Met a HB10 at the bar tonight. We engaged in a very short conversation. Her jealous ugly friend immediately pulls her away from me when she sees me and forces her upstairs. HB10 blurts out, "Nice meeting you" as her friend drags her away. I see her outside the bar at the end of the night, say "fu*k it" and decide to approach her and ask for her #...

As I walk up to her to ask her #, 2 other random dudes start grabbing her and trying to block me and pull her away from me. Her ugly friend is trying to fight off the 2 creepers. HB10 steps away from the 2 creepy dudes, leans toward me and gives me her number.

Our conversation was only exchanging names and pleasantries, but she did seem to be intrigued by me.

What are some creative/great texts to send her to get her curious about me, wanting to know more, and viewing me as someone she really needs to meet again??? Felt like I made a very strong first impression but I didn't have time to build comfort so I really need to arouse her curiosities and get her excited about me!

Assuming she is a perfect 10, remember that she already has a bunch if men texting, emailing, Facebooking, and calling her. They all want the same thing you do. She wants something new and interesting, and trust me she's heard it all.

Do not use logic when texting. It's an art form not data entry. Don't ask questions unless it's handling the setting up of a date.

Here's the rules of texting effectively.

1. Your first text should put you on her map. That's it. It doesn't matter if you get a reply or not. Either way, you are now in head a little bit. If she does reply, wait before sending text #2, but not longer than a half hour.

2. Your second one should have an emotional impact and create a connection. That's it. If you spark some emotion you are getting her further invested than just some guy she met.

3. Your third text should be about setting up a date. Do not be a guy she texts all the time. You lose points being her phone buddy. She already has those. If she can't yet or won't go on a date, go back to step #2, then maybe a text or 2 not asking questions, then another invite.

Since I know little of what you discussed, Ill give an example out of my phone from a gal I met at a Marylin Manson concert the other day.

Me-hey sexy, single, and succesful..!! It's SLIPKNOT from the show. I'll change that second one for th both of us.
Her-I was thinking of you today, glad you text.
Me-That's awesome. I just read a sweet book and I'm gonna test it on you.
Her-what book?
Me-nevermind, I'll tell you about it later. Let's get together on Tuesday, be ready at 7:00
Her- 7:00 should work.

She flaked, but I expect that from desirable HBs. I just went back to a step 2 text and tried again.

Me-I got a vasectomy last month. Is that going to be an issue? Kidding, I'm a virgin, I probably shoot blanks.
Her- You're a virgin too?
Me- Oh it gets worse. My cock is like really small. If you ever see it could you just pretend it's huge? The only upside to this coin is I'll never hurt you. You won't feel a thing.
Her- Hmmm, field trip to Sexworld?

During this interaction, I'm sure I'm not like the other guys texting. Plus I got her to think of my dick without being sexual, I didn't try to qualify myself to her, and notice the babe who flaked on me is inviting me to go to a 3 story adult movie and sex toy shop for our first get together.

Before our actual date which was just drinking at a fun dive bar, I set a sexual tone before the get together.

Me-would it be inappropriate if I make out with your face the minute I see you today?
Her no, that would be hot.
Me- You + Me = trouble. I'm in.
Her- me too, I'll call you when I get off the freeway.

So basically if a babe is texting you, you still have a chance. Be DIFFERENT. Go ahead and steal my vasectomy text or small cock text. It works, if you don't believe me try it. Hope this helps.

I keep my texts to a minimum and I have the opinion it is much better to seal the deal in person.

I use text for arrangements only and not for chat. Women are pretty switched off to too many IMO.

Thanks for the advice, guys! Definitely agree that the texts need to be much different, humorous/edgy and something that is attention-getter.

Slipknot,

I kind of like the "Vasectomy" line....

I texted, "I have 17 children so I got a vasectomy last week. I hope you can babysit my kids sometime! Fun times last night, xxxx"

This is ridiculous and over the top, but I got the feeling she is probably getting lots of similar texts from overly nice guys and a$$holes (either boring, similar, needy or overly sexual/trashy), and I needed to hit her w/ something that will make her REMEMBER my name and number. It seems the most important point is getting her attention since she was also drunk when I met her and the encounter was short. If she doesn't respond, then I will most likely dial it down w/ the next text.