 'I prefer day 2's'
Dude i have not problem with you disagreing and challeging me, but do not take stuff out of context, when i did or do have one night stands usually happens towards, the end of the night, anybody that actually gets laid will tell you the same thing, usually after 2 am...
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'its all in the book'
It is in the book, but i also posted the link to Poetic, who has the DTF, if your goal is SNL...
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pay for my travel'
Yes i was offering you to pay for my travels and coaching, so you can learn something, or you can just get the book, watch the videos and try it... If it does not work for you try something else...
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'if you dont pay my bills or give me pussy(?!!)'
Yes if you do not pay my bills of give me pussy, i can't care less about what you think of me, but keep the debate going, you are bumping my post, win win... thanks again...
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Anyone with a modicum of success (even more than 5 women a year) will see right through you.

Dyed in the wool KJ who can get a few makeouts and the very occasional day 2 lay.

I get like this because I see another KJ releasing a scam useless product.

Did you see your post, talking about no escalating and talking about if you make out you look like a horny teen... Again attack the subject, no the messenger...


Again what is your method, where are your posts, where are your field or lay reports, Have you had anybody in the forum get laid, what value do you bring, well you do bring value keep bumping up my post...


Edit well i just saw What your so call game is clown:

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Learning a fair bit from your thread. Thanks for helping us guys.
I've been having a couple of double digit lay years, and tend to get a lay a month or two. And sometimes 3-4 in a month. But at other times I have dry spells that go on for 2-3 months. So I would like to be more consistent. I've had 6 years at this, and should be a whole lot better than I am.

I've changed my approach style since I started reading this thread.

Instead of going for the hottest girl in the place, or dropping down and looking around and approaching indiscriminately - Ive changed my approach behaviour. Over the past week I've been doing your style.

Ive stopped approaching women who are in groups. I think they're low yield approaches. I now tend to approach women who are alone or with a friend. And the ones who give me eye contact. I approach less hot women than the ones I used to. Though it still feels difficult to drop down, as I was getting better at approaching, and generating attraction with the hotties. But thats still early game, and my close rate is still nowhere as much as I'd like with the hotties. I was getting better until I decided to play it your way. Go for the ones who are already interested in me, or give me eye contact. Though Im still missing the eye contact or indicators of interest, and only realise after the night that there was something with a couple of girls that I didn't follow up.

I have a specific problem Im dealing with - I get women giving me eye contact and coming near me with an approach invitation. Or even coming near me, after I've had a short chat with them before. But if I don't approach within that 5-20-30 second window, they move away.

How do I make best use of that little window. I'd like to think I have more time, wait for a bit more eye contact to get int. Maybe at least a minute or two to get in there. As I dont want to seem too pushy. But looks like 5-30 seconds is all I get.

So yeah, would appreciate any ideas on how Im meant to be using that window.

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Hey guys this is Warped Mindless his style for snl, very simple and straightforward, he is right on the money... However, i just go out to have fun, not necessarily to target snl, as i said my preference is day 2, in some cases i even turn down snl, so i can work on other women, specially if is early in the night, my logic is if you fuck a girl let say at 2 am by 3am you are done, and you want her to get the fuck out of your house asap, or you got a be stuck with that girl, i rather get 2 to 5 girls that i can eventually fuck later(get them to send me naked pic, screen them etc...), but that is me......I am all about efficiency so if i am at a club and there are 10 equally hot girls that are my type and i want to approach, i would pick out of the 10 the ones that are giving the body language reads that they are open, vs approaching the ones that are giving me no reads(that would be way more efficient) since time is king for example in clubs... But again in my experience when i put in my head let me go out for SNL as a goal( SCARCITY that will be counter productive) if go out with the frame i want to have fun( ABUNDANCE and more often than not i have snl opportunities).... Cause anyways sometimes the girls during the interaction(for example dancing) that do not act dtf(sexual) are super boring, so i automatically get rid of them and move on(out of boredom) instead of coming across as try hard...here is from warped mindless:

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Ever been in a bar/club talking to a woman, things are going well, she likes you and you like her but then when you try to pull her home all you get is a number?

Its not that she didn't like you, she probably did! The truth of it is she simply wasn't able or open to going home with you that night. This could be for many reasons and isn't important. Whats important is learning how to find good prospects for SNLs (if thats your goal).

The following guide will teach you how to identify and find women who are good prospects for pulling home the same night.

First, we must cover some simple rules.

1) The 15 Minute Rule

This rule is rather simple; After talking to a woman for 15 minutes, if I don't feel sex with her is likely that night I get her number and move on.

This rule will keep you from wasting time and if your goal is to pull a same night lay then time management is vitally important.

2) The 50% Rule

This is another simple but powerful rule. 50% of your escalation attempts should be resisted. This means that every time you try to move the interaction forward sexually she should resist 50% of the time.

For example, lets say after a few minutes you try to kiss her and she resist. Few minutes later you try again and she kisses you back. Then you try to move her to a couch and she resist. You keep it cool and try again a few minutes later she she complies. Thats 50%.

Why 50%?

50% is the perfect number because it lets you know if your escalating to fast or to slow. If more than 50% of your escalation attempts get resisted then you need to slow down. If much less than 50% get resisted you should be more bold and escalate faster.

If your not sure on how to escalate you can read my Sexual Escalation Guide here: [link]

Sexual Screening

The next important part of finding a good prospect is sexual screening. A big part of this is finding women who are actually out looking for a man to go home with. My buddy, poeticlyskuac, wrote a great article on finding these women which you can read here: [link]

Okay, you have found a women who seems to be out looking for a man to take home and you have approached her. Other than sexually escalating and having fun, what else specifically should you be doing to see if shes a good prospect to take home that night? You check for the following things...

1) Logistics: Very quickly you want to find out who she came with, what time she has to be up, where she lives, what shes doing later, ect... If her answers arn't conductive to pulling her home that night, get her number and move on.

2) Responds well to touch: If a woman isn't letting you touch her at all she probably wont sleep with you that night. Remember though, its a woman's nature to resist and expect her to do so. However, there is a fine line between her playfully resisting and her not wanting to be touched at all. It also helps if you have her isolated away from her friends before you test how receptive she is to your touch.

3) Lets you move her: This is actually a big one. I always try to move the chick within the first 15 minutes. If she doesn't move with me then I know the chances me of pulling her home that night are slim to none.

Trying to move her is easy. Simply look at her and suggest moving to the bar, over to a couch, outside to get fresh air, ect... Remember, if she wont move with you, shes probably not going to sleep with you that night.

4) Comfortable with sexual talk: If she shys away from the topic of sex every time you bring it up and she changes the subject when you start sexually flirting with her then shes not going to sleep with you that night.

Once you have your fundamentals down and you follow the tips I have laid out in this guide, the number of women you pull home the same night will improve dramatically.

Remember, when looking for a same night lay its vitally important that you be efficient and manage your time well. Don't waste time on girls who are not good prospects and work fast to find ones that are.

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Amoging vs. Shit test in the dancefloor:

A shit test is when the girl you are dancing with will INITIATE the dance with some other dude to see how you react, and to try to make you jealous... In this case you let her, remember to get a girl you must be willing to lose the girl... So she is testing to see if you are man enough or needy(this happens to me a lot)... In this case you are neutral, keep dancing, or open other girls(she will come back)

2.- Amoging is when you are dancing and some other dude(usually agresive alphas, blacks, a lot to much to drink whites and hispanics) not trying to be racist just my observations, when you are dancing they will try to dance(sandwich) or get body positioning to steal the girl... The right way to handle is to turn her around and give the dude the back something like this... JUST REMEMBER THERE IS A DIFFERENCE WOMEN SHIT TESTING(she initiates)... Dude amogin( he is trying to steal/sabotage) i do something very similar to this, but dancing, just by body language but with more sophisticated turns:


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLhEAFk7CA8[/youtube]

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